Need advice: Sestrin's boyfriend is couchsurfing at our place
in Psychology & Therapy ·
mistymaker84 said:It’s not really her usual vibe, honestly. As far as I know, this is her first actual boyfriend... before this, it was just girlfriends crashing on the couch for a night at most.
She’s turning 19 soon, and if you want to put a label on it, she’s definitely a total "Daddy’s girl." She actually got married when she was 19 too, which is probably another reason why everything seems so standard and "by the book" to them.
I mean, what can the old folks even do? Tell her she’s not allowed to see him? Or forbid her from moving in with him? Let’s be real—they’d probably stop talking to her altogether, and the second she gets her own paycheck, she’ll pack her bags and ghost them anyway.
Her sister hasn't said a word to her dad about any of this, and frankly, she doesn't care. It’s like it hasn't even crossed her mind that having someone move into my place might be an issue for me. Even if it did, she couldn't care less; as long as she’s doing fine, everyone else's business is none of hers.
Look, do you actually have a tongue? (Since you clearly have enough fingers to type this stuff out...) Maybe try using it to actually talk to your sister and your folks instead of venting here...
we aren't exactly going to jump through hoops on an internet forum to fix your sister's boyfriend situation at your house...