Nancy Thomas18 said:I’m so sorry, I won't be able to make it... I'm not even in Chicago right now, but my heart is with all of you. I was at the oncologist's yesterday with my CT results—it showed something is wrong, but they can't pinpoint where. Now they're sending me for a PET scan because they have to find it. I'm scared. For the first time, I really am. It's only been three months since chemo ended. I was so sure I was in the clear, and now what?
I honestly don't know what the smart thing to say is here, other than just telling you to stay brave and strong, like you've always been. Maybe things aren't as bad as they look right now? Either way, I'm sending nothing but good vibes your way.
Melissa Kim45 (The user provided only said:" which means "says:", implying they want me to wait for the content or that the content was missing. Since there is no actual text to rewrite, I cannot perform the task yet. However, if this was meant to be the start of a prompt containing the source text, please provide the full text you wish for me to transform.) My mom fought a hell of a long fight. She was a winner in her own way—a huge one, actually.
She passed away this morning.
Thanks to everyone here. I love you guys, seriously. Just keep fighting the good fight for us—stay brave and give it everything you've got. No holding back.
I'll get back to you with more details later.
Melissa Kim45, I am so incredibly sorry. Seriously, my heart goes out to you. You are being so damn brave right now—just keep that strength up—but please, don't forget to look after yourself, too. You can't pour from an empty cup.
Elizabeth Diaz60, I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. I know exactly what you're going through—it’s heavy, it’s exhausting, and honestly, there aren't even words for how much it sucks. You just have to take it one day at a time. Don't go looking for miracles or quick fixes while you're hurting; just try to keep moving forward, even if it feels impossible. I thought I was going to break, but here I am, still standing, even after a year since my mom passed and four months since my dad... Hang in there.
Hang in there. Lately, I’ve been hearing about quite a few cases of soft tissue sarcoma in kids. From what I understand, they tend to respond pretty well to treatment... Honestly, I'm rooting for you all. I don't know much about the doctors over at Mount Sinai, but since there are so many experts in this group, I'm sure slyseal28 has already pointed you toward the best specialists. Big hugs to everyone. Stay strong!
Look, Linda Peterson37, there isn’t much of a profound way to put this, other than the fact that you have to stay strong—for your own sake and his. You just have to hold it together, no matter how ridiculous and impossible that feels right now... I remember how patronizing and honestly pathetic it felt when people tried to offer me their "sympathy" during those dark stretches with my parents (first my mom, then my dad). From where I’m standing, the only logical move is to try and lighten his load as much as possible with a smile and some genuine support. It helps him, sure, but it helps you too, because that's the only way through it. Wishing you and your dad nothing but the best.
Hey everyone, wishing you all nothing but strength in this fight. Just keep pushing forward—I truly believe we have to, and we can.🙂 So, here’s the deal. I think the whole story about a clinic treating people with Laetril actually stems from my dad’s situation... To clarify, he was receiving care in St. Louis. There was a man at the hospital with him whose son had sourced Laetril (B17) in Canada, along with enzymes, Vitamin C, B15, and a few other components. They administer the Laetril and Vitamin C intravenously, while the rest are taken in capsule form. Even though the doctor there is a proponent of conventional medicine, she was actually looking into alternative options. She’d heard about this type of treatment yielding massive results in certain cases, and to her, it seemed logical, so she suggested it to my father (since chemo wasn't an option for him anymore). Even though we managed to get everything we needed from Canada (you can see the details on the website www.b-17.hu) and started his therapy, his body just couldn't handle it. His system had already been completely trashed by the chemotherapy. Chemo hit him hard; he was wasting away, the cancer spread incredibly fast, and he passed away on January 10th. That was only three and a half months after the diagnosis, though the cancer was caught at a very advanced stage to begin with. To be clear, there isn't a specific Laetril clinic in St. Louis, but there are doctors at the local hospital who are aware of the drug and aren't running away from it like those hardcore conventional-only types. And yeah, you can buy the medication in Budapest (I don't know the exact address right now, but it's on the site along with a phone number—unfortunately, everything is in Canadian). Basically, the medicine actually originates from Mexico, where there's a clinic that treats cancers using Laetril alongside various supplements. I even heard later that the owner of a soccer team from Mexico was successfully treated with Laetril in Mexico. The word is that chemo actually decreases the chances of treatment success... I don't really know what to tell you. I'm just so sorry Dad didn't make it, otherwise, I'd be telling you how we all recovered... You just have to try everything! Best to everyone! p.s. So happy about Grace Fowler's great news!
