Posts by Nicole Martin83

Did I expect to become the internet's favorite laughingstock? Honestly, yeah... because even to me, this whole situation feels absolutely ridiculous.

But seriously, once the panic sets in—and then I start Googling symptoms that sound *exactly* like what I’m going through—it's hard not to spiral. Like, my stomach feels bloated, there’s this weird metallic taste in my mouth, and during my last few cycles, I had zero appetite and felt like food was just getting stuck in my throat. Plus, I’ve been peeing constantly (still am!), and my discharge was acting super weird right before my period—kind of a nasty yellow color. On top of all that, for two out of my last three periods, my breasts started aching a week or two beforehand, which is something I don't ever remember happening. So, how am I supposed to *not* jump straight to pregnancy?
I mean, it sounds totally insane that I’d be pregnant when my periods have always been a steady 6 or 7 days with the usual cramps. And isn't it true that pregnancy bleeding is usually way shorter and lighter?

Still, what kind of statistical anomaly do you have to be to be pregnant without actually having sex, especially after three periods and a negative test... ugh, I don't even know... or maybe I just picked up some random bug or infection?

Anyway, thanks for all the teasing—honestly, it’s better than just being left hanging with a "maybe."

Hey everyone!

I’ve been asking around everywhere, including here, but I gotta know—could I actually be pregnant if I’ve already had three periods since having sex? These have been my usual 6 or 7 days long, complete with the typical cramps and all that.

The weird part is that during the last two, my breasts were super sore right before they started, but that pain just vanished once my period finally showed up.

And with this most recent one, I had this strange, slimy discharge for the first couple of days—almost like ovulation discharge—but how is that even possible while you're on your period? It was just this gross, bloody, slimy mess. Honestly, I have no clue what to make of any of this...

Okay, so "contact" happened on Jan 1st. Putting "contact" in quotes because there was zero actual sex—just some fingering. The only issue is he tried to push it in, but since I wasn't feeling it, my muscles just tensed up and obviously nothing happened. So, my big question is: could he have finished and then basically shoved sperm inside me with his fingers???

I got my period on Jan 11th (which was day 27 of my last cycle), then my ovulation felt super weird. Even during my period (which lasted its usual 6 or 7 days), I was dealing with nausea and headaches, and I was peeing constantly—though my doctor at the local clinic told me it’s probably just gastritis since I was freaking out over finals at the time.
Since I couldn't just relax about it, I took a test on Jan 20th and it was NEGATIVE!

Then I got my next period on Feb 2nd, lasted 6 days, but right before that, my breasts started hurting—which has never happened to me before. I can't say for sure because my memory is a bit fuzzy, but...
And again, around ovulation, I was peeing like crazy, though no nausea this time, just some acid reflux—but I've dealt with that for years so maybe it really is just the gastritis...

My third period came on day 28 of the previous one, so March 1st (my cycles are usually pretty much 28 days), and it was heavier than the last two. It's still going, though it's winding down now.

But what's really messing with my head is that my lower stomach is still so bloated! Mind you, everything I eat sticks to my stomach (I'm naturally thin), so maybe that's why????

What I actually want to know is: has this happened to anyone else? Getting pregnant without actual sex (I've never slept with my boyfriend...), but where sperm gets pushed in via fingers,
plus having three periods and a negative test???? 😢 😢 😢 😢 😢

I am losing my mind here and I need help! I already posted in the "Am I pregnant" thread, but nobody really gave me any clarity, and since you guys here actually have experience with pregnancy...

(Also, my labia look a little wider and kind of rough—could that be from the fingering, like they stretched during the "contact"?)

Please help me because I'm seriously stressed out. Honestly, the thought of taking another test and finding out the worst makes me feel sick. I'm young, I'm in college, and I have really conservative parents, so this situation is definitely not ideal. 😢 😢 😢 😢 😢