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Elizabeth Gonzalez55 said:Alright, I’m rooting for everything to wrap up quickly and smoothly! And just a heads-up—if you find yourselves needing any legal backup, don't hesitate to ask. I'm happy to help out.

Thanks a million. Our association is definitely going to need someone with a legal background, so consider this an open invitation to join us if you have the time and interest. We’ve got some massive plans in the works that just won't fly without solid legal support.
Here’s the latest scoop: we ran into some incredibly kind people at the local federal office who actually made it their mission to fast-track our case. They went through all our paperwork, caught a few minor errors, helped us fix them, and emailed everything back for signature. As things stand now, we could potentially have this all wrapped up by the end of the day.👍
Melissa Kim45 said:🙂

My cycle is a complete mess right now. My doctor claims it’s just stress.

Luckily, I was seeing Yasmina, so everything worked out, even though I ended up with CIN1 out of nowhere—but it’s all fine now, all my tests came back clean.🤷
Don't forget to carve out at least half an hour every single day just for yourself. No matter how selfish that feels, it isn't; it's vital. Take care of your health, and make sure you're looking after yourself just as much as we look after our sick loved ones.👍
Melissa Kim45 said:Thanks for telling me that. And thanks for the support. 🙂

I absolutely have to get this under control. I need to look into things myself because it's getting hard to trust anything she says. She’s incredibly fragile right now, and I can see how frayed her nerves are since she has to head back to the hospital in two days. Even if she gets discharged the same day, she’s completely wiped out. I think she’ll be making calls about her next steps for treatment soon, but honestly, it looks like she desperately needs a break. She’s constantly feeling sick, vomiting, complaining about "stomach pains," and I am just at my absolute breaking point. I haven't even checked how I look or how I'm coming across to others for a long time; I’m just trying to maintain some semblance of normalcy. It feels more like I'm lying to myself than anyone else, because I know I’ve lost all self-control.
I dread confrontational situations and difficult people, especially at work.
I guess... I'm afraid of the consequences.😁

She’s nitpicking me again about those little bottle caps—whether she wants these ones or not, pushing the ones I specifically told her not to push. A thousand tiny things that I wouldn't have ever dreamed could become such massive problems.

The ups and downs are terrifying. Sometimes I'm scared she won't bounce back from a single crisis. When things improve, I tend to let my guard down and forget. One doctor (not her regular guy over in Jordan, I don't want to get into which specific clinic, just a "doctor on duty") actually told me straight up that he wouldn't undergo that kind of treatment—that he'd rather not have his partner cleaning him in diapers, because he said I'd find her dead one day.
I can't get those words out of my head.👎

Just clear all that noise from your mind and tackle things one step at a time the best way you can. You aren't a saint capable of performing miracles, nor are you God, capable of altering people or the course of fate. It is what it is. I know that isn't much comfort, but believe me, you will adapt to everything—even the things that seem most unbearable right now. So don't be afraid; instead, lean into that version of yourself you haven't even fully met yet.
Overcoming stuttering in Health ·
Ladies, seriously, you need to learn how to decompress😉
Elizabeth Gonzalez55 said:The legal deadline to register an association is 30 days. This means you *must* wrap up the whole procedure within that window. If the relevant agency fails to meet the deadline, the law dictates that the association is considered established by default. Of course, if an audit reveals any errors in the paperwork, the clock resets. So, *theoretically*, the whole thing could drag on for over two months, but if the bylaws, minutes, and resolutions were drafted by someone who actually knows what they're doing and has experience with this, there shouldn't be any issues.

My advice—and I’m a lawyer who has been actively involved in setting up several nonprofits during my short career—is to handle the registration outside of Washington, D.C. The clerks in smaller areas are much friendlier, have lighter workloads, and actually take the time to help you fix things that might not be quite right. You can get everything finalized in a day or two. At the end of the day, it doesn't matter if you register in San Jose, Ann Arbor, Columbus, or Washington, D.C.

