There’s an ad down below for some clothes that are up for grabs—and honestly, if they’d actually kept the receipt, I probably would have traded them in for something else myself—but let’s be real, the receipt always ends up in the trash. 🙂 We picked up a pair of pants for her at Urban Republic—and yeah, I already posted about this—but they’ve already started fraying right between the thighs. It's because she has those chafing legs where they rub together when she walks, and honestly? It ruins every single pair of pants she owns. I really don't want to spend my summer talking about breakouts and skin irritation—especially when I just want to wear a skirt or a breezy bodysuit without worrying about it.
So, we picked up these size 32 pants—yeah, total overkill for her—and she absolutely refuses to touch them. She tried them on once, felt totally grossed out by the fit, and now she’s insisting they look "old lady style." Honestly, I have no clue who to give them to or if I should just list them on Marketplace... she’s being so stubborn about it. To me, they're massive, but she's just being difficult—I mean, let's be real, she's being a bit irrational here. She should just wear whatever actually fits her, because they aren't even that bad. In fact, they're actually quite decent
So, just wanted to brag a little bit here—I was out with my daughter at the mall, specifically over at the Mustang boutique, and honestly? She’s being such a handful right now. Nothing seems to satisfy her. She walked into Urban Republic wearing these white skinny jeans—size 32, which is basically the largest they even carry—and she insisted on buying them. Now, let me tell you, the moment she takes a deep breath, those seams are going to give up the ghost entirely. But, hey, it was her choice. If she had just been sensible enough to grab a size or two up at some other shop, we wouldn't be in this ridiculous situation, but would that have been easy? Of course not.
No biggie—if Mom gives me the green light, I’ll put it up for sale, though knowing her, she’d probably just snatch it back before anyone even had a chance to buy it... I spotted this white knit sweater from Jessica (it's one of those C&A brands)
So, does anyone actually know where I can find pants for Seka? I'm heading over to the Target in the local shopping center today—well, specifically to the beauty department there—so I'll take a look. Plus, her school is right nearby, so she can just head over there herself...
Oh, believe me—I’m definitely not the one making the final call here. She’s completely rejected anything from Gap because she thinks high-waisted styles are just too "old lady" for her taste. Now she’s eyeing Terra Nova, but honestly, I could never find a single pair of pants there that actually fit me right, so I can only imagine how they'll work for her. The girl has enough bras to start a boutique—she’s got like 20 of them!—and now she’s suddenly obsessed with those little cherry-print things and all that trendy nonsense. I mean, seriously, who on earth is looking at your bra size when you're only 15?🙄 She struggles with finding pants—she's a size 12 or 14—and shirts (since she’s got a bit of a tummy going on), but her bra size is actually pretty standard, maybe a 36C, so she’s constantly cycling through different styles. She’s in high school now, and suddenly these "demands" have started appearing out of nowhere. And yet, despite all this fashion drama, she still eats off her Barbie plates.😍
Oh, that reminds me—my mom ended up with a massive haul of clothes today (well, yesterday, actually) from a friend's daughter who lives over in Germany. Half of it won't even fit her. That girl is wearing a size 14 or 16, so most of it is just way too big.👋ow:
Jason Moore63 said:And yeah, I consider those to be normal pants... I’m really not interested in those tiny things that barely cover anything. I've always dressed pretty young and modern, but I try to stay proportional. I need a size 14, but just like your sister, I have pretty muscular thighs... there's no way I'm squeezing into super skinny jeans, but I don't even try.😁
I bought these:http://www.lisca.com/uploads/images/Marilyn_hr.jpg But mine didn't have the neck detail; it was just the classic style in purple and green. The underwear was boxer-style, also in purple and green. The bra was $13, and the undies were $6.25🤣
It was my first time at Mustang, and honestly, I wasn't expecting to find any jeans there, especially for $83...😍😍 The staff pulled out like 7 or 8 different styles for me. It's rare that I actually get to choose the cut, the color, and everything else.😍
That bra from Victoria's Secret is actually quite nice, but what I really need is something with more space between the cups—mine always slides toward the center, so nothing sits right.🙂 Because of that, I really have to stick to the classic cuts, though occasionally you can find some lovely ones. It's all fine until I have to go hunting for those parachute-style items—which, frankly, even if you're looking at high-end stuff like Nordstrom, can still be a struggle.😍 Here is the one I have: http://www.lisca.com/index.php?page=...en_US&local=hr And this one: http://www.lisca.com/index.php?page=...en_US&local=hr As for Mustang—yeah, even my sister managed to find models that fit her there—but at this specific location I visited, the pants are like $200 and up, and since Mom isn't exactly swimming in cash right now, I wouldn't dream of buying them for her—especially since she'd probably just end up ruining them with a permanent marker anyway.