Hannah Thomas28 said:Yeah, exactly... She takes it based on a "recommendation" from Mexico. But I heard there's a clinic in St. Louis (Iowa) that treats patients with Laetril via IV. Here at home, I haven't found anyone willing to encourage me or give me any advice... I practically cornered a doctor with questions about B17, acting like I'd discovered it myself, and he almost had me detained for a psychiatric evaluation. For my mom, it might be okay, but for someone already undergoing other treatments, dropping them for B17... that's a huge gamble... And as for the Hunz tribe, they take it starting from the womb. Maybe we should all be taking it😕? Man, it all sounded so amazing at first, but now I just don't know🤷 Even though they "gave" my mom 2-3 months, she's already entered her fifth month, and she has a massive appetite (B17 apparently boosts appetite), which is good... even if she doesn't look any better. She isn't having any contraindications; I know some people feel "poisoned" by it. And honestly, her skin is gorgeous and soft. I read somewhere that if B17 were allowed for over-the-counter sale and used in cosmetics, every cream on the market would be obsolete.
dustyranger11 said:The main thing I need to know is: What’s the life expectancy for throat cancer patients? My dad is having trouble swallowing. Other than that, he seems okay, just constant throat pain. Is it better to have the larynx removed or go with radiation? His voice hasn't changed, it's just eating and drinking that's getting difficult... He doesn't smoke...
dustyranger11, look, I know a little bit about this because my own dad dealt with throat cancer. Mind you, this is just my humble, non-professional opinion. Honestly, it’s a good sign if they’re actually suggesting surgery. If they weren't, that would mean the cancer is already too far along, and then the prognosis gets a lot worse. If the cancer is caught in Stage I or II and there aren't any metastases, the outlook is actually pretty decent. It’s up to the doctors to decide whether to go for a total procedure—removing the larynx—just to make sure they kill everything and stop it from spreading or coming back. Every case is different. I’ve seen people in the hospital who had throat cancer surgery, they have a tracheostomy tube, and they’re even talking... slowly, but they manage. It sounds terrifying, believe me, but it isn't. You can live with it. I know people who have lived high-quality lives 15 years after the fact. They just learn how to adapt. Hang in there! Let me know if you get any more specific details about his diagnosis. Best,
The One, here’s my honest take, once again! We’re heading into some heavy days ahead—a real battle with yourself—but you have to push through. There were moments when I genuinely thought I wouldn't make it, but look at me, I'm still standing. It's been nine months since Mom passed, and just 23 days since Dad followed her... hang in there!
Dear George, I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. I lost both of my parents within just eight months, so I know exactly what this kind of heartache feels like. You’re going to need every ounce of strength you can muster right now. If you ever just need someone to talk to, please don't hesitate to reach out.
Hey Megan Perez67, The mere fact that your mom actually went under the knife means things aren't looking completely catastrophic yet. When doctors prescribe chemo or radiation, they’re usually looking at it through a much more optimistic lens than when they just tell you to head home and hope for the best... Stay strong and stay tough, because the hard days are still ahead. For both you and your mom. You've got to pull together every ounce of strength you have and just believe it'll work out. There are plenty of success stories out there—even if my own parents didn't have that kind of luck—so don't lose hope. You have to fight this damn thing! I'm also dying to know how Dan is doing. Any updates? Keeping all of you in my thoughts. Take care of yourselves!