Man, thanks so much for all this info! Regarding the bylaws, we drafted them using templates provided on the websites of some similar organizations. I think they turned out great, along with the meeting minutes.👍 Since we've already submitted the paperwork, we just have to sit tight and wait. If things hit a snag, Springfield isn't exactly far from us.😉
Laura Kelly91 said:Hey, I hope everything went smoothly with the association. Please share some details about how it turned out... Five days ago, my dad's doctors basically gave up on him because he can't handle chemo anymore, and the metastases have spread to his lungs... We're going to try B17 injections along with some other supplements—it's a therapy they use over in Mexico... We'll see; we found out about it from some folks at the hospital in Chicago who actually use it.
I'm sending you all all my strength to hang in there and win this fight!

We're still playing the waiting game. We pulled a few strings to see if we could speed things up, but we won't know for sure until next week. Usually, the whole process takes about 30 days.
Eye-catching! in Health ·
Bradley James3 said:Got hit pretty hard in the eye with a hand about three days ago. My eyelid is all swollen up now, making my eye look tiny... I guess there's a chance I messed up a nerve? Anyone know when this swelling might actually go down?
Thanks a bunch

Look, you can't guess at this—only an ophthalmologist can give you an answer. You really ought to go see a specialist immediately; the eye is such a delicate organ that anything from minor bruising to serious complications is on the table.
Period talk: Questions and advice in Women's Health ·
steelheron20 said:And "last but not least," let's not forget masturbation—I am being dead serious here.

Well, that definitely didn't work for me.☕
Anaphylactic reaction in Health ·
Robin Allen6 said:Look, I wouldn't talk about all doctors that way, because at some point tomorrow, you might find yourself needing to rely on a colleague who actually has the power to save your life.

If you’re asking me, thanks for the advice, but I’ve had my fill of their "brilliant" diagnoses and unnecessary procedures for one lifetime too many.🙄 Besides, if you actually bothered to read closely, my outburst was aimed specifically at those who act exactly the way I described in my post. If anyone feels personally attacked by that, well, they probably deserve it.☕
shadowheron4 said:Things at Mayo Clinic are a total mess right now. I’ve got my follow-up with my oncologist coming up in about three weeks, but I just found out I won't be allowed to see the doctor I've been seeing for four years. I've reached out to others dealing with this exact same thing and even posted about it here, but nothing changes. We're all protesting and making noise together, but nobody is actually listening to us. The head of oncology couldn't care less about our well-being; he's just carving out these new divisions that serve no one—not the patients and certainly not the doctors—except maybe himself and a small circle of cronies. There's talk of taking this to the news, but we're just waiting for a group of influential people to step up and actually make an impact. For the rest of us, we're stuck waiting and praying they'll let us see the physician we actually trust—the one we finally felt comfortable with after all our struggles. Best wishes to everyone.👍

God, I am counting down the days until our association is officially registered. Once that happens, we'll have the legal standing to go public, demand answers, and call them out directly. Until that paperwork clears, we're basically just spinning our wheels and biting our nails.😠
Brian Clark78 said:Hey everyone!

Most of us are dealing with some kind of serious health struggle, whether it's personally or within our families.
I know you might not want to hear this, but I’d honestly suggest looking into BRACE up in Appalachia. Trust me, it can actually complement traditional medicine. I'm telling you this based on my own life experience.

Thanks for the input, but we've already hashed this out here and decided that this belongs over in the "Science Fringe" section.
Anaphylactic reaction in Health ·
From Wikipedia:
Anaphylactic/anaphylactoid shock

Anaphylactic shock occurs when there is an immediate, severe allergic reaction triggered by Type I antigens and antibodies. Anaphylactoid shock is essentially a maximum-intensity version of this sudden reaction where the exact underlying mechanism isn't immediately known. In an emergency room setting, trying to tell the two apart is practically useless because the treatment protocol is identical.

Common triggers for anaphylactic shock include medications (like penicillin or contrast dyes used in imaging), animal toxins (such as insect stings or snake bites), and certain foods (like strawberries, almonds, or walnuts).

