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Hey everyone, I just finished watching a show on PBS and honestly, I’m feeling kind of inspired. Those people are absolute heroes, truly. They gave me a glimmer of hope that things might actually turn around. My mother is currently on Sutent and the medication is working wonders for her.
But then reality sets in, and I’m left wondering how we’re supposed to move forward. We’ve already started liquidating assets just to stay afloat, and at this rate, we’ll run out of things to sell soon enough. And even if we had something left, who would buy it? Nobody has any money left. The sheer cost of getting a doctor to prescribe a specific drug, or dealing with commissions, or hospital fees... it’s enough to make you physically sick. It’s painfully obvious to anyone paying attention that the whole system is just a giant money grab. The idea that Medicare will suddenly decide to approve coverage for everyone—it’s hard to swallow. It feels impossible to believe they’ll actually spend $16667 on every single patient, and who knows how long that would even last? I’d love to be optimistic, I really would, but I can't shake the fear that even if things improve, they'll just start implementing "patient selection" protocols. It’s nauseating...
slyseal28 said:The crux of the matter is this: that directive from the Secretary basically targets rare diseases, but kidney carcinomas don't fall under that umbrella. It’s not a rarity issue; it’s a systemic one. To make matters worse, when the Secretary responds to patients, he never explicitly clarifies that the medication can't actually be covered by hospital budgets. In fact, he goes as far as saying that if a hospital board approves it, then yes, the patient gets it. But the hospitals? They just point to empty coffers and distance themselves from the directive entirely. It’s a classic bureaucratic shell game. And here is the real tragedy: our healthcare system offers patients a drug with maybe a 5% efficacy rate, while options like Sutent—or even Nexavar and Torisel—can hit up to 60%. But there's a catch, isn't there? These drugs aren't typically a "cure"; they are about extending life. And that is where the gears grind to a halt. Because of this supposed "shortage" of funds, bureaucrats end up playing God, deciding whether it's more "cost-effective" to fund a cure or just buy someone a little more time. That mindset has to shift. Who gave them the right to decide how much time anyone gets left?

I am with you on every single point. I truly hope things change, because honestly, WHO ELSE BUT GOD'S WILL HAS THE RIGHT TO DECIDE HOW LONG A PERSON LIVES? 👍👍👍
Carol Cook58 said:I’m actually glad this topic was brought up...
My dad was diagnosed with kidney cancer just a month ago. The doctors told him everything looks "fine" regarding the cancer itself—that it's well-encapsulated and hasn't metastasized anywhere. It was all caught purely by accident. His cardiologist suggested a renal CT scan, they spotted something on the imaging, and suddenly he was being sent off for more tests... and there it was, carcinoma.
Anyway, he had surgery ten days ago to have the kidney removed, and they discharged him after five days. He’s still in recovery, but I’m holding onto hope that everything will turn out alright. We're waiting on the pathology reports for the surrounding tissue; those should arrive in about two weeks. Once we have those, hopefully, it's all over. Even his surgeons mentioned that during the procedure, they didn't see any signs of spread while they were removing the kidney...
I'm wondering, following a procedure like this—specifically a nephrectomy—how long does full recovery actually take? He's 52... and thank God that for kidney cancer, chemotherapy isn't always the standard path...
One more thing... if everything was successfully removed and there's no metastasis (which seems to be the case), does he have better odds than someone who wasn't caught early? Does the risk of it returning elsewhere decrease significantly?


