I guess I'll just leave this here—hope you guys have a good one! kaže: I guess I should probably start by saying hello—it’s nice to finally be here! Maybe we can all get to know each other a bit over time—I'm looking forward to it.😘 Just signing my travel docs—looks like I'm all set to go!
So, I've pretty much decided that I don't want to be pregnant—I guess that's just where I'm at right now.😬 Just wanted to let you guys know—just in case.🤣
P. S. So, my plan to get pregnant just hasn't quite taken off yet—which led me to this little realization—so I figured I might just try "flipping" my mindset to see if that helps things along... maybe? Maybe—I guess? A little bit of progress—I guess!😎
I just finished paying for my ski trip—so that’s all set! 🤣 🤣
Well, I guess that might just be for the best—maybe. 😘 My husband and I decided the same way—we aren't actively trying or planning for a baby right now. If it happens, great! If not... well, I'm sure it'll happen eventually—it's probably just a matter of time. I guess it's better not to overthink it, since life usually throws you those unplanned curveballs anyway. So, just enjoy your ski trip and don't stress about babies or pregnancy or anything like that. Don't even let it cross your mind—just focus on having fun and enjoying intimacy as much as you want. It’s clearly not the right time yet... there will be plenty of time later.
We're still young... I guess that's what keeps me going—it really is. 🤣 🤣
I just hope I don't dwell too much on what she told me today... she did give me some Plimycol suppositories, though—and she mentioned it's hard to say if I'm pregnant yet since my period isn't due for another 5 or 6 days, and I have bloodwork scheduled for Wednesday. I guess I'm not really getting my hopes up anymore... it's not the end of the world, I suppose...
I'm not going to let this get to me... I'm honestly ready to start trying again... If I took every negative result to heart, I don't know where I'd be at this point... The main thing is that I'm healthy, so I'm sending my husband in for a semen analysis ASAP... haha... well, that's what she told me...
I'm being a bit of a mess today, I guess—what can I say? Thanks for all the support lately—it really means a lot to everyone😲 😲 😲
Hey everyone—so, I’ve got some news, and while it isn't exactly what we were all hoping for, I guess I’ve realized it’s not the end of the world either... I went to see my OB-GYN this morning, but honestly, nothing changed... I mean, she didn't even really look at me during the ultrasound, just handed me the test and—well, it was a big positive, but there wasn't a second line in sight... oh well, I think I'm done stressing myself out over it... maybe one day it'll just happen unexpectedly... I tried describing my symptoms to her using some medical term for ovulation—I don't think I even pronounced it right, but it doesn't really matter... the main thing is that I'm not feeling nearly as sad as I thought I would be... those symptoms really did throw me for a loop, I guess... but I'm staying positive—hopefully, my day will come eventually... until then, I've decided not to dwell on it anymore... to all my fellow moms-to-be out there, I'll always be right here with you—wishing everyone the best luck... cheers!😘
magic blue said:actually, I think it’s the opposite—the more time passes without seeing a result, maybe there's even a better chance the doctor will confirm a pregnancy later on👍
Well, okay then... I don't even get my period for another five days... so I guess a test wouldn't even show anything yet...😍hm, sending lots of good vibes your way!
Wedding said:Rachel Walker52 why push it so hard? don't take this the wrong way, but I feel like the more you force things, the less likely it is to actually happen... maybe just relax, enjoy life, and let things happen naturally—you'll know when the time is right 😘
I don't mean to be critical, but hormones can be such a tricky thing and they can really mess with your head—I've known plenty of women who were certain they were pregnant, only to find out it wasn't real 🙂 (and that can be pretty devastating)........
If God has blessed you with a baby, it'll happen when it's meant to be, without all the constant checking and counting symptoms—so maybe just try not to overthink those feelings 👍
Well, I'm not really forcing anything, I was just sharing how I feel and hoping for some advice or maybe a different perspective........... honestly, the more time passes, the more I start to lose hope........... and besides, I'm not forcing it at all... whatever happens, happens, though I guess I can still ask a few questions here.......of course I want a child, but if it doesn't happen now, what then??? life goes on, and I'm sure it'll happen eventually............ But I'm definitely not imagining my symptoms, and I'm not trying to force anything............I guess I'm just feeling a little down about it all........😛
Hey everyone, I'm back............ a little tired and sleepy, but mostly just the usual stuff.... I had some weird twinges in my right ovary while lying in bed last night—nothing too crazy, though......... so today I gave my OBGYN a call and she was like, "Well, you know your own symptoms better than anyone..." and I was just like, "I wish! I'm honestly not sure if this is actually it"............. anyway, she told me to come in first thing tomorrow morning so we can finally figure this out...... and gosh, I'm always stuck in this state of limbo, aren't I? But I'll let you all know tomorrow what she says and what the news is.......... Sending kisses to you all.......😘 😘
Maybe just some magic blue—I guess? It’s kind of pretty—anyway! kaže: 👋 Looks like we have a new mom joining the group—or maybe just a whole new category of "almost pregnant" folks—I guess! 😁
And my little bit of magic—it just seems to give people hope, even if it’s maybe a little "fake" hope... I guess.
