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Look, I’ve sat down and given a sincere apology to both of them on several different occasions. I truly meant it. The hardest part was hearing one girl tell me straight to my face that I’m just someone who brings her pain. That's stuck with me; it's burned into my heart to this day. I never set out to hurt anyone or cause trouble—but I did.
..Have you ever actually been honest with yourself and admitted that you hurt someone, even if you didn't mean to? How did it sit with you afterward? Did it leave you carrying a weight? I’ve hurt two women in my life, and I own that—it's a burden I still carry. It wasn't out of malice; I never intended to cause pain to either of them, but it happened anyway, and there's no running away from your own actions. That aftermath is brutal. It feels like a constant knot of guilt in your gut. What was it like for you guys?