Sure, they play the part perfectly in social settings. In fact, most people don't even realize what they're looking at because, let’s face it, most people are suckers for surface-level charm. You see a handsome guy with an intense, magnetic gaze, and you're hooked before you even think to ask if there's a serious psychological disorder lurking underneath. my husband fits the description for both disorders—histrionic and narcissistic
People are still constantly debating the same old questions: are illnesses dictated by our genetics, or are they shaped by our environment and how we’re raised? You see this same tug-of-war when discussing intelligence, cancer, and so on. It really comes down to nature versus nurture. Family definitely plays a massive role in shaping these behaviors. Think about it—if you grow up in some ultra-snobby, high-society family, or conversely, if you’re born into poverty, the consequences manifest differently. If you come from nothing, you might end up obsessing over status once you finally make your first real paycheck, basically covering yourself in gold like a tacky Christmas tree just to prove something. But honestly, a lot of it depends on how your parents handled that struggle. Besides, a huge portion of the brain isn't even fully developed at birth; it develops later, likely adapting specifically to the environment around it. (Sorry, typing fast on this keyboard).
Alright, Kenneth Price74. Give me a little bit of time to digest everything and wrap my head around it, then I'll try to get back to you with an answer.
You mentioned once before that your CT and MRI scans came back clear. However, brain scans taken during a manic episode actually show heightened activity—those much more intense colors on the imaging—and for instance, in studies involving twins where one sibling has schizophrenia, the MRI often reveals larger areas of fluid within the brain. Did your MRI show anything along those lines?
Are we talking about whether the devil or God is responsible for shaving them over a longer period? Or is it just a case where they get copied all at once?
Kenneth Price74, tell me what you think—why is it that people suffering from psychosis end up taking their own lives? Do you think they've been influenced by some movie, or is it just because living with a mental illness is too much to bear? Or maybe it’s because they lack a support system—nobody to love them or truly understand what they're going through? I've noticed on this thread that the first symptoms usually start showing up during late adolescence. Do you think those recent suicides involving minors I heard about recently in places like coastal towns in Florida or parts of California have anything to do with psychosis?
Jerry Martinez5 said:That’s exactly why I’m asking: can a therapist or psychiatrist actually help someone find a partner? Can we fix the reason we've been single for years just by changing ourselves through therapy?
The moment you frame the question like that, it shows there’s a fundamental misunderstanding of what’s happening here. If you're looking for a psychiatrist, you clearly have a different set of needs—you're trying to fix specific clinical issues. A psychologist can certainly help you work through your internal struggles, which might eventually give you the clarity needed to figure out your next move, but they aren't going to go out and find a partner for you. Their job isn't matchmaking; it's helping you navigate those deep-seated personal hurdles that prevent you from functioning properly in the first place.
If you’ve actually done the work to build yourself into a solid person, you already know your own worth. You’re constantly evolving, putting in the hours to refine both your physical presence and your mental fortitude. At that point, you don't waste time obsessing over those kinds of questions—the right doors just swing open on their own.
Amanda Ramirez69 said:It’s basic math—2+2=4—and things should work accordingly. We don't need to reinvent the wheel here. You either know what you want, or you don't, and that's that. Problems only start cropping up when people pretend they aren't sure. If someone doesn't want a relationship, then fine, they don't want one. If someone does want one, then they want one. I couldn't care less about the specifics; we're just overcomplicating everything...
The thing is, connections rarely happen right when we're hunting for them; they usually show up when you least expect it. You have to take a step back and ask yourself: who am I actually becoming? In my experience, life tends to reflect your own character back at you. You attract what you've earned through your own growth. If you aren't a high-quality person, you won't find a high-quality partnership. My philosophy is simple: focus on self-improvement to gain some actual perspective. Once you do that, you can stop obsessing over the outcome, because things will naturally fall into place when they are meant to.
Sandra Parker3 said:Like what? Besides, maybe someone just isn't looking for a relationship right now, which wouldn't be all that weird if that's the case.
