Discussion: What kind of Reddit do we want... (and Complaints)
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There’s plenty more where that came from, but let’s just look at this:
To show everyone exactly what kind of people you are:
Then one day you guys go ahead and delete this too:
Which I spent a long time writing—really putting effort into it—and which I had already discussed countless times via DM with positivex:
The amount of mindless junk posted on this Reddit is insane, yet my long, thoughtful post gets nuked without any explanation whatsoever.
There is absolutely no reason to delete a post that I struggled to write, a post that was constructive and wasn't trying to bait anyone or stir the pot!
It was purely meant as a little nudge for positivex to actually think about... well, my post, to start with...
And it was written specifically to see if positivex has changed at all or stayed the same... stuff like that...
What exactly was harmful or malicious about my post?
Nothing at all—and the same goes for the notice regarding people using the ignore function.
This is a general discussion thread, not some random one-off topic that shouldn't be brought up, or whatever excuse you want to use.
You’re doing this out of pure spite and malice!
The way you act... well, karma works. It'll come back to you.
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Bye, lady!
It surprises me that you, with what seems like a pretty level-headed female brain, still argue about eating soup or stew today.
That’s just a stubborn streak in you, I guess.
Obviously, cooked food is good.
And variety is the spice of life.
I mean, if you really don't like it and it bugs you—then don't eat it. But I think it's a lie to claim someone wouldn't want to eat soup, stew, or a hearty casserole.
Sure, there's oatmeal, rice, bananas, etc., for digestion...
But then you're just compensating for it...
Do you at least eat greens with boiled potatoes and meat in that classic combo? 😁
I assume you're familiar with that...
Come on, for goodness' sake, write it here or send me a DM with your menu; I'm genuinely curious right now...
It's like when I tell someone next to me, "Hey, drink this tea—you'll feel better," but they refuse, choosing to suffer through the pain even though the tea would almost certainly help. But no, they can't drink it because apparently, that specific tea isn't good enough for them.
Stubbornness, and it's harmful, isn't it?
And what happens if you get, say, an intestinal issue and the doctors tell you, "It's because you didn't eat this or that"... and then you're forced to eat everything you refused to eat earlier just to save your health?
Who would be considered crazy or stupid then? Or would you perhaps admit that you should have listened to some well-meaning advice???
Or would you still just insist on doing things your way???
You have to admit your faults once in a while, don't you?
Or like if you smoke or drink too much... stuff like that...
Of course, a smart person would defend themselves, but you'd just act tough and stay stubborn.
Because that's just your nature—you know what you're like...
Look, I'd love for you to be my girl and listen to things that are good for your health—forget the nettles or whatever...
(And now you're probably going to get defensive...)
Honestly, you're a bit older now, so hopefully, you'll admit to certain things.
Or would you think I'm trying to lash out because I hate you and want to mistreat you?
I really wonder...
Or maybe you'd consider why I actually want this...
I'm really curious.
Why would anyone be in a relationship if they didn't care about these things, and if she didn't care about them for me too?
It feels to me—since I read your post on another thread today—that you might have corrected a few things about yourself... or am I mistaken...
There are differences... culture, fairness, health issues, and just some senseless whims...
Or like if you walk into a restaurant like a total amateur and they tell you, "Wash this way, because it's faster and better," and it truly is much better than what you're doing, but you still insist on your own way because you can't do otherwise due to stubbornness, and then you end up getting fired, for example...
Think about it...
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So that's who you are, and that's what you do... that's the kind of Reddit you run...
Nick and the crew, I've told the truth... and you guys can lie if you want, whatever you want...
There, I've said too much about you... let people come to their own conclusions from the countless evidence provided.
Whether it’s mine or someone else's... what is wrong with you people...
Look, I’m really not expecting anything intelligent from this group...
Maybe if things actually changed—if you just cleared out the toxic elements—but honestly, I doubt it...
I’ll just say it with a smile: 🙂
"You reap what you sow."
It’s a classic proverb for a reason, and you're going to get exactly what you deserve...
To show everyone exactly what kind of people you are:
Then one day you guys go ahead and delete this too:
Which I spent a long time writing—really putting effort into it—and which I had already discussed countless times via DM with positivex:
The amount of mindless junk posted on this Reddit is insane, yet my long, thoughtful post gets nuked without any explanation whatsoever.
There is absolutely no reason to delete a post that I struggled to write, a post that was constructive and wasn't trying to bait anyone or stir the pot!
It was purely meant as a little nudge for positivex to actually think about... well, my post, to start with...
And it was written specifically to see if positivex has changed at all or stayed the same... stuff like that...
What exactly was harmful or malicious about my post?
Nothing at all—and the same goes for the notice regarding people using the ignore function.
This is a general discussion thread, not some random one-off topic that shouldn't be brought up, or whatever excuse you want to use.
You’re doing this out of pure spite and malice!
The way you act... well, karma works. It'll come back to you.
*****
positivex said:That's a bit of an oversimplification. I was thinking more generally about habits... not just the desire to judge someone's character.
Here are a few attempts at changing my own habits and personality. I won't go into full detail here, but for the sake of the thread:
1. Eat soup... you have to eat soup... all those philosophies about soup and the consequences of not having enough, and how it affects my health... etc.