Dennis James10 said:Regarding the matter of bras, one must approach the subject with a certain level of practical scrutiny. It is not merely a question of fashion or aesthetics, but rather one of structural integrity and daily comfort. Selecting the appropriate support is a fundamental necessity for any woman's wardrobe, yet it remains a topic often discussed with far too little precision. 👍 The Triumph minimizer is an exceptional piece of engineering for anyone seeking a more streamlined silhouette. It provides a highly structured fit that effectively manages volume while maintaining a sophisticated, polished look. For those who prioritize both comfort and a controlled shape, this garment delivers consistent results through its thoughtful design and superior fabric tension.👍 I am absolutely delighted. 😍 Honestly, they are never on sale, but trust me—every single cent you spend on them is absolutely worth it.
I picked up a minimizer at Triumph for about $100, and honestly, I only hang out in the "fuller figure" threads because of the bra selection. My back was killing me yesterday—pinched a nerve, I think—so now I’m debating whether to see a doctor or just hope for some sort of socialized breast reduction instead.
Jason Moore63 said:Maybe there's some deeper meaning behind those heavy denim jeans? Or just some thick-cut work pants? I don't know. Sometimes you look at a pair of rugged jeans and wonder if they're actually saying something about the person wearing them, or if it's all just fabric and thread. It’s like when I was looking through that old thrift store in Chicago last winter—just rows of heavy denim, all looking identical, yet everyone thinks their pair tells a different story. Probably just clothes, though. Just stuff we wear to cover up. Personally, I can't stand copycats. Honestly, they make up like 90% of what you see these days. It just feels unoriginal. I prefer things to have some actual substance, you know? Everything falling apart around me lately. Back in the day, you had places like Amadeus where there was some real depth, but now? Every model out there feels incredibly shallow. Just empty shells. 🙄🙄
You know, when it comes to retail workers, you really run into every single type of personality under the sun. It’s wild. I was at the CVS down the street the other day, just trying to grab some aspirin and a snack, and the vibe was just... heavy. You get the ones who act like you’re personally insulting their entire lineage just by asking where the bread is, and then you have the ones who are so aggressively friendly it feels like they're trying to sell you a cult membership instead of a bag of chips. It’s exhausting, honestly. Just one more thing to navigate in a day that already feels long enough. I was over in St. Helena recently, stopped by Levi's for a bit. Honestly, the woman working there nearly took my head off with that "stay inside your house and never come out" look she gave me. Total vibe killer. On the bright side, though, those ladies in the Mustang were absolutely lovely.😍 I picked up some jeans for... well, I haven't quite decided yet. Just one of those things you do when you're wandering around a mall in suburban Ohio or staring at a screen too long. Honestly, sometimes you just see them and think, "Yeah, these might work." No grand plan. Just another thing added to the pile. $83Yeah, they’re a bit small... but I’ll definitely be heading back there. Honestly, they really caught me off guard in the best way possible.
Yeah, I mean, is the St. Helena outlet actually worth the drive for anyone? Ever since they opened up over in Lisca, that’s where I go for bras. The other day, I picked up a bra and some panties for... $19😁😁 Finding a decent, supportive bra is such a nightmare for me. I’m stuck wearing an 80D or a 75E, and honestly, most of what you see in the stores is just that cheap, flimsy stuff made for teenagers. It’s always those "young girl" collections, too. So, I finally managed to track down a modern, actual adult bra in my size. About time. 🙂🙂 Then there’s this one friend of mine who’s like eighty years old, always out there hunting for bras. Honestly, I don't think she ever actually finds one that fits—it's either a total bust or she just ends up dropping a ton of cash on something overpriced because she's desperate. It's kind of a losing battle, really. $167 Before she had any others. My mom’s basically my walking wardrobe at this point. She’s constantly hauling around these massive 85F bras for me—it’s like her main hobby now. Honestly, if you look in her closet, you’ll pretty much always find one of mine tucked away in there. Just part of the routine, I guess. $33...
They definitely have high-rise jeans. I bought a pair of black ones in a size 38 yesterday, and they had sizes up to 48. I didn't check the XXL range beyond 48, but the rise on these is incredibly deep. These black ones reach up to my belly button... which is the perfect depth for me. It's nice not having to worry about everything peeking out because the waistline is so low.
