I'm about to relapse, please help!
in Psychology ·
slywolf45 said:I’m on the same page as Steven Lopez19 regarding methadone... under no circumstances should you attempt to tackle addiction that way.
Working in healthcare gives you a front-row seat to what "detoxing" on methadone actually looks like. It’s essentially just swapping one dependency for another, and even then, the dosage often isn't enough to take the edge off, so people end up supplementing with other stuff anyway. I know individuals who have been on methadone for fifteen years now—which is about as much "recovery" as you can call it.👎 They have absolutely zero intention of ever trying to quit without it.
Look, you know you don't have any other choice but to give this everything you've got if you want to get clean from this mess. You need to be able to breathe normally again so you can actually provide for that child. That kid deserves nothing but the best, especially given the circumstances—having a mother struggling with addiction and a father in prison... honestly, Child Protective Services is going to be all over that situation. As much as you think you're doing what's best for them right now, you aren't being objective.
If you can't pull this off on your own—and let's be real, you probably can't because someone needs to look after the kid while you're crashing through withdrawal—then either check into a rehab facility or, if you insist on trying solo, find someone trustworthy, like a parent or whoever else, to watch the child until you've found some stability.
I'm not sure what other concrete advice I could possibly offer you.😕
The idea that methadone "cures" addiction is a total misconception.
It isn't some magic pill that just makes your addiction vanish.
Methadone is really meant for opioid users who, for whatever reason, can't manage total abstinence right away. The goal is to pull them out of the illegal market and get them into a controlled environment. Once they are stabilized under medical supervision (within whatever limits they are comfortable with), the hope is to eventually build up the mental strength and willpower needed to pursue full sobriety.
Addiction is brutal, and honestly, not everyone is strong enough or mentally prepared to handle total abstinence immediately.
So, saying methadone doesn't help is just wrong. It does its job, which is keeping people in a managed, safer setting.
And regarding rehab centers, I agree too... it’s a solid option if there's a chance your son can go with you. Especially since you mentioned you don't have many deep ties to the local area—just a few friends and a social circle you wouldn't want to leave behind.