Even though I don't like eating soup, I won't eat it, and I don't intend to. I made that quite clearly.🙄
Back then I was young and foolish, and after being told about soup about 234 times, I almost had it served to me on a silver platter with a side of attitude. Like, seriously? Nowadays I eat it, but only because I have to follow the rules.😁
2. You need this, you need that, you aren't this, you aren't that—as if my life follows some standard manual... why is that cup there instead of here? You need this... you're doing it wrong regardless of whether it works. You aren't like Dorothy, Susan, or Renata... plus...
The constant pressure to break my habit of relaxing when I get home from work. I'd immediately jump into the next task, and if I sat down... why did you sit down? Why are you always sitting? Why are you watching that stupid Oprah or those documentaries that make you dull? Read this, wash that, tidy this... who in their right mind walks in the rain and goes daydreaming at this age? Who doesn't like cooked food? You're supposed to eat stew. Why don't I just straighten my hair?
The nagging. It ended with me just telling them to go to hell and buy a dog so they can train that instead.
Man, when I remember that...😁
3. Why do I listen to this music instead of that? Why don't I wear mini skirts but then I wear makeup? Why do I need peace and quiet here and there? I'm stupid because I don't know how to play poker. Why do I sleep instead of running up Mount Rainier? Why don't I wash the dishes this way instead of that? Why am I always in a good mood, isn't that unnatural? Why don't I change and wear pantyhose? Why don't I like marriage? Why do I laugh at silly shows like Muck? Why do I hum? Don't do this, you don't need that. 🙄
4. Why don't I constantly whine about work troubles like others do? Because whining is a sign of closeness. "Stephanie told me this, and I told Stephanie that, and she's the boss..."
Why don't I send those ridiculous love texts early in the morning before 8:00 AM just to prove... I don't even know what.🙄Why don't I do things my way? Why should I follow some specific method just because someone else did it that way once—exactly like that instead of this? Why won't I pick this or that immediately? Why do I refuse to accept all that agnostic nonsense, even if it doesn't actually bother me? How can you say you don't have time?
Why are you here and not there... why don't you like pizza (though in the end, I ate it even though I hate it and shouldn't be eating it anyway)
And of course, everyone gets moody, or tries to blackmail people—even passively, I guess
I mixed up the characters and the situations, but... it was fun.😁
My God, what kind of idiots are out there... I couldn't believe it.
Especially back before the "rescue" when they'd call me "sweetie, you know..."—as if "sweetie" is just for me, or if they could say, "honey, can I tell you something?"🙄
Luckily, fate has a way of circling back to people like that... you should see how they're total losers now, getting chewed out by their wives like puppies. Honestly, those fake "saviors" should just be cut out of your life as soon as possible so they don't weigh you down or nag you.
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Bye, lady!
It surprises me that you, with what seems like a pretty level-headed female brain, still argue about eating soup or stew today.
That’s just a stubborn streak in you, I guess.
Obviously, cooked food is good.
And variety is the spice of life.
I mean, if you really don't like it and it bugs you—then don't eat it. But I think it's a lie to claim someone wouldn't want to eat soup, stew, or a hearty casserole.
Sure, there's oatmeal, rice, bananas, etc., for digestion...
But then you're just compensating for it...
Do you at least eat greens with boiled potatoes and meat in that classic combo? 😁
I assume you're familiar with that...
Come on, for goodness' sake, write it here or send me a DM with your menu; I'm genuinely curious right now...
It's like when I tell someone next to me, "Hey, drink this tea—you'll feel better," but they refuse, choosing to suffer through the pain even though the tea would almost certainly help. But no, they can't drink it because apparently, that specific tea isn't good enough for them.
Stubbornness, and it's harmful, isn't it?
And what happens if you get, say, an intestinal issue and the doctors tell you, "It's because you didn't eat this or that"... and then you're forced to eat everything you refused to eat earlier just to save your health?
Who would be considered crazy or stupid then? Or would you perhaps admit that you should have listened to some well-meaning advice???
Or would you still just insist on doing things your way???
You have to admit your faults once in a while, don't you?
Or like if you smoke or drink too much... stuff like that...
Of course, a smart person would defend themselves, but you'd just act tough and stay stubborn.
Because that's just your nature—you know what you're like...
Look, I'd love for you to be my girl and listen to things that are good for your health—forget the nettles or whatever...
(And now you're probably going to get defensive...)
Honestly, you're a bit older now, so hopefully, you'll admit to certain things.
Or would you think I'm trying to lash out because I hate you and want to mistreat you?
I really wonder...
Or maybe you'd consider why I actually want this...
I'm really curious.
Why would anyone be in a relationship if they didn't care about these things, and if she didn't care about them for me too?
It feels to me—since I read your post on another thread today—that you might have corrected a few things about yourself... or am I mistaken...
There are differences... culture, fairness, health issues, and just some senseless whims...
Or like if you walk into a restaurant like a total amateur and they tell you, "Wash this way, because it's faster and better," and it truly is much better than what you're doing, but you still insist on your own way because you can't do otherwise due to stubbornness, and then you end up getting fired, for example...
Think about it...
************************************************** ***************************
So that's who you are, and that's what you do... that's the kind of Reddit you run...
Nick and the crew, I've told the truth... and you guys can lie if you want, whatever you want...
There, I've said too much about you... let people come to their own conclusions from the countless evidence provided.
Whether it’s mine or someone else's... what is wrong with you people...
Look, I’m really not expecting anything intelligent from this group...
Maybe if things actually changed—if you just cleared out the toxic elements—but honestly, I doubt it...
I’ll just say it with a smile: 🙂
"You reap what you sow."
It’s a classic proverb for a reason, and you're going to get exactly what you deserve...