Beyond those general causes, the clinical presentation includes specific symptoms of an allergic reaction: redness, hives, skin swelling, nausea, vomiting, diarrhea, bronchial spasms, shortness of breath, coughing, and swelling of the glottis.


I honestly have to say, I’m genuinely stunned😍 by all these incompetent primary care doctors who toss antibiotic prescriptions around as carelessly as a kid handing out candy at a shopping mall during Christmas...it's absolutely terrifying.🙂 To hell with them and everyone who handed them their medical degrees! :2up:
Thank God I finally realized that I need to fact-check every single decision they make against three different websites and three different sources, otherwise I'd probably be dead from anaphylactic shock by now.🙄
mistyridge5 said:I’m facing a different kind of battlefield now...
It’s been five years since she passed.
Sometimes I feel like I'm the only one left who actually remembers.
I carry these scars—emotional ones—because there was nobody to talk to. There wasn't anyone objective to push back against my thoughts, to challenge my feelings, or to remind me that better days were coming...

That’s why I hold this corner of the forum in such high regard. The people here... the fighters, and those who stand shoulder-to-shoulder helping others fight.

Our story didn't have a Hollywood ending, but man, did we try.
We fought like hell.
We gave it everything.
Every single day was a masterclass in learning about each other, understanding the treatments, and navigating the disease itself...
We clung to every second of laughter and every heavy, beautiful moment of silence where words weren't even needed.
We took on this monster TOGETHER, even when it felt like the outcome had already been written in the stars by a winner.
But we didn't quit.
We didn't throw in the towel.
We never backed down.

Now, after all this time, the strength just isn't always there. Honestly, I feel like I have less energy now than I did when we were actually in the heat of the battle...
Why, oh why??!!!

Check out the
Support thread for those who lost loved ones after fighting a serious illness
Feel free to vent and share what you're going through with people in the exact same boat over there. I started that specific thread because talking about lost battles here felt counterproductive; over there, you can truly unburden your soul to those of us who actually get it.
gentlemoose62 said:I’m so glad you reached out! Honestly, I think you making the call to go through with surgery is the best move—from my perspective, at least, it’s the only way to actually get aggressive with this thing. I've always been a proponent of surgical intervention; it’s not something that scares me one bit. In my case, having that last surgery to deal with a recurring lymph node was exactly what paved the way for this remission I've enjoyed for over four years—though, obviously, I had to follow it up with chemo to seal the deal.
Just TRUST that God will see you through this, and know that we are all standing right here with you.👍 👍 👍

Hang in there! It’s going to work out, just watch. Once you're on the other side of this, I really hope you'll come back to the site and our support group to share your story and help others find their footing.
Sending love, you lioness!🙂
Alright folks, the paperwork is officially filed. Now we just sit tight for about a month and see if they actually approve us or leave us hanging.😉
Nancy Hernandez43 said:I really hope everything went smoothly!!! Let me know how it turned out😍

It went about as well as you'd expect—they basically showed up just to kiss the doorframe, since the crew is only pulling shifts on Monday, Wednesday, and Friday, probably so they don't accidentally work too hard.🙄
Anyway, they’re headed back out tomorrow, so we'll see what happens then.😉
Period talk: Questions and advice in Women's Health ·
Betty Adams12 said:So I'm basically circling back to what you said earlier—pills aren't going to fix this problemabsolutely 👎

I'm with you there; painkillers won't cut it either, but life is just a bitch🤷
Period talk: Questions and advice in Women's Health ·
Betty Adams12 said:Your assumption that birth control pills are a guaranteed fix for this problem is totally off base.

Some women deal with bleeding and pain just as bad on the pill as they do without them—I know from experience, whether I was on Yasmin or Celexa. For me, the cramps on hormonal contraceptives were so brutal that I ended up in the ER every single month needing painkiller injections.
I also know two other women where being on the pill changed absolutely nothing for their condition.

