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For Sale

The Beatles, Beatles for Sale LP, $40
Vinyl Condition: VG+
Sleeve Condition: VG+
Label: Odeon 1C 072-04 200
Release Year: 1981
Country of Origin: Germany

This record is a duplicate in my collection—nothing against it, I just don't need two copies—so it’s looking for a good home where it will actually be appreciated. 🙂
I can handle a local pickup if you happen to be in the Chicago area. Otherwise, the buyer covers shipping costs.
How do we get a new subforum? in Feedback & Suggestions ·
I'm all for it.
What's the point of required reading? in Students & Teens ·
I suppose we should all be bracing ourselves—though I’m not entirely sure if "bracing" is even the right word for the sheer level of impending chaos we’re looking at here. It feels like a harbinger, doesn't it? A dark, looming sign that things are about to shift in a way none of us are particularly prepared for. Maybe I’m being overly cynical—it’s a habit of mine, I know—but there is something deeply unsettling about the current trajectory. It isn't just one isolated incident, either; it’s the cumulative weight of everything happening at once. It’s like watching a slow-motion train wreck where you can see every single flaw in the tracks, yet you’re still powerless to stop the momentum. I guess some people prefer to look the other way, to maintain that comfortable, blissful ignorance, but I find myself unable to quite shake the feeling that we are standing on the precipice of something much larger—and much more complicated—than anyone is willing to admit. kaže:
boldfalcon13

I’ve personally gone through more than fifteen books—only two of which were written by American authors—while everything else has been strictly grounded in scientific evidence. I tend to stick to works penned by psychologists, various tech media, and even video games, if you can believe that.


I’m honestly struggling to wrap my head around what this is even supposed to mean—I mean, I've been staring at it for a while now, and I just don't get the point. Maybe I'm missing something obvious, or perhaps it's just poorly phrased, but I guess I'm just left feeling completely lost.

They honestly have no clue—mostly because I was the only one actually making a living off that stuff they spent all their time cramming from schoolbooks. Back in sixth grade, none of my classmates knew the first thing about downloading a cracked program, a game, or even a movie. So, you had these "well-read, brilliant, and noble individuals" who were supposedly overflowing with academic knowledge, yet they’d come crawling to me every single day looking for... $6.75 Maybe I should just sell them the DVD...

Based on this, I guess we might actually be from the same generation. Back in my day, we had to pay off our classmates just to get them to handle things like burning CDs or ripping tracks—you know, back before every single kid had their own high-speed connection at home. I personally used to pay those same "tech-savvy, street-smart" guys to write my entire reading list assignments for me. $17That doesn't mean anything at all—honestly, it just means everyone is finding their own little way to scrape by and make a buck wherever they can. You’re out there charging people for burning CDs, while I’m busy writing term papers—and let's be real, back when downloading an entire album took as long as the actual music played, those papers required just as much effort.

So, you want to lecture me on my literacy? Fine. If we’re going to play this game, let's actually raise the bar. Since you seem so eager to test my intellect—and I suppose I should be flattered, or maybe just exhausted by the condescension—let's see how you fare. Tell me, what do you consider to be the fundamental purpose of human existence? And don't give me some vague, Hallmark-card nonsense. Give me at least five core psychological traits that a person actually needs to prioritize to build a life worth living. Furthermore—since you're clearly feeling quite scholarly today—what is the name of the closest star to our solar system? I'm looking for the actual astronomical designation, not some poetic approximation. I have a feeling you won't know either—much like how eighty percent of the population remains blissfully ignorant until they finally stumble through a university degree. Your move.

I was actually the first one to point out that a well-rounded education matters just as much regardless of which specific field of knowledge you're diving into. I mean, I honestly think my colleague—who can probably quote Krleža all day long but wouldn't know a Gauss's curve if it hit them in the face—is displaying the exact same level of ignorance as someone who knows the math but hasn't a clue about literature. It’s all the same kind of narrow-mindedness, I guess.

It’s happening again—it’s always the same thing. They seem more concerned with trivialities like what Napoleon’s favorite meal was, or the exact dates of when Krleža was born and passed away, than anything actually substantial. It’s just... I don't know, it feels incredibly superficial.

This is a complete exaggeration—honestly. In all my years of schooling—from elementary through high school and even all four years of college—not once was I ever asked something like that. Generally speaking, exams focus on genres, historical periods, and actual academic substance... they don't care what someone had for breakfast.

