Posts by Paul Perez2

frozenranger192 said:My period started last Saturday, but it was gone by Monday morning... which is wild because mine usually lasts a whole week...
Is there any chance I'm pregnant? I don't really have any other symptoms...🤷 😕

It’s definitely possible, especially if your flow was unusually light this time.

But honestly, just take a test so you aren't left guessing.😉 ....

If it's positive—congratulations! If it's negative, go see a doctor to make sure everything is okay (that's what I would do).

Keep us posted.

Yes, Kyle James5, I forgot to ask—could you actually live peacefully with the fact that your current boyfriend believes he's the father of that child, while you sit there knowing he might not be?

Kyle James5 said:Well, I guess it’s my turn to chime in... I’m pregnant and honestly, I am just completely lost 😢
I’m only four weeks along and I'm already weighing the idea of an abortion. I don't want to go through this whole mess alone, but I also don't have the strength to deal with it by myself. brisbadger11, seriously, major props to you 👍

Here's the deal: I have a boyfriend who is absolutely over the moon about adding a new member to the family, but there's a massive catch—I'm not even sure the baby is his. God, I feel sick just thinking about it. I cheated on him, and now everything is just falling apart 😢
I am totally spiraling and I have no clue what to do next 😕

This is a messy situation... but let's be real, nobody can help you except yourself.
Are you actually prepared to raise a child on your own? Are you even in a position to do that?

Can you sit your boyfriend down and have a brutally honest conversation about this? Though, knowing how he might react, that’s a massive question mark—which is a perfectly reasonable expectation.

And are you ready for the fallout of a potential paternity test? Like, would they even want that to happen?

At the end of the day, no one here is going to dictate your life. This choice is entirely yours.
Good luck, and keep us posted on how things unfold...

urbanbadger8 said:Hey everyone,
I took a test this morning and it was just a single line 😢
My last resort was back on November 5th, and we were together on the 15th—which was actually the only time, unfortunately, since things just didn't work out for us to be together again—so I’ve been wondering if it’s even possible to conceive. Some of the math suggests that the 15th might have been my first or second fertile day, though ovulation usually hits around the 22nd... I can't tell if I just tested too early, even though I tried to wait as long as possible before taking it. I'm starting to feel those classic PMS symptoms, mostly just some mild cramping in my lower abdomen for now. My cycles haven't really been consistent lately either; over the last few months they've been all over the place, like 28, 26, 33, then 35 days...
I'm honestly not sure if there's any chance at all. In my case, I guess my guy's swimmers would've needed to be pretty high-energy to hang around and wait for my egg to show up ;-) I'd love to hear what you all think about this.
Best, Anne

Anne, since it's clear you're eager to conceive, you might want to head over to the "Wannabe Group." There are plenty of us there who can answer your questions and join you in waiting for that positive result. 😍