@ Amanda Ramirez69, what kind of dark reproduction are you even talking about 😕
It’s basic math—2+2=4—and things should work accordingly. We don't need to reinvent the wheel here. You either know what you want, or you don't, and that's that. Problems only start cropping up when people pretend they aren't sure. If someone doesn't want a relationship, then fine, they don't want one. If someone does want one, then they want one. I couldn't care less about the specifics; we're just overcomplicating everything...
Sandra Parker3 said:I don’t know, I’ve just never really been someone who finds people attractive purely on a sexual level, totally isolated from everything else going on in their head. Even those feelings of "crushing" on someone always felt way too intense for me. Sometimes one side takes the lead and sometimes the other does, but at the end of the day, I just can't seem to untangle raw instinct from actual logic.
I'm not talking about some kind of clean break or a sharp division, if that's what you mean.
The fact that you can't separate them isn't some deep philosophical dilemma; it's just your own issue. Truthfully, everything boils down to what you're actually looking for. When you know exactly what you want, you get it—one day it's this, the next it's that. It all comes down to intention. What is it that you're actually after? Life works in a very straightforward way: if you lack clarity, you're lost, but once you define your goal, you achieve it.
It all boils down to reproduction. You can throw psychology, philosophy, physics, or any other field at this, but none of them will offer a single shred of help.
The holidays are right around the corner, so just take a breath and relax. We all deal with enough high-stress situations to drive anyone up the wall, and honestly, it’s hard to just switch it off. But why start worrying about getting sick before the season even kicks off? Instead of spiraling, try focusing on decompressing—get a massage, spend some time outdoors, or hit the gym. Don't let the negativity get the better of you; learn how to flip the script and turn things around in your favor.
Donna Sullivan7 said:Eric Brown23, man, I get where you're coming from... it's tough. But how are you actually helping yourself through this? Besides having faith in God—which I totally respect, and it’s great that you're fighting and staying afloat instead of just letting life sweep you away... there’s still hope out there... Honestly, from everything I see people saying online, I get this nagging feeling that everyone thinks they have it the hardest. It kind of shows how subjective we all are, you know?
Exactly, Donna Sullivan7. It's always someone else's crisis, someone else's drama... as if we don't all have our own heavy lifting to do. Personally, I handle things by visualizing a filing cabinet in my head. I sort every single issue into its own specific drawer. One problem goes here, another goes there, and so on. There is a place for everything. The trick is being precise about where you put them; once you categorize someone's behavior, you stop dealing with the frustration of unmet expectations because you know exactly what they are capable of. If someone catches you off guard, that's on you for miscalculating their character, so you can only be mad at yourself😵 rather than wasting energy on them. It works perfectly every time.
briskgull27 said:This condition is honestly so overwhelming that even doctors hesitate to officially write down an F20 diagnosis on your medical records. I personally can't wrap my head around what exactly makes my experience so "abnormal," and truthfully, I don't even want to find out since it's a lifelong journey. I've been dealing with this for ten years now. People often compare managing it to living with diabetes. It’s such a heavy burden that you'll occasionally run into someone offering "alternative" cures just to get their foot in the door. A doctor friend of mine once explained that it's sometimes referred to as "cancer of the soul." As for me, I don't really have any desire to fully embrace that "reality." That's all for now! 👏 Would you actually want to have a close friend or a family member living with schizophrenia?
Looking back at several of your posts, it seems like you're really preoccupied with how everyone around you perceives you, isn't that right? Why does it weigh on you so much—whether they judge you, accept you, or reject you? You have to realize that even "normal" people deal with these exact same questions and dilemmas. I know plenty of people in my circle who aren't fully accepted by those around them, but why let it bother you? That's just how society functions. Then again, there's another group of people who don't give a damn; they accept their environment exactly as it is and refuse to be rattled. You mentioned once wondering what would happen if you moved to a new neighborhood—how people would point fingers and whisper, "Look at that crazy person..." But honestly, the same thing would happen if it weren't you. If some guy from a different background, or someone of a different race, or anyone else perceived as an "outsider" by the status quo moved in, the reaction would be identical. In this day and age, making a real friend is hard. We don't need hundreds of acquaintances; we just need one true friend. You already have your brother, your husband, and a few good friends—you're practically wealthy in social capital! What more could you possibly want?