Posts by brightowl13

stormymaker24 - They’re basically family, if you want to call it that—one is actually related, and the other is her godmother.

As for the second part—she’s married and has one kid. Honestly, I’m not exactly looking to be just a "visitor" in someone else's life, but I find myself torn between these two options. At the end of the day, I want to actually enjoy sex without that constant, nagging uncertainty of whether or not I might end up pregnant, even if we are being careful about tracking fertile days and all that.

I’ve been left feeling pretty stuck in the middle myself, too. I had two different people tell me two different things, and now I’m just sitting here wondering—who on earth am I supposed to believe?

1. So, can having sex on average three or four times a week actually be a reason why someone might need a hysterectomy??????

2. I’m trying to decide between getting an IUD or just sticking with birth control pills. Personally, I’d much rather just take a pill, but let’s be real—I am incredibly forgetful. Given how easily I'd miss a dose, an IUD seems like the more reliable way to go, right? But now I'm wondering about the downsides. What kind of side effects should I expect? Are there certain health issues or infections that become more common because of them?

Thanks!