What were your biggest pregnancy surprises and pet peeves?
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Paul Campbell8 said:That’s all well and good, thanks, but no thanks. Check back in two months. Before then, I won't be in any state to play host, and I’ll have way too much on my plate with my kid to deal with visitors. There's plenty of time for guests later. You've got to be blunt about stuff like this.
I've already made it clear that I don't want anyone dropping by during those first few days, or even weeks. If someone decides to ignore that and shows up anyway, they’re going to be pretty disappointed with the hospitality.
That's exactly how I handled it right after they made their little suggestion🙂. And honestly, I don't give a damn about being rude, but it seriously grinds my gears when people just refuse to get it, which basically forces me to act like a total bitch just to set boundaries.