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Dealing with hemorrhoids – any advice? in Health ·
Angela Smith32 said:Hello,
my husband is dealing with some really intense hemorrhoid issues—he took two boxes of Pilex $267 over 14 days, but the pain just came back even worse, and the bleeding is more frequent than ever. Even using Always pads isn't helping much; he leaves a trace wherever he sits. He ended up in the ER last night, but they just exhausted him with surgical exams and sent him home with a prescription for Detralex $40 and instructions to follow up in seven days. The pain hasn't let up, and the bleeding hasn't slowed down at all. I read here that Lidoproct is effective, so I was wondering if anyone knows where to pick that up locally—we are in San Diego. Tomorrow we are calling clinics in New York City to see who can take him in for surgery as soon as possible; I'm assuming he's at stage 4. I'm mainly looking for advice on what he can use to manage the pain and reduce the bleeding just to get him through until the surgery, which we hope happens very soon. Thanks so much, and best regards from San Diego!!

I went to the ER myself and they didn't give me anything🙂, and mine are stage 3. They actually asked me, "Are you really coming to the ER because of hemorrhoids?" I have six walnut-sized hemorrhoids—they practically had to carry me to the car, and they offered nothing. It was incredibly painful, burning and bleeding constantly; I was even having to use tampons. Honestly, someone should just take Voltaren suppositories—they work as an anti-inflammatory and can be used in an emergency. Another thing is sitting in a warm chamomile bath. If you live near the coast, the ocean helped me quite a bit—it stung a little at first, but then😍. It's now my fourth day and while it's still large, there's no pain or bleeding. Also, he should wash the area with sterile water—you can buy it at any pharmacy for about $3.25—and if he’s feeling brave, applying a little ice wrapped in a cloth to the painful spot helps. Regarding surgery, it really depends on the surgeon; my aunt's condition worsened and she couldn't sit down for two months!😲 Be careful about which doctor you choose. And try Kevin ointment. For me, my primary care physician prescribed something for the pain that basically numbed my entire lower back area.
Dealing with hemorrhoids – any advice? in Health ·
feralsurfer172 said:Hey there, Lola.

I’ve only dealt with mild cases of hemorrhoids myself—thankfully—but if I were in your shoes, I’d say a doctor's advice and standard medical treatments should always come first. Honestly, anonymous people on a forum—myself included—can sometimes offer more practical advice than a physician can. 😕

I previously shared what I’ve been doing personally regarding prevention—check back on post #2346, page 118—and honestly, those steps really turned things around for me. But looking at your situation, I don't think those specific measures are going to cut it for you.

IIt’s pretty telling that you’re bringing up prison—because if you actually end up facing the death penalty, isn't that basically a guaranteed trigger for hemorrhoids? I mean, isn't constipation just as much of an issue as hemorrhoids are? 😢

Once you’ve managed to get everything back on track—and I mean really stabilized—it might be worth taking a moment to think about what kind of lifestyle shifts you can actually make.

If you look at the links provided below—and honestly, there are endless versions of this floating around the web—you'll see that people are looking at this exact same issue from all sorts of different angles.
A strictly scientific approach tends to completely overlook alternative methods—even when those alternatives actually show results. Sure, they might be less potent, but they are more natural, which in my opinion makes them far more effective when it comes to preventative care.

You probably get the best results by combining both approaches—it’s really about finding that sweet spot between the two.
Prevention and alternative therapies can't be used as substitutes for traditional medicine when you're dealing with the acute phase of an illness—it just isn't a fair comparison. While staying healthy through lifestyle changes is important, once things hit a critical point, you need the heavy hitters. You can't expect holistic approaches to do the job of modern medical science during an emergency.