And the idea that pills are easier on your liver than painkillers is a complete myth. There are analgesics that process through the liver and others that go through the kidneys. It’s all clearly stated in the drug labels; you don't necessarily have to take the ones that hit the liver.
BUT, pills definitely impact the liver—that's why regular blood tests and checkups are mandatory. 🙄
Because of the pills, I developed over 50 liver adenomas. They didn't even show up on my blood work; I only caught them via ultrasound, and they were a direct consequence of the medication. From what I’ve heard, at the same endocrinologist here in New York City, five other girls ended up with the exact same liver diagnosis in a very short window right after me—all caused by the pills.
So, your conclusion doesn't hold water.

In my opinion, your assumption that painkillers are less harmful than oral contraceptives is equally flawed. Most women who are doubled over in agony usually have to resort to those specific painkillers that process through the liver, like Ketorolac, because the "gentler" options simply don't touch the pain. Personally, I've ended up in the emergency room more than once in a few months needing Tramadol, and I think we all know enough about that drug to skip the explanation.
My assumption is based strictly on what I’ve read and what my gynecologist advised based on clinical research. Sure, there are people for whom nothing works, but for the majority, it helps. Beyond that, oral contraceptives actually lower the risk of ovarian cancer, and medical professionals actually recommend them to women at some stage in their lives. The specific pills you were taking seem to have pretty high hormone doses, except for Celexa. Trinovum is quite heavy, from what I understand. Now, there are newer versions like Yasmin and even newer Yasminelle where the hormone dosage has been dialed down to the absolute minimum, which reduces the side effects. The pharmaceutical industry pours massive amounts of money into researching and perfecting these contraceptives.
I've been on Yasmin constantly for 2.5 years due to endometriosis, and my liver function tests are actually much better now than they were before I started Yasmin. Since I was 13, I dealt with debilitating pain every month and always had to take painkillers, the dosage and strength of which just kept climbing as I got older.

Just to be clear, both options have risks, and ideally, we wouldn't have to rely on either one. But when choosing between two evils, I believe Yasmin is a much lesser evil than Tramadol. Ultimately, it’s an individual matter that only a gynecologist can navigate to determine what serves a patient's best interest.
brightgardener8 said:fighter, @Angela Wright/">@@Angela Wright, how did the non-profit registration go?

I figured I’d weigh in with how things are looking on our end. Mom just wrapped up her fourth round of chemo, and true to form, things tend to take a turn for the worse during this stretch. That’s exactly what we’re dealing with right now. She actually handled the chemo itself quite well, largely thanks to Zofran 👍 (thanks again for all the tips regarding Zofran).
She is completely disoriented; she can't grasp even the simplest concepts, and honestly, it's driving us toward the brink of insanity. It feels like we're tilting at windmills—trying to explain basic things to her, but it's all in vain. There are moments where I want to beat myself up because I know logically that she *can't* understand, but the frustration just overrides reason. I lose my cool... then I calm down and the whole cycle starts over again.

My gogo is actually heading out during his break today to drop off the paperwork for the registration.👍 Hopefully, we have everything in order and won't run into any snags.🙂

Hang in there and stay strong. I know exactly what you're going through.🙄 I used to lose my patience with Mom toward the end too, especially when I had to spend an hour and a half feeding her, or when she'd spit food all over the TV like a hundred times. The worst part was the crushing guilt that would hit me afterward. Even now, thinking back on it makes me feel terrible.😢
It’s all a natural reaction. Deep down, no matter how much we consciously accept the illness, our subconscious still sees them as the person they used to be. You just have to keep pushing through.
gentlemoose62 said:Yeah, I’m wondering where everyone went, too.

Look, this time I'm stepping up and asking for your prayers and good vibes because I have to go in for a breast biopsy.
I'm a little anxious, but I'm trying to hold onto the faith that everything is going to turn out fine. Honestly, after dealing with ovarian cancer, this is the last thing I needed on my plate.
I'll post an update once the biopsy results come back.

It’s going to be okay. Just hang in there and keep believing in yourself.👍