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Timothy Campbell2 said:How can you not feel that way when you're living with her🤷?
I guess the guy isn't even the issue here.
They really just need to find some common ground... especially regarding all that old stuff... they should probably try to get that sorted out as soon as possible!🤷
I’d say there’s a 90% chance that's true!
I see it all the time with my own mom—if she gets a specific idea in her head and doesn't get her way, the waterworks start immediately, followed by total fury and claims that nobody loves her... then my dad just loses his mind trying to apply logic to a situation where logic simply doesn't exist!
She also constantly insists she needs more attention, so I’ll set aside a few hours just to hang out and be sweet with her... and then she hits me with, "Are you doing this just because you feel obligated, or do you actually love me?" And honestly, what am I even supposed to say to that?😍
Honestly, the best move is usually just to stay quiet, help her out, and give her some space to herself.
But hey, that's just our wonderful moms for you!🙂 🙂
Megan White4 said:What household? It’s just been the two of us since my father passed away. She works, and I’m busy trying to finish my degree... 🙄
Or perhaps she's dealing with OCD...
It's also possible she's going through menopause and her hormones are just all over the place, which would totally explain why she's constantly whining, craving attention, and picking fights...
Trust me, women can be completely different people during that stage of life.
Don't take everything so hard, just live your life and try to make some time for her every now and then!
Everyone else living in the house really needs to step up and help her out with the chores!
I can't help but wonder if she's just feeling totally burnt out because she hasn't had a single moment to herself lately?🤷
As for her holding onto all that old junk... honestly, it feels like she’s just avoiding facing reality. She’s basically living in the past, and I guess that’s where she feels most comfortable.
She seriously needs a wake-up call.