Pfizer (precision medicine)
The link discusses the legalities surrounding prison sentences—specifically how they are served and the implications of being incarcerated within the American justice system. It’s a heavy subject, to say the least, but an important one if you want to understand how the law actually functions when things go wrong. The core idea here is about the mechanics of sentencing and what happens once a judgment is handed down by a court. It touches on the reality that once someone enters the system, their life becomes governed by very strict, often rigid, institutional rules. There is a certain finality to a prison sentence that people often overlook when they are just discussing crime in the abstract—it isn't just about the punishment itself, but the total loss of autonomy that follows. It also dives into the distinction between different types of confinement and how the state manages those who have been convicted. It’s a sobering look at the intersection of judicial decisions and the actual lived experience of being behind bars in the US. It definitely makes you think twice about the weight of a courtroom verdict.

b.) an alternative approach
I’ve been thinking about how we handle our local politics—specifically how much influence big money actually holds over the people making the rules. It feels like we're constantly being told that everything is transparent and democratic, yet when you look at the way certain interest groups pull the strings behind the scenes, it paints a much different picture. The reality is that our political system isn't just a collection of voters and candidates; it’s a complex machine fueled by campaign contributions and lobbying efforts. When massive corporations or wealthy donors pour millions into a race, they aren't doing it out of pure patriotism—they’re buying access. They want to make sure that when a bill hits the floor in D.C., there’s already a seat reserved for them at the table. It creates this frustrating cycle where the average person—someone working a 9-to-5 in a place like Chicago or Phoenix—feels completely disconnected from the legislative process. You cast your vote, you feel like you've had your say, but then you watch as policy decisions seem to favor special interests rather than the public good. It’s hard not to feel like the "will of the people" is often just a secondary consideration once the checks have cleared. We talk a lot about reform, but true change would require dismantling the very structures that allow this level of influence to exist. It’s a tall order, honestly—changing the way power is distributed is never easy—but if we don't address the sheer scale of corporate involvement in our elections, we might find ourselves living in a system that serves everyone except the actual citizens.

I hope you have a quick recovery, Boomer. ☕

Hard stools aren't really my issue—I can deal with straining from sunrise to sunset if I have to—but I once used this specific herbal laxative that just completely wrecked my system. It irritated my colon so badly that it ended up triggering hemorrhoids, so I don't touch that stuff anymore.🙂For instance, a few days ago I had this terrible headache—it was brutal—and then I ended up having two servings of coffee and a puff on my vape, followed by some serious stomach issues. Now, it’s like mushrooms popping up after a rainstorm; it’s pretty obvious that either the caffeine or the vaping triggered it—so I’ve cut out the coffee entirely. Right now, things are still about the size of a walnut, but there's no pain, and my digestion has returned to being totally normal and regular. My doctor also prescribed some medication recently, which has left me feeling incredibly calm and settled.🙂I’ve been using Daisy’s balm lately—it’s honestly been my biggest lifesaver. I’ve just been sticking to a strict routine of washing and applying it regularly, and things are finally looking up. Still, I know I need to schedule an appointment with a specialist soon. There’s a history of colon cancer in my family, so I can't really skip that step—it's something I have to get ahead of. I'm not overly worried, though; my mom says she’s dealt with this her whole life, and it's just one of those things that flares up occasionally. Thanks for all the support, everyone. — Lola
Period talk: Questions and advice in Women's Health ·
Okay, I need some help here. My period started today, but by this evening, the bleeding had already stopped. I just took my first pill of Lyndete today. I did a pregnancy test a couple of days ago and it was negative. Honestly, I’m under an incredible amount of stress right now—on top of everything else, this happening too. I had all the usual PMS symptoms except for the pain, though today the pain is so bad I can barely walk.🤷I feel like I'm losing my mind.🙂I should mention that exactly twelve days ago, I noticed this yellowish-white discharge—it was pretty sticky—and then the very next day, my breasts started hurting and my nipples became really sore and sensitive. This has been happening to me for about six months now. Is that a sign of ovulation? Interestingly, once the bleeding started today, the breast and nipple pain just vanished. I went in for a checkup at the Gynae office two weeks ago and everything seemed fine. The doctor thought she saw something on my left ovary at first, but then she told me everything looked okay. Two days after that appointment, I had some brownish discharge.
mellowranger16 said:🤦He suggested she get some blood work done, maybe check for inflammation or whatever else mellowranger16 was mentioning earlier... just to be safe. If everything comes back within the normal range given the timing, and if those four tests are negative and the ultrasound confirms there's no pregnancy, then I really don't see the point in all this constant stress over it. 🤦

That's exactly what I tell her. (I actually know both the author of this post and the person being discussed).