I don't want to bore everyone here with my symptoms—I've been dealing with this for almost three months now—but honestly, it’s never felt quite this intense... even right now, there's just this dull ache. I can't even stay in bed anymore; I feel totally wiped out, though I guess I keep obsessing over these little symptoms because they're kind of the only thing comforting me right now... I decided against buying more tests and followed your advice, so I'm just going to wait this time... it feels like my only option, but I'm not giving up—if nothing happens this time, well, a new month is coming anyway... I don't even know what to think anymore, I just really hope I'm not imagining all of this and that there's actually a chance... ha... it seems way too early for all these signs since it's only been nine days since ovulation and my period isn't due for another five or six days... so, who knows? I'm basically living on this forum lately... I won't even let my husband touch his laptop... I'm constantly hovering around him, searching for any tiny sign or some silly clue that tells me "this is it," but I think Monday will probably be the real answer to my doubts... oh well, we'll see what happens.
Hey everyone... I feel like I'm constantly dealing with these weird symptoms, though it might just be way too early—I guess... and by the way, my test came back negative, so maybe I just tested too soon? But whatever... I really shouldn't dwell on all the "what ifs," it's just exhausting... plus, I still have five days until my period starts, and Monday is coming up fast... so I'll find out then how things are going. Right now, I'm just nesting in my bed—you wouldn't believe it, I just woke up and my husband has been gone all day... he went out with his buddies to work on some farm stuff and they're grabbing lunch there. It’s actually kind of crazy having the whole day to myself, just eating my Corn Flakes and feeling surprisingly happy today... I think I'll set up a little romantic dinner for him tonight, and then it's straight back to bed... I honestly just want to sleep, especially since my head is pounding this morning—probably from sleeping too much, I guess. I've got so many symptoms going on—sore breasts, bloating, a bit of a fever every single night, and lower abdominal pains... also, I've been getting diarrhea quite a bit lately—sorry if that's a little TMI, but it's definitely more frequent than usual. The cramps are awful, too—they make me break out in a sweat the second they hit, it's just the worst... I have some white discharge, but only a tiny bit, and I've been burping a lot, especially in the mornings and evenings... none of this has ever happened to me before... my back hurts, I'm not sleeping well, and I'm just tossing and turning... I don't know, it's just a bunch of strange symptoms and I can barely get through making the bed without needing a three-minute break... it's a total disaster... etc... there's a whole list of little things, but maybe it's just intense PMS... who knows, right? Anyway, I'm heading back for another nap—sending you all huge kisses!😘 😘
That guy of yours sounds lovely—really sweet! I’ve always been a bit of a sleepyhead, I guess, but maybe not quite this much... I don't know... and my temperature has been up every single night too. It's been 99.1°F the last couple of evenings, when 96.8°F used to be my max... maybe just a little cold, or maybe it's what I'm hoping for... who knows, right? I won't find out until Monday, though—until then, I'll just keep hoping... regardless of how things actually turn out... kisses!😘 😘
😘 Hey everyone—it’s so sweet how you're all eagerly waiting for me and my little results... though my doctor hasn't said a word yet. I actually thought about getting all dressed up and heading over to her office this morning, but I totally overslept through her entire shift—so much for being productive! I didn't even get around to making lunch for my husband... but luckily my mom was here to step in, so he didn't go hungry. I guess I just woke up to find my phone dead—I left it plugged in overnight and forgot to set my alarm, so I missed her entirely. I suppose I'll just have to wait until Monday morning... I can manage a little longer, right? To make matters worse, my car broke down, which is my only way to get around, so there was really no way for me to make it. Oh well... hopefully Monday rolls around fast. It doesn't hurt right now, so I'm not dwelling on it too much... though I do have to pee constantly... and I'm just so sleepy. I think I'll head back to bed for a bit... kisses to everyone!😘
Every single muscle in my body feels disappointed—it’s just one thing after another. I guess the more I try to convince myself everything is fine, the more anxious I get... so I'm just going to leave all my options open for now and see where life takes me. Honestly, thank you so much for being there for me... it really does mean the world. I don't want to stress over anything else anymore... I'll just find out when the time is right.