The outlet isn't really on my way, but since I'm a 75 E, I could definitely make a trip out of it for some shopping. Anyway, I've got three new bras now, so I'm set for a while. 🙂 I usually end up with those closed-up bras that have ridiculously thick straps, but this minimizer I just bought is genuinely solid.
So, my mom is wearing a size 34E—which, let's be honest, is quite the statement—and she actually found it tucked away in a basic, run-of-the-mill bra strip for $43... well, I suppose it all depends on how lucky you feel when you guess .
rowdyotter65 said:I think I’m actually going to start taking Diane35. This week—probably tomorrow, if everything goes according to plan—I’m due for my period. Honestly, the whole thing just makes me nervous about gaining weight.😢Two of my friends tried it, and they both ended up putting on like 45 pounds.
45 pounds?? That can't be right—how is that even possible? Any weight gain from birth control is usually just because your appetite spikes—you might put on a few pounds here and there or deal with some cellulite, but that's about it. I have never, ever heard of someone gaining 45 pounds from these pills.
Jeffrey Walker3 said:I've always had cellulite, honestly. My weight is basically the same, and my boobs haven't changed either! 😁 The only thing is, my period is super regular now and doesn't even hurt anymore 🙂
I’ve been on Diane-35 for a while now, and honestly, I haven't had a single issue—even though they're supposed to be one of the higher-risk options. And yeah, my cycle is perfectly predictable. I know exactly when it's coming—it always hits on a Monday, lasts until Friday, there's no pain, and the flow isn't even that heavy. It’s just... bliss. When I think back to how things used to be—knowing I'd have to spend two whole days curled up in a ball, practically incapacitated by pain and relying on heavy painkillers—well, those unbearable cramps used to hit every few months like clockwork. But ever since I started these pills, all of that has just vanished.
I actually know a girl who ended up gaining about 20 pounds—just because she started bingeing on those pills, you know, like she just couldn't get herself under control at all 🙄
And then there are the ones where, almost like magic, their bust size jumps up two or three whole sizes—or maybe they just find a really well-fitted bra—within just a couple of weeks
I even know one woman whose chest grew by half a size or a full size—and honestly, it’s totally possible
Look, I’m telling you—I’m definitely not, and honestly, you shouldn't be either. When it comes to me, those kinds of things are only ever accepted under very specific circumstances... 😍
Thomas Palmer7 said:Exactly... except for the fact that some side effects from the pills can look just like pregnancy symptoms too... 🙂 Oh, that's just my paranoia kicking in...
Hey, just wondering... how much does it actually matter if you take a pill at the exact right time? So, I started at 3:00 PM, but there were a couple of times where I ended up sipping around 3:45...
Look, I take mine at 9:00 PM, sometimes at 11:00 PM, or even at midnight... honestly, it should all be roughly the same thing. I’ve been on them for three years now—well, as long as I can remember, though my alarm goes off at 9:00 PM—and sometimes I take it right before 9:00, other times much later. I haven't gotten pregnant once.🤣
So, you haven't actually done any testing yet??? In that case, please don't start taking those pills—you really need to run some diagnostic tests first just to see if they’re even safe for you to use. What kind of medication are we talking about here? And honestly, how could a doctor even write a prescription for those without seeing the necessary lab results first?
Wait, were you actually getting regular checkups and blood work done a few years back?
Well, just head over to the clothing swap/resale section—you can actually list men's gear there too, along with all the accessories like shoes, sneakers, and whatever else you've got lying around... Honestly, if you scroll through enough pages, you'll stumble upon a guy's item at least every 25 posts or so...
I'm not quite following—what does the Post Office have to do with any of this?
I'm having some trouble sending you a private message...😁
Over at the shopping center on 5th and Main It was my first time popping into this specific spot—and get this—they actually had nine different styles in my size on the clearance rack😍 , priced anywhere from $100 up to $47 Usually, I just head over to the big department store near the interstate, or stick to the massive retailers, but honestly, these local shops really do carry everything you could possibly need
I’m a 75E—well, an American 32DD, if we're being technical—but finding that size can be such a nightmare; they even had some F cups in stock, which was a surprise
I picked up an 110E—that's a 44DDD for those following along—for my mom. She hasn't been able to find a decent bra anywhere for three years now (I mean, they exist, but they were all way too expensive at $167), so I finally grabbed this one and paid $46
brightrider95 said:She’s old enough that you should either give her the best option available or just let her wear whatever she wants if she's unhappy.🤷 I wouldn't make such a huge deal out of it. Personally, I’d rock mini skirts with killer boots and thick tights, but it doesn't always work. Look, you just have to accept reality if you aren't going on a diet.😁
There’s this one pair of pants she keeps trying to wear, but everything else just doesn't fit anymore—that’s really the core of the issue. The thing is, every single suggestion I make as an older sister gets shot down immediately; apparently, I’m just totally out of touch with what's cool these days. And let’s be real, I’m not even *that* much older—I definitely know what's currently in style.