I guess we just witnessed the perfect specimen of the modern generation—the kind that thinks downloading the entire internet makes them some sort of intellectual titan. They’ve got all the information in the world at their fingertips, yet they're somehow less capable than ever. Take the recent SATs, for instance. Specifically, the verbal section. You have this passage right there in front of you—literally containing every single answer required to solve the questions—and all you actually have to do is read, draw a basic conclusion, and circle an option. And yet, even with the answers staring them in the face, they just... don't get it. They truly don't know.

It’s just like when parents try to force-feed their kids those classic summer reading lists—it honestly makes my skin crawl. I can't stand this constant parental outcry against mathematics, or the way they whine alongside their children about having to learn things that seem "useless." Because, apparently, what is math ever going to do for them in the real world? It is truly appalling, if you ask me—this mindset creates such deep-seated resentment toward knowledge itself. We end up teaching kids to despise learning anything that doesn't have an immediate, tangible payoff. And then? Then we're left with a generation of functionally illiterate, self-proclaimed geniuses who will be running this country fifty years from now, yet they won't even be able to hold a basic conversation because they'll claim "that's not my field." It's a disaster waiting to happen.
What's the point of required reading? in Students & Teens ·
David Torres6 said:The goal is for them to memorize a quote and actually understand Ernest Hemingway or Tennessee Williams by the 6th grade.

Yet, by high school, they can't even figure out how to turn on a computer—they shout patriotic slogans without having the slightest clue about history or politics, and they're so naive they'd get mugged on a street corner in seconds for lacking basic survival instincts.

As for me, I developed my imagination and a wide range of skills through gaming—from age three until now—rather than through fairy tales, bedtime stories, or those meaningless pieces of American literature that, quite frankly, haven't benefited anyone.

Well, you typically read Hemingway in high school—and I think Tennessee Williams might not even be mandatory reading at all...

What really matters is that they can't even figure out how to turn on a computer by freshman year of high school; they just shout patriotic slogans without knowing a single thing about history or politics, and they could get mugged on any street corner in a heartbeat because they lack even an ounce of street smarts.

I suspect they can definitely operate a computer—and probably quite a few other things, too—since they spend most of their daily lives on social media downloading those very same books. History is also taught in schools, as far as I'm aware, and regarding the whole robbery thing, a sensible parent will tell their kid to just hand over a phone or a wallet to avoid a bad situation... besides, it's not like people are getting attacked every single day.

I developed my imagination and plenty of other skills through playing video games from the age of three until this very moment, rather than through fairy tales, bedtime stories, or whatever nonsense comes out of American literature (which, frankly, I have no idea who it was ever useful to).

What it "was useful for" is teaching them the difference between correct and incorrect spelling. Literature—aside from everything else mentioned—enriches one's vocabulary and teaches the art of expression. Syntax, style, and the ability to write coherently with actual logic—that is what literature teaches us.

Literature also instructs us on how to express our thoughts, whether in writing or speaking, and how to do so properly. And as for why someone would need to know about The Iliad or The Odyssey if they happen to be good at math? Because being a complete idiot isn't a valid excuse for anything. Similarly, I believe the Pythagorean theorem should be something you know in the middle of the night. This dismissal of knowledge by parents is so repulsive to me that I honestly wonder if they expect to remain on this planet forever while leaving children to solve every single problem in life on their own.
Elementary school teachers in Students & Teens ·
Anthony White8 said:I had no clue the movie was such a total disaster!
But you just assume that if a teacher is taking a class to the movies or a play, they actually know what they're getting into, right?🤷

Look, whether something crosses the line into being truly horrific or not is really up for debate... I mean, if you look back, even we used to act like total idiots when we were kids—doing stupid stuff during those "intense" movie scenes just because everyone else was doing it, or maybe just to mock the people who were actually genuinely terrified. It’s cruel, sure, but that’s just how kids are. 🤷 It’s like those moments when people start shouting "Uuuuuu" and "Fuuuuuuj" just because you're about to kiss—you know, that whole awkward scene where everyone is practically counting down the seconds until you finally lean in, all before you've even hit puberty.

