jadesailor14 said:Well, within those 1,700-odd posts, there’s a whole spectrum of advice, medications, and various therapies floating around...
I truly believe it's worth reading through them.
Of course, that’s exactly why I decided to join this forum in the first place.
Even if I had spent a day and half the night digging through, say, half of those 1,700 posts, and then called my friend the next morning, I probably could have only told her two things—one bad and one good. Since she insisted on hearing the bad news first, I told her straight up: there is no magic cure. But the good news? She isn't going to die.
What I actually did was grab a notepad and start jotting down the names of any medications people were raving about. Every time I found a "happy" success story, I'd add it to the list, but after just a few more posts, I’d see someone else describing how that exact same product made their condition much worse... and I’d cross it right off.
By the next morning, I had this lengthy list, and almost all of it was crossed out. The only thing left standing was Dovonex, but you can't even find that anywhere in NYC.
That’s ultimately why we reached the conclusion that her first move should be adjusting her diet. She does use Synoderm occasionally based on an old doctor's recommendation, but honestly, it hasn't done much for her.
As for stress, there's no easy fix there; her family situation is just heavy—she’s dealing with an elderly, nearly immobile mother and a very hyperactive child, if you know what I mean.
And as for those specialized fish treatments? There's just no money for that. I mean, if it were a permanent solution, I'd happily shell out $1,000, but she simply cannot afford a massive expense like that every few years. Very few people in this country can swing that kind of cash.
So, for now, we'll see if she can stick to taking fish oil, eating plenty of fish and lean protein, fruits, and veggies (minus anything citrus), and cutting out the cookies, white bread, junk food, and Coca-Cola. She'll limit coffee to the mornings and since she doesn't drink alcohol anyway, we'll just have to wait and see how it goes...