Thanks again, seriously—it means so much to have your support... You know how everyone says, "Take it easy, you're young, you just got married," but for some reason, I just can't shake this restless feeling... who knows, maybe it'll all just work itself out naturally. Sending you a huge kiss!😘 😘 😘 😘 😘 😘 😘 😘
Oh man, I just did something so incredibly stupid... I guess my brain is just stuck on the idea that it might be "possible" that I'm pregnant, so I dug up an old test from two months ago and used it—even though it’s only been seven days since ovulation. I was just being impatient, and what do I see? Absolutely nothing. Total void. Now I'm sitting here trying to convince myself there's some tiny, barely visible line, but I think I'm just imagining things... I feel like I'm going to be sick. I know it's way too early to test, but I just had to know... and now I'm just feeling so silly and down about myself. It's just one more reason to go all out at the casino tomorrow—it doesn't even hurt today, but honestly, I'm losing my mind. I should probably just buy some new ones... maybe if I do, I'll have hope, but then again, I'm terrified of anything. Is it really too early? Please, someone, tell me everything is going to be okay... I promise I won't get my hopes up ever again.
So, I called up my local gin joint today to place an order, right? Everything was all set—until the clerk tells me they're totally booked up. But since I’ve got a bit of a family connection with the owner... well, I figure I’ll just head down there tomorrow and wait it out. I'm not leaving until they take me in—honestly, I've just had it with this whole situation lately... I'll head over first thing tomorrow morning... and then we'll see how it goes...
Benjamin Nelson8 said:Nobody actually enjoys doctor visits, but you really can't mess around when it comes to your health. I try to hit up my OBGYN twice a year—whenever I'm feeling somewhat normal, anyway—plus two dental cleanings, one blood and urine test, and all that.
It’s just better to get checked out so you know everything is fine... especially if you're actually in pain...
If I end up going, it'll definitely be because I'm totally freaking out—I'm just so on edge right now, almost like I've got early PMS or something, and I feel weird, just achy... kind of like I'm coming down with the flu... maybe that's it, but once I find out on Friday, I'll probably head in....... Man, I am so exhausted I can barely type this. I'm gonna go crash.........😘 😘
I don't know, I just can't seem to find the time—but I guess I'll check in first thing tomorrow morning. I'll have to power through it until then... I'm really not a huge fan of these visits, but I'll make it happen, I suppose... hopefully it isn't too bad!
It’s funny—I thought I was finally starting to relax, but now my lower abdomen is acting up again, kind of like those pre-period cramps... except I don't have my period for another 30 days or so. I’m seriously considering ordering from CVS....... or maybe I won't, I guess I just don't know, but this whole thing is really getting on my nerves...😘
MaLo said:That’s exactly how it felt for me—turned out I was actually pregnant 😍
Maybe it isn't that for you, though... maybe just grab a test or see a doctor
I used to hope for something like that every single month—but I've kind of given up. If it happens, it happens, I guess... leaving it up to fate..................
I don't really hold my breath much anymore.......... I've just decided to let things happen as they will... besides, my period isn't due for another ten days or so, and honestly, the folks at CVS are probably going to start giving me weird looks if I keep buying so many tests.......
I might as well have something to look forward to for a little while longer...........
Actually, I think I'm mostly just comforting myself at this point.......
Rachel Walker52 said:I went through the same thing last month and I'm doing okay now—my hormones finally leveled out, so we're basically in the same boat😘 mine and my husband have already jumped back into work mode, so whenever it happens, it happens🙏 I really hope we both end up back here on the forums as pregnant women pretty soon🙂 fingers crossed for us both🙂 Anna Ox: Jaooooooo😘 🙂 🎉congrats on the amazing news
Oh Jeremy Nelson3, I hope so too—actually, wait, I know we will... we just want to get back to our normal routines ASAP....................... I've started trying again, and honestly, regardless of what the results show, I'm not letting myself get worked up anymore—it'll happen when it happens.........until then, we can just cheer on all the new moms, and hopefully, we'll be joining them together before long...best wishes😘