Hey. My mother went through a nearly identical situation. Her kidney cancer was discovered completely by chance. They removed the kidney, and everything seemed to go perfectly at first. But then, six months later, she went in for a routine checkup and, unfortunately, found that metastases had appeared in her liver and lungs. This disease is incredibly insidious; it hides until it's ready to strike. Right now, we're fighting to get her access to Sutent, which is highly effective, but sadly, chemo isn't doing much at this stage. And Sutent is expensive—it costs a fortune every month. $16000 I don't mean to weigh you down with my story; just hang in there and keep your chin up. I just wanted to emphasize one thing: make sure she goes to EVERY SINGLE appointment and follow-up. No skipping.
Wishing you all the best, and I truly hope everything turns out okay. 👍👍👍
Susan Ruiz76 said:Dear neonpanther12, look, I honestly don't have a clue—at least not beyond what actually bit me and what I took the time to dig into thoroughly. My husband was on Tarcev—another incredibly pricey medication—it sits around $6.75 (cheaper than Sutent), and we kept buying it until the Secretary of Health stepped in and declared that anyone who truly needs these high-cost drugs has a right to them. Well, we ended up handing the hospital director the actual findings from an oncology board meeting where they stated, quite literally, "...continue Tarcev..." It’s simple, really. When a whole panel of specialists agrees that continuing with Tarcev is the path forward, our hospital's board didn't have much of a choice. They had zero grounds to deny us, and within 24 hours, the medicine was waiting for us at the hospital pharmacy. Of course, we handed over every scrap of paperwork and filled out all the necessary forms—but that’s minor stuff. The real nightmare wasn't the bureaucracy; it was counting the massive amounts of money we were burning through for so long.😠
So, what should you and your family do? Demand that the doctor puts it in writing—specifically stating that Sutent is the recommended treatment. If that recommendation is there, nobody can tell you no.
Secondly—when you mention the big hospital and that "expensive machine," you're likely talking about a PET scan. I know plenty of people who received that scan through insurance, and frankly, they needed it. And they weren't stuck on a waiting list forever either. We also asked the oncologist if it made sense for us to go ahead and pay for that scan ourselves; however, he told us—and we trust his word—that in my husband's specific case, it wouldn't change anything. He has a clearly diagnosed primary tumor being treated according to standard medical protocols that yield the best results. If you spend a little time reading the posts here, you'll see that PET scan results aren't always crystal clear, nor do they always provide the most definitive answers.

Good luck!🙂

Thanks so much for the advice. Also, if anyone knows, my mom needs to start taking Sutent soon—what kind of side effects should we expect? Wishing you ALL THE BEST.🙂
Hi everyone. I’ve been sitting here wondering about the logic—if there even is any—behind the criteria for getting a prescription for drugs like $4000. It feels incredibly arbitrary sometimes. And don't even get me started on why people who desperately need a scan on a modern machine at a major center like Mayo Clinic can't just get an appointment, but instead have to shell out their own cash for private imaging. Even for those with the means to pay, the wait times are just... well, they're exhausting. At the end of the day, it comes down to the doctor; they're the ones who decide if a specific scan is necessary by writing the referral. And honestly, if you're fighting this kind of battle, wouldn't you say that access to the best tools is absolutely essential for effective treatment?
Angela Wright said:So, just like I mentioned to you on PMU, but now I'm saying it for everyone else too...

It’s most likely a matter of getting Sutent covered. We were actually discussing this in our association yesterday, and we’re sending out an urgent inquiry today to find out exactly when Sutent will finally be added to the Medicare formulary. We’re also planning to take this issue back to the press—likely CNN—so keep an eye out.
We keep hearing from people who have been paying out of pocket for months now; they've practically liquidated their entire life savings just to stay afloat. It’s high time people got some sort of timeline so they can actually plan for the future. You can't just skip doses; continuity is everything here. If you break the cycle, the treatment loses its edge, and the response just isn't there.

Thank you. I wanted to ask if you could tell me how I might help—in any way possible—to ensure my mother and all those suffering receive the proper medical care every human being deserves? My sister wants to get involved too; we’ve already filled out the paperwork to join "For a New Day."🙂
Angela Wright said:Because we’re all living through such an incredibly brutal stretch—not just those battling illness, but their families and everyone close to them who gets dragged into the fray—and because our society lacks the psychological support systems we desperately need, I decided to start this forum. I’ve been caught in the middle of this storm myself, so I figured we could create a space where those of us who have been there, or are currently navigating it, can offer some semblance of advice and solidarity.

Feel free to drop a post here. I promise I'll always be around to reply, offer a suggestion, or at the very least, just sit in the trenches with you. Sometimes the weight of watching someone else fight is even heavier than the battle itself.

Personally, I’ve walked through hell, and I’m still walking through it. It’s a path no one should ever have to navigate alone.

Sending big hugs to everyone.

My name is Mark. : I’m looking for any kind of help or advice. Six months ago, my mother had surgery, and they found out she had kidney cancer. They removed the kidney, and everything seemed to be going okay, until a routine follow-up turned into a nightmare. They told her the cancer had already spread to her liver and lungs, and it's moving fast—which is the worst part. We’ve consulted three different doctors, and they all say chemo won't do much at this stage. There is a specific medication that could stop the spread, which is supposed to be added to the Medicare coverage list soon, but right now, it's prohibitively expensive. $16000 One dose for a month is costing us a fortune. We managed to scrape together enough for one dose, but we have no idea how to keep this up. I’m asking anyone for information—does anyone know when this drug will actually be covered by Medicare? Or if there's any other advice or anyone I should reach out to? I’m truly grateful to anyone who takes the time to read this and offers even a small piece of advice. THANK YOU SO MUCH.