Jacob Fox6 said:I'm with you on that. But I think you misunderstood part of what I meant... I've been consistently against the views expressed by ruggedscout91, who starts off by suggesting we should give this or that based purely on personal opinion. I'm not sure if you see the difference between what you're saying and what she was arguing. She was pointing out typical cases of discrimination, which isn't really what you're talking about here, because her point was about discrimination on a personal level fueled by individual prejudices (I could pull excerpts to prove it if needed), whereas you're talking about systemic discrimination, which isn't what I was getting at at all. It's an exaggeration to say the rules generally can't be followed. Of course, it's not always possible, and doctors definitely try to squeeze out every bit of good they can, but overall, there are guidelines that are easier to follow in some specialties than others, though I truly believe a doctor can act in a way that stays within the bounds of humanity... And again, that's not the same as what ruggedscout91 writes, where it seems like people are just tossed aside because they're elderly, or judged as doomed because they're alcoholics, using those excuses to justify treating or not treating them... what she represents is prejudice, while what you represent is something else entirely, and even though the line is thin, it exists. You're doing it because of a limited budget and you can't just change who you are to do things the way they "should" be done, but she does it because of bias. That's the whole point...
I hear exactly what she’s saying, I hear what I’m saying, and I get your point—but let’s stop pretending for a second. Let’s forget that I’m a doctor, you’re a medical student, and she’s a patient. Let’s pretend we’re all just "patients" stripped of any identity other than raw medical data.
Personally? It would absolutely kill me if my son, my daughter, or my grandchild died, while someone in their 80s gets to cling to life for a few more months simply because the system is rigged to prioritize "excessive care for the elderly," causing a massive bottleneck for everyone else.
On the flip side, if it were my grandfather or grandmother in that bed, maybe I wouldn't be able to say that—though, honestly, life has already shattered most of my ideals anyway. But even then, I wouldn't want to be the one forced to make that call when it comes to my own flesh and blood (even though my grandparents have all passed away).
ruggedscout91 writes what he writes because he understands the fundamental truth: in a system where it is impossible for everyone to get everything, it makes more sense to prioritize those for whom the intervention will actually provide long-term value (or at least, that's how it looks from where I'm standing).