Megan Fowler78 said:My whole world just imploded three weeks ago. My wife went in for a routine checkup for what we thought was just a common cold, and they came back with a diagnosis of Small Cell Lung Cancer.
I'm terrified. I honestly can't wrap my head around this happening. Her doctor here gave us a 20% chance and maybe 18 months. I haven't told her the truth yet—I actually lied and told her there's an 80% chance she'll be cured. I'm scared if I tell her the real deal, it'll just break her right at the start of treatment, even though she’s a rock-solid, tough person. Maybe lying isn't the move, but I'm freaking out. What now? How am I supposed to act like everything's fine? How am I supposed to look at the person I love and actually feel optimistic about the future?...
I know exactly how you feel. That news hit me like a freight train four months ago when I found out my dad had that same diagnosis.
It's brutal. The shock just pins you down for a while, but eventually, you learn how to carry the weight of it.
My best advice? Move fast. Get started on the treatment immediately.
And then, like I tell everyone—
you absolutely need alternatives. Load up on anything for immunity, antioxidants, vitamins... all the "miracle" stuff. (I've seen it work firsthand.)
Don't throw in the towel. It's a fight. It isn't easy and it isn't quick, but man, you will feel like you're on top of the world the second you see that first sign of improvement.
Just so you know, doctors predicted my dad wouldn't make it past last Christmas (meaning he only had two months left). 😳 Now, I barely recognize him. He's improved physically, too—he's back on his feet. He's sharper, eating like a horse. He actually has color in his face again...
I know it doesn't happen overnight, but it's moving in the right direction. We're going on month four of the fight!
So, listen, from day one, stay positive. Don't let her see the fear. Be upbeat and encouraging when you're with her.
Every body reacts differently. I think we've all heard those stories where they say, "They wrote him off, and look at him now..."
GOOD LUCK. I'm here if you need anything at all.
P.S. Does she have any metastasis anywhere?