I swear, I always end up buying jeans that just stretch out—like, they stretch out horribly, lose their shape entirely, and honestly? They look just plain terrible. The last pair I picked up from Urban Outfitters was a size larger than my usual 29 ($100), mostly because they didn't have anything smaller in stock. They fit okay at the waist, but now the legs are ridiculously baggy and completely misshapen...
The only ones I’ve actually managed to get right were some basic pairs from Gap for $26; they haven't stretched out at all, nor have they lost their shape. It’s actually pretty incredible
Now, here's the dilemma: if only denim didn't always come in such low rises—you know, like two fingers below the belly button—and actually offered larger sizes, maybe a 14 or something higher... because my sister doesn't even wear jeans, and we haven't been able to find a decent pair anywhere.
So, I’ve been on Diane for—well, let's just say they aren't exactly the smartest option out there—about three years now. And honestly? My gynecologist hasn't even once suggested I go in for blood work since I started the pills. I haven't dealt with any side effects at all—really—I haven't put on weight, my breasts haven't gotten bigger, my face stopped getting all puffy, no acne, and I'm definitely not pregnant 😍 And yeah, it's been three years straight without a break—and without any blood tests to check things. That’s really the only thing that’s bugging me.
Bradley Jones3: I was just sitting here—thinking about how much things have shifted lately—and it hit me that we really don't talk enough about the nuance of these shifts. It’s easy to get caught up in the noise, isn't it? Everyone's shouting, everyone's rushing toward some perceived finish line, but if you actually pause—just for a second—you realize the real substance is usually tucked away in those quiet, overlooked corners. It’s like when you're driving down a backroad in rural Montana; everyone wants the interstate because it's fast, but you miss all the best scenery if you don't take the slow way. Anyway, I digress. My point is, let's try to look deeper than the surface level today. There's more to the story than what's being shouted from the rooftops. kaže: What’s the vibe like over at CC1—is it actually crowded today? I saw that online collection geared toward younger crowds and honestly, it caught my eye. 🙂
I was there around 9:00 AM—just a quick trip, really—and honestly, the parking lot was already packed. Even the Target was starting to get that mid-morning rush. It’s wild how quickly everything fills up these days. I had to wait in line for the booth twice—about ten minutes each time—which was honestly such a drag. I think there were around eight booths available where I was waiting, but man, when my folks headed over there in the afternoon, the crowd was even more intense than what I dealt with.
Then I remembered that the men's section was on this floor—completely slipped my mind, honestly—so I headed over there to check things out for myself. And let me tell you, it was a total trip. There wasn't a single soul waiting around the fitting rooms; just wide open space and zero hassle. 🙂
So, mostly speaking—tomorrow’s Saturday—and I wouldn't dream of heading over to the CC1 center then—too much chaos, really—but otherwise, during the week? Yeah, I try to get there as early as possible in the morning. Just beats the rush, you know?
So, my mom is heading over tomorrow—I actually had to tell her I spotted some oversized pants in the house, which was my way of hinting that maybe it’s time for a wardrobe refresh. She just doesn't really go for that youthful, trendy look, you know? She prefers her own style, even if it's a bit more... traditional.
So, I popped into C&A today—grabbed some pants in their size 36 (even though I’m usually closer to a 40)—and let me tell you, their sizing goes all the way up to a 58. They actually have this dedicated XXL section, too. You can definitely find some decent stuff if you look, though I didn't spend my whole afternoon browsing... but seriously, that size 58? It is absolutely massive. Anyway, for those of you who aren't living right here in the city, just take a peek at their website. If you spot something you like, honestly, it’s worth making a special trip into the city—or even heading out of the country for a shopping spree once a year—it really pays off.
So, apparently, they carry up to size 26—which, let me be clear, I am definitely *not* wearing anymore—but I was browsing through an online catalog today and just stumbled upon it... now I’m honestly torn if it’s meant for younger crowds or if it’s more for the older demographic, especially since they have those large-sized bras too... Now I really need to check if they actually stock any of that in downtown Chicago; if they do, then Mom can finally head out for some budget-friendly shopping.
They have Maxx by Maxx at the mall on Michigan Avenue for the younger girls, though if I recall correctly, their smallest size starts at a 0... yeah, I know all that.😂
So, there’s this shop over in suburban New Jersey called MAXY TRENDY—I was browsing their window display the other day and spotted quite a few tunics that actually caught my eye, plus the prices aren't even breaking the bank, My mom picked up a skirt there for $40, she's 52, And they carry sizes starting from a 14 and up, Now, I usually wear an 8, but I totally get the struggle. Honestly, in places like Orsay, Tally Weijl, or especially Terra Nova, I can't even get my legs into an XL—it's ridiculous. My calves are just too strong, you know? Their pant legs are so narrow I could practically fit my hand inside them, which is just plain absurd... Anyway—if anyone in the area is interested, I can give you the exact directions to the place 🙂 I actually have a hunch they might be sewing the clothes themselves—like, it might actually be local US manufacturing
Look, I already know what the comments are going to say—"just go see a doctor"—but seriously... Here’s the deal: I’ve got these spots on my inner labia (the labia minora, or whatever you call it) in two different places. They look like little abrasions, almost like when you scrape your skin and it forms that thin, crusty scab over, but it’s not an open wound. It’s hard to describe, but it stings and it’s definitely tender to the touch. There’s zero discharge or anything, so now I'm spiraling. Is this actually just a scratch, or am I looking at some kind of sore that signals something much bigger? Has anyone dealt with something similar?
Update: For context, I don't do penetrative sex, just oral and manual stuff.