Hey everyone, I can’t thank you enough for all the support and condolences. Honestly, I’m still in total shock. I haven't even fully processed what happened yet, and I haven't even finished crying... It’s like there’s just this massive mental block in my head right now. Please, stay close to your loved ones and take care of yourselves. I know I need to be there for my brother, my sister, and myself. At the end of the day, our parents left us to look after one another. Bibo, my dad and I decided to bring him home. He just couldn't handle any more chemo; the cancer had spread too far. You know, I used to think it might have been less painful if he had stayed in the hospital where they could do more for him, but now I’m certain that isn't true. He fell asleep forever in his own house, surrounded by endless love, care, cleanliness, and every ounce of attention possible. It brings us some peace knowing we did everything we could, and I was right there holding his hand when he drifted off... He just went to sleep. Love you guys!
Hey everyone, I’ve been gone for a while. Honestly, things have been pretty rough. My dad passed away on January 10th after dealing with some brutal pain for a few days. Everything just took a sudden, sharp turn for the worse... It was devastating, and honestly, it still feels that way. He left us only eight months after my mom, who fought cancer for twenty days before losing her battle. They diagnosed him with a tumor about three and a half months ago. At least they’re together now, even if I’m feeling incredibly sad—actually, "sad" doesn't cover it. I feel completely numb. Anyway, I want to be here to support you all in this fight. Despite everything I've been through, I truly believe winning is possible. You have to try every single avenue; there are just too many success stories out there to ignore. So please, just keep pushing and keep fighting. Never, ever give up!
First off, huge congratulations on the new baby! Wishing you guys all the best! On another note, things are just getting worse for my dad every single day. He's in massive pain, and the doctor is pushing this heavy-duty pain management plan—four times a day, 20 drops of Methadone per dose! Has anyone here actually dealt with this? I mean, I know what it is, but I don't personally know anyone who has used Methadone like this.
My dad’s started having this intense pain around his lung area and his lower back—probably his kidneys. What could this be? The doctor told us to get him to the hospital immediately for an evaluation, but he’s refusing to go. He keeps saying he just wants to die at home, which is the first time he's ever said anything like that... I’m honestly lost. He’s completely exhausted, miserable, and just so restless from the pain. Does anyone have any insight? Is this a sign that things are taking a turn for the worse, like he’s heading toward the worst-case scenario? It feels awful, especially since I’m stuck here in Washington, D.C., while he’s all the way over there... Thanks for the replies!
Thanks, Ivanica! I totally forgot to mention a major detail—he’s been prescribed antibiotics. The doctor already stopped by, and a home health nurse is coming over tomorrow morning to administer his treatment via IV, along with some medication to help him breathe easier. He'll be on the antibiotics for five days, so we'll just have to wait and see how things go.
Finally🙂 My dad’s condition keeps shifting constantly. The last few days have been rougher—he’s running a high fever and struggling to catch his breath... They’ve got him on an IV at home now, giving him something to help with the breathing... hopefully, it passes. I honestly don't even know what to do anymore. He can't get up, so we had to get him adult diapers since he can't make it to the bathroom in time. It's hard for him to deal with all this, but he realized it's just easier that way. Since mainstream medicine basically gave up on him, we started that B17 therapy; we're halfway through now, so we'll see if there's any actual progress once it's finished. We need to get a CT or an MRI done to see what's going on with his lungs. His left eye isn't functioning well at all, so the doctor (without even examining him) says that's most likely causing the fever and the shortness of breath... Has anyone dealt with anything similar? Wishing you all a wonderful holiday season!🙂
Danilo, hang in there. You have to stay strong. Honestly, just talking about this shows you're aware of the problem, and that’s half the battle right there. We all on this Forum are dealing with our own heavy, messy situations that life decided to throw at us, so just stay far away from heroin and don't you dare give up. Life is actually pretty good, despite everything.