It leaks during both short and long breaks" - Article
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Mark Gomez9 said:Oh yeah, Aphex, you are just soooo cool, we should totally be besties☕
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Mark Gomez9 said:Oh yeah, Aphex, you are just soooo cool, we should totally be besties☕
Dana Kelly5 said:Honestly, it’s pathetic seeing people still obsessing over this....Being "cool" back then doesn't mean anything now. I'm currently struggling just to scrape through my junior year of high school, hoping I might actually pass my driver's test this summer..And frankly, today's definition of "cool" is a far cry from how it used to be. Those who still cling to that old version of popularity should enjoy it while they can—they're basically stuck in a permanent state of arrested development, acting like they're still twelve.
Betty Myers7 said:Honestly, what on earth are we even talking about here??
"Oh, everyone else is doing it, we used to do the same thing, let's just be glad they aren't drinking more" 😕
And that’s the excuse? There is no excuse. These kids need a serious reality check to bring them back down to earth. They haven't even truly started living on this planet yet, and already they're trying to prove how tough they are? Please. 🙄
And before anyone calls this sensationalist journalism, let me be clear: this is the reality on the ground. We have middle schoolers getting wasted at school and passing out in the bathrooms while their parents show up to pick them up because they can't even stand on their own two feet. 😕
Where is the guidance? Where are the counselors? I don't see any, and frankly, we need to get more mental health professionals into our schools immediately. It feels like something is fundamentally wrong with how they're thinking. 😕
Actually, the parents probably need a therapist even more than the kids do.
I mean, where is the sense of shame? Do they even have any left? Or has everything been washed away by screens and digital noise like everything else...
It's disgraceful.
| And this definitely isn't journalistic sensationalism—this is reality. Look at the facts: you have middle schoolers getting wasted at school and passing out in the bathrooms, forcing parents to pick them up because they can't even stand on their own two feet. 😕 |
| Where is the parenting in all this? And where are the counselors? I don't see any. We need more psychologists in our schools immediately, because it seems to me like there's something fundamentally wrong with their heads. 😕 The parents probably need a psychologist even more than the kids do. I mean, honestly, do they have no shame? Any sense of decency left at all? Or has everything been brainwashed by computers like everything else... It's pathetic. |
Mark Gomez9 said:I'm not sure if you missed this point—and I truly hope you did—but the reality is that kids are getting drunk right inside an American school building.🙄
For instance, at my old high school, you would have been expelled on the spot the moment anyone even suspected you were intoxicated or touching alcohol. But then again, I've seen certain groups of kids in some schools who are just arrogant, undisciplined, and frankly, a lost cause. I honestly feel for the decent students who are forced to share a classroom or even a hallway with those types.
jadejackal592 said:Man, where is this world even headed... 😲 Honestly, this kind of behavior starts at home. It’s pure lack of discipline, and while schools try their best, they can't exactly fix how someone was raised. But what I really can't wrap my head around is why we just let it happen. Why isn't anyone stepping in to put a stop to it? I know of one high school where they aren't just sneaking drinks—they are straight-up binge drinking on campus, yet nobody seems to be doing anything about it. I just don't get it. 🤷
Lisa Martinez82 said:Over the last three years, traffic on this site has basically increased tenfold. 🙂 Naturally, that means the server struggles sometimes—it crashes, or you find yourself spamming F5 just to get a page to load.
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Are the outages happening more often lately? Not really. If anything, things were much worse two or three years ago. Right now, it’s holding up fine.
Samuel Murphy6 said:as if anyone 😠
Jonathan Morris40 said:You’d need to find some absolute madman capable of building encryption so tight even the NSA couldn't touch it. My advice? Start hunting for a top-tier hacker immediately.
Casey Palmer5 said:So you're covering all this when you're only sixteen... Is this some kind of pitch? You know, ads cost money—and you're under a microscope right now.
Edward Flores4 said:Just because you don't see a problem doesn't mean there isn't one... Look, you're free to believe that both Clark and Sagan were spot on, and that you've somehow managed to grasp things more deeply than they did, but 🙂
that's a stretch.Furthermore, the purpose of a technological product isn't defined by the moment it's invented.
I wasn't even talking about "purpose" in the first place, 🤷
to be honest.Take SMS, for example. Who could have predicted it would end up as this massive communication staple for teenagers and become such a huge money-maker for carriers?
What does that have to do with anything I actually said?Computers were originally envisioned as devices intended for government use and scientific laboratories.
