Posts by coastalviper46

alright... thanks for the advice... so when's actually the best time to get this piercing done?

So, look... I've been obsessing over getting a belly button piercing for a minute now. It’s one of those things I just really want to do. But honestly, what kind of fallout am I looking at? Is this actually a smart move or am I just asking for trouble? thanks 😉

Carl Reyes4 said:Man, I deal with basically the same thing like 80% of the time. I can always feel my bladder acting up, especially after sex, and I just read recently that I’m one of those unlucky people who catches a UTI every single time. It sucks because I end up regretting hooking up for a few days just because it hurts so much. People used to call this some old-school term—I can't remember the exact phrase—but something like "honeymoon disease" back when people were only having sex once they got married. I don't know all the medical specifics, but honestly, 😲 I think it's more like this: my bladder is just super sensitive and I've got a chronic infection that never fully clears up, so it hits me every time since, you know, we're all pretty open down there.

Yeah, the feeling is similar. I used to have bladder issues where I genuinely thought I was gonna pee myself, so isn't what you're describing a little different from that?

I’m right there with you—that sensation usually hits right before the finish line. In the past, I’d tense up every single time because I was terrified of having an accident, which totally killed the vibe. Now that I’ve actually learned how to just let go, I don't even notice the urge until after the fact, and of course, I get to enjoy the orgasm. The real trick is just figuring out how to stop overthinking and actually relax when your brain is telling you that you're about to pee.

Hm, honestly, I’ve been wondering about this too. I thought I was the only one losing sleep over it... It’s such a weird sensation, I can't even put my finger on it. Definitely curious to see what everyone else thinks. :-)