Falling in love: a sign of weakness?
in Psychology & Therapy ·
Mark Nelson said:Whenever we fight for something worth having, there's always a risk involved.
Asking "what if" questions doesn't really change anything; it just keeps things stuck.
Women, generally speaking, are incredibly good at picking up on signals. You only have to scroll through this forum for a second to see that. 😁
It's the same way they know exactly how to send signals when they're interested in someone. Your job is just to watch, pay attention to how she acts, and not force anything.
Then you can decide for yourself whether it's worth making a move or if you should just walk away. 🙂
Since we’re already dancing around this topic, there’s this one woman—according to some of the local gossip—who used to be quite fond of me back in the day. She’s been in a long-term relationship with someone for ages now.
She flirts with everyone else, plays the field, all that nonsense... except with me. When she catches my eye, she acts awkward—almost uncomfortable—and tries to make a quick exit immediately. I’ve tried to strike up a conversation, but I’m met with nothing but absolute, freezing ice. I even asked her out for a drink once, but she insisted that things were better as they are. Now, when other guys call, she’s all smiles and no trouble. I don't buy a word of it... my gut tells me her heart skips a beat whenever I'm around. Plus, I catch her stealing glances at me when she thinks I'm not looking. Is that a genuine signal, or am I just overthinking the whole thing?...