Is the accordion a marginalized instrument?
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Gary Cooper11 said:I mean, I know... it all just leads right back to my original point, doesn't it? 😛
Gary Cooper11 said:Yeah... but what if we flip the script?
That’s really what’s been weighing on my mind lately...
I mean, looking back at all my relationships, I’ve noticed a pattern: I always seem to attract guys who are okay with how I actually behave towards them...
The only real issue is that they get used to me being pretty arrogant or saying some pretty harsh things when certain situations pop up. That isn't who I want to be—I don't want to crush anyone's spirit—but honestly, my self-control just isn't quite strong enough to stop myself when I start reacting intensely!
Does that make more sense now? Because that is the core of the problem!
P.S. I was actually at work when I was typing this, so it’s no wonder I totally messed up the phrasing! (I work in customer service answering phones 🙂 )
Gary Cooper11 said:I’ve been wrestling with something lately...
It seems like a universal rule that most people end up falling hard for the ones who treat them the absolute worst.
Maybe I’m just reading the room wrong, but in my experience, whenever I’m being nothing but kind and supportive, the person I’m with couldn't care less about me. But then, the moment I stop playing nice and start acting a bit difficult? Suddenly, they’re obsessed, valuing me more than ever, and all this other stuff starts happening.
I’m really curious about the psychology behind this kind of behavior.
What’s the deal with how people act? Because honestly, the most frustrating part is realizing I’m doing the exact same thing. I find myself gravitating toward those "bad" guys—the ones who treat me poorly—and for some reason, they’re the ones I want the most. It’s incredibly damaging.
WHAT THE FUCK??????????????😕