As far as I know, inventions happen because there's a specific need being met. Computers exist because we needed to crack German codes during World War II. At that stage, nobody was thinking about mass-producing PCs, let alone predicting their future utility beyond the very reason they were created in the first place.
I'm all for having a different perspective, but try to back yours up with something concrete. Right now, it feels like you're just stating an opinion rather than making a point, because I'm struggling to find any logic in the argument.There are endless examples. It's the users who creatively redefine the purpose of an invention, largely independent of what was originally intended.
Here we go again with the whole "purpose" thing. 🤷
If some guy who knows nothing about firearms finds himself out in Alaska, and his gun freezes solid overnight... he might get the bright idea to hold it right next to a fire just to thaw the slide. If he's lucky, he'll hold the loaded barrel away from the heat so he can bring the slide toward the flame without burning his hands.
In this ridiculous little scenario, the "purpose" of the gun is completely irrelevant. The only factor that matters is the total lack of understanding regarding the tool being used—which, in reality, is usually how people get hurt.accidents happen even to the pros who actually know their business
Exactly. But if you pair bad luck with being plain old stupid—like trying to defrost a handgun over a campfire in the middle of the Alaskan wilderness... well, you’ve got a pretty good chance of kicking the bucket due to your own sheer stupidity long before any "accident" ever catches up to you.
I wasn't even talking about the purpose 🤷
What does that have to do with anything I actually wrote?
As far as I know, inventions happen when there's a specific need. The computer was born because we needed to crack German codes during World War II. In that phase, nobody was thinking about mass-producing computers, let alone their future applications beyond what triggered their existence.
Those are all telltale signs of misunderstanding the technology being used and expecting it to fulfill a social role it wasn't built for. Consequently—disappointment and errors are inevitable.
I have no issue with differing opinions, but please back yours up with something concrete. Right now, it feels like you're just stating a conviction without any actual logic behind the argument.
The gun in this ridiculously over-the-top episode serves absolutely zero purpose. The real issue here—the only one that actually matters—is the total lack of understanding regarding the technology being used. It’s a dangerous kind of ignorance.
Edward Flores4 said:The only person who has an actual problem with it is the one using it that way. It’s kind of like how back in the day, having pale skin was the ultimate status symbol—so much so that the aristocracy would basically smear toxic metal emulsions on their skin just to look brighter and signal to everyone else that they were higher up the social ladder.
The "problem" there was just that they’d regularly drop dead from poisoning by their early 30s. If they had actually understood the science behind the tech they were using, they probably could have avoided that mess entirely.
You’ve likely heard the stories about how lead poisoning wrecked Roman households... just another classic example of technology being misused purely for the sake of showing off.
Basically, any time you use technology recklessly without grasping its underlying logic or function, things tend to end badly. At best, you end up feeling unnecessarily let down because the gadget didn't live up to your "social expectations." In the worst-case scenario, you literally kill yourself because you couldn't foresee the consequences of your own ignorance.
Using tech like that is essentially a marriage between futility and illusion. It’s a total train wreck waiting to happen.
Mark Torres14 said:Exactly. It freed us from backbreaking physical labor. We’re cleaner, we live longer, and we actually have something called "free time." At the same time, we're being absolutely bombarded with information—most of which we don't need, didn't ask for, and have zero power to stop from flooding our brains.
At work, computers "simplified" things by making it so that everything I used to do on paper now requires both paperwork AND digital input.
That brings me to what Michael Anderson2 mentioned. The creation of unnecessary needs.
How much of modern life is spent being a slave to those needs, versus how much of our identity is built around satisfying them?
It really is the real question. For all our talk about freedom and independence, why isn't anyone lining up to herd sheep for a thousand bucks a month plus room, board, and cigarettes?
Does nobody know where the Trečićs are hiding?😁
Edward Flores4 said:Personally, I don't see any real connection between political restrictions and the way we interact with tech.
When people say technology has become a "social relationship," what they really mean is that they're using it without actually understanding it. It's like those kids who absolutely have to have the latest sleek smartphone just because it serves as a status symbol within their specific peer group. If those kids understood technology the way a plumber understands that a faucet is just a way to access water—rather than a fashion statement—then that "must-have" phone wouldn't be serving a social function at all.
In other words, what you're describing still falls under the umbrella of "misunderstanding technology." People end up projecting almost supernatural importance onto modern gadgets. Whether it's a smartphone, a massive flat-screen TV, a luxury yacht, or even a high-end sports car with custom rims—they're all just symptoms of the same thing: a failure to grasp what the tech actually is, leading people to expect it to perform some social role it was never designed for. And because of that, disappointment and mistakes are pretty much inevitable.