wiredraven82 said:Look, I’m writing this because of my mom, and honestly, I am at my wits' end. This ringing in her ears started about five months ago. At first, it was just intermittent ringing, but from the very beginning, it was happening almost every single day—especially at night...
But over the last week, the rustling and ringing have gotten so much worse. Actually, the rustling only showed up a week ago, along with physical pain whenever someone touches her ear. It’s reached the point where there is intense physical pain upon contact. I don't even know what to tell her or how to help anymore.
She went to see an ENT specialist at a private clinic here in San Diego, and all the doctor did was shine a little flashlight into her ear. That was it! That was the entire exam. But the noise won't stop. Is it really possible that nobody—not even her primary care physician—is sending her for actual imaging? Like a CT scan of the head or the ear? Or some kind of detailed diagnostic workup? I’m no doctor, but I find it absolutely baffling that her physician isn't recommending further testing, especially since she’s been dealing with severe physical pain for the past week, not just the noise. Could this be an infection, bacteria, or something similar? When I look at the outside of her left ear—the one that hurts and rings—the area looks slightly swollen compared to her right ear. What are we supposed to do?
All that private doctor did after seeing her a month ago was refer her to another specialist. Seriously, do you have to be a world-renowned expert just to get sent for a proper scan or a more thorough analysis than just a flashlight check? Forgive my sarcasm, but I think you all understand why I'm feeling this way.
Now she tells me that when she touches her ear or applies pressure at a certain angle, it feels like something might "pop" open. Even when she yawns, she feels this clicking sensation. Is it even possible that this isn't a physical issue, given that there is actual physical pain now? I'm a bit heated with this private practitioner; considering what she paid him, it’s frankly ridiculous—bordering on tragic—that all she got was a quick glance with a light...
Maybe I'm overreacting by being so angry at that private doctor, since she didn't have physical pain back then, but I still can't wrap my head around him giving her a "diagnosis" that it's just noise and then just handing her a number for another private specialist...
In her entire life, she has never had issues with ringing in her ears until five months ago. Ever. So, what does a person have to do to get someone—even her own doctor—to send her for a systematic checkup or imaging of the ear or head (and I'm not a specialist!)?
I think the best move is to call that second private doctor this Monday, because she can't endure this any longer. My mom says it feels like there's an "apple" stuck in her ear—something heavy. It feels like something has swollen inside, and sometimes a little liquid leaks out, which makes it feel slightly better for a moment.
It could be an ear infection, like otitis. She needs to see an ENT specialist immediately.