swiftbear86 said:So why is it that one doctor treats you like they can't even be bothered to look at you when they're at the local hospital, but suddenly becomes charming and attentive once they move to a private practice? That tells you everything you need to know about their character. I won't argue about their technical skill—expertise is one thing—but I truly believe that regardless of where you work, you should act professionally and be decent to people. We touched on this ten pages ago, and doctors hate hearing it. They seem to think being kind isn't part of the job, only being smart is. Personally, I think the most important thing is that they actually show interest in solving your problem. Once they do that, their expertise really starts to shine.
Look... that’s up to the doctor themselves, but from what I've seen, colleagues aren't all cut from the same cloth. That attitude you're describing? Unfortunately, it’s there about 50% of the time. Half of them are perfect—great bedside manner in private practice—but the other half are the same way whether they're in a clinic or a hospital. And even with private docs, without naming names here, some don't even look at the patient for five minutes, yet patients are still freaking happy to be there... it's not just about the doctors, it's also about what's going on in the patient's head. I haven't read this whole thread closely, so I'm just jumping in based on this. Believe me, in plenty of cases, the hospital staff ends up fixing the mistakes made by private practitioners, and the reverse happens less often. What’s missing in medical school education is teaching interpersonal skills, which is a total disaster in any hospital collective around here. If anyone tries to tell me otherwise, I've got nothing to say to them. One more thing: whatever our healthcare system is like, it’s still socially better than, say, the American system... because over there, if you don't have money, you die, whereas here, you don't necessarily. A colleague of mine ended up in the hospital for a few days in the US just for a common cold and got hit with a $20,000 bill... so now you're sick over there, but here it's almost all free or very cheap; if you can't pay, things get overlooked or patients just put it off as long as they can. It doesn't work like that over there. I'm speaking broadly, but regardless of us not being top-tier in terms of medical care, we are still much more socially sensitive than, for example, "Americans".