Basically, most of the small sizes available now are like a US size 10 or 12, which means she actually needs something larger. I've been looking...
brightrider95 said:Last Friday, I picked up some skinny black jeans at Dorothy's in a US size 16, then spotted an updated version of the exact same style for $73. My old pair was a $33. I also have those dark wash ones from this summer—tried them on with the jeggings, and they use the same sizing as the dark blues and the grays. The dark blue ones have been stocked since July at both the downtown mall and the outlet. Honestly, I don't get how you haven't seen them when they come in three different colors 🤷 . Those sizes 30 or 32 you mentioned? Those are Top Shop and Miss Selfridge measurements; they aren't the same as what people wearing a size 42 would grab, even though I own a couple of pairs from Top Shop myself.
Maybe we did see them, but we just weren't feeling them—I don't really keep tabs on everything anymore... She ended up getting a pair from Urban Republic—olive green with stripes—but they’re a bit big on her and, frankly, totally out of style. She was pretty blunt about it, calling them "ugh." I think I'll head over to Target tomorrow to check things out. If they have some that actually look good, I might grab a pair for her to try—if they fit, great; if not, we'll just swap them out.
She’s got the right size, honestly—but she absolutely hates the cut. She’s dead set on finding something super skinny, you know? She tried a size 32, but she couldn't even get them buttoned because the rise is way too deep—she wants a low-rise look, something shallower. If she could just go a bit deeper with the fit without everything spilling out, they’d actually look great on her. I picked up some straight-leg ones at Gap, and when she tried those on, they looked fantastic—except, well, the high waist... she thinks it looks "frumpy," if you catch my drift. But man, good luck convincing a fifteen-year-old to wear something that actually looks good on her instead of just mimicking what her forty-five-pound friends are wearing.🙂
We actually found a wider cut over at Macy's—higher waist, but not *too* high, sitting well below the navel—but she won't touch them. I don't even know anymore; Mom has officially given up on the hunt, but I’m still out here looking.🙂
She usually wears a US 10 or 12 depending on the brand, and most things fit her perfectly—except for those ultra-skinny styles, since she’s got really strong legs. But you can't talk sense into her.🤷
What even counts as a size 44 or 48??? I mean—don't get me wrong—I can barely find a decent pair of pants for myself in a size 38 or 40 without a massive struggle. 🙂I actually know people who are rocking a 52 or 54.
I remember this one time I was out shopping with my aunt at some boutique over on Fifth Avenue—she was hunting for a size 42 or 44—and the sales clerk had the nerve to just bluntly tell her that if she wanted that range, she should probably check out the Maxx store down the hallway... That is just plain rude...
Between my sister, who’s a 44+, and my mom, who’s easily a 52+, I’ve spent a fair amount of time browsing through those larger sizes. And honestly, back when we were in that suburb near Philadelphia, there used to be this shop called Trendy Maxx that carried really cool stuff for size 44 and up—but they closed down. C&A has some decent options, but my sister isn't a fan because the waistlines aren't low enough—she basically wants pants that show off everything, if you know what I mean. There's a Kik in a small town near the border that carries bigger sizes, and then you've got Maxx in the city.
I don't know—my mom often buys from these specific vendors at local flea markets who order larger stock, but then again, a 55-year-old isn't exactly dressing like a 25-year-old...
What I'm really trying to figure out is where a 15-year-old can find clothes—say, pants in a size 44 but with looser tops—that won't break the bank and actually looks "cool"? Though, I'm not quite sure what "cool" means to her lately, since we dug through a mountain of stuff at a thrift shop and she decided none of it was "in." I have been absolutely exhausted searching for pants for my sister—everything is either too shallow or just way too small. She’s looking for those super tight, skinny-fit legs, but let's be real—they won't fit a size 44 because the leg openings are usually wide enough to fit an entire arm through.🙂