I honestly have my doubts that this movie is even scarier than those last few Harry Potter installments—you know, the ones kids obsess over that actually manage to creep me out sometimes, even as an adult. Besides, since it’s part of the required reading list, maybe it’ll actually be easier for them to just sit down and power through the book instead.
Elementary school teachers in Students & Teens ·
Anthony White8 said:My kid is in first grade, and honestly, the constant grading caught me off guard too$6.75 like, getting a 10 for this or a 5 for that... man, if I didn't just go along with it, I wouldn't know what to do. It's impossible to tell a kid "we can't afford the movies" when everyone else in class is going🤷

And about the McDonald's thing—I think taking kids there is totally lame too...
I was also left staring blankly at the wall recently when I saw the whole school went to see Coca-Cola in theaters (I bet someone got a fat kickback for that one😠)... anyway, my little one was terrified (and she's not even a scaredy-cat), says everyone was screaming in the theater and covering their heads with jackets during the scary parts.... I seriously thought at least one teacher would watch the movie first to know what they were exposing kids to. A lot of kids ended up pretty shaken up...😢

Coca-Cola is actually a book by Ivan kušati that’s part of the required reading list for fourth grade (at least it was back when I was in school). 🤷

I really don't understand why you parents aren't staging a revolt. I'm fairly certain the teachers would get a break too if they didn't have to babysit 30 kids in such an outdated system. We used to get these vague offers as well—the older folks would say "It's impossible," and instead of a two-day trip to Paris (which is a bit much to begin with), we'd end up on a single-day excursion to Yellowstone.
Elementary school teachers in Students & Teens ·
hiddendriver34 said:Alright, I figured it was about time I jumped in and shared my two cents on this whole situation too. $7.00Look, this whole situation doesn't sound great, and it definitely makes the teacher look bad, but we’re only seeing one side of the coin here. Who knows how many stories like this happen behind closed doors in a teacher's daily grind? If you have five kids in your class dealing with serious family or financial struggles, chances are someone is going to need a hand more often than you'd think. I can't tell you how many times I've personally stepped up and lent money to a student—someone who wasn't even in a tough spot, just caught off guard. It would be something like: "Oh, you forgot your bus fare? Don't worry about it, I'll cover you today, just get it back to me tomorrow. We need to turn in the field trip money to the front office right now, so just take this and pay me back when you can." And honestly? About half the time, that money was gone for good. But let's be real—it feels pretty petty to go pulling a kid aside or making a scene over twenty bucks. $10But then, everything just went sideways. $6.75 Look, I’m 30 years old, and if there's one thing I've learned, it's that lending money to students is like trying to fill a bottomless pit. It just never ends. So, I finally made a call: I am officially done being the classroom bank. From now on, my response is always the same: "Hey, we have to turn this cash in to the school accounting office by the end of the day for these specific fees. You didn't bring yours? No big deal. I'll hand in everyone else's money, and you can just take yours down to the office yourself whenever you actually have it." I truly believe that no matter what kind of job you have, you need to maintain a certain level of professional distance. If you don't set those boundaries, you're just asking for a headache.
Look, maybe this teacher decided she’s going to play small-time lender for her students, but she always expects to be paid back. Who even knows how much cash she’s pulling out of her own wallet every time one of those five kids facing hardship hits a rough patch? And honestly, why would she give $3 to our friend's son but not the others? Should she be giving it to everyone? Or maybe she shouldn't be lending money to anyone at all? That’s really the question we should be chewing on here.

I think people genuinely forget that lending money like this can end up causing massive headaches for the teacher herself.

At the parent-teacher conference tomorrow, this could all come to light—maybe one of the kids overheard something or figured it out and mentioned it at home, and then suddenly, some mom is going to demand to know why the teacher didn't pay for everyone and why that one kid gets special treatment. 🤷 At the end of the day, if parents are sending their kids off with zero cash only to have a teacher cover them at McDonald's, they're basically being irresponsible.

IMHO, I suspect the OP is perhaps a little bitter about her own life (which, I get, totally), but I don't think it's right to project that onto the child. Ultimately, I find it pretty irresponsible to send a kid to another city without a single cent in their pocket. They could have gotten lost, or something could have happened (God forbid), or an unexpected expense could have popped up, and they wouldn't have had even a dollar to fall back on.

Don't act like these things don't happen. I remember this one middle school field trip where our bus broke down in the middle of nowhere. We somehow managed to trek to the nearest gas station and ended up spending most of the night there. Our lunchbox sandwiches were gone in no time, and the corporate credit card the trip organizer was carrying—the kind meant for emergencies—wasn't even accepted at that station, let alone was there an ATM in sight. It happens. We had to scramble to buy food ourselves in that moment, even though the travel agency eventually covered everything by treating us to a free day trip later because of the mess.
Looking for a specialist... in Health ·
Megan Wilson8 said:I'm looking for a dentist in NYC who takes Medicare. The most important thing is that they can handle someone with massive dental anxiety—I really don't need someone lecturing me for twenty minutes about how I should have come in sooner. Honestly, it’s high time I finally get my teeth sorted out, but I feel incredibly embarrassed about this first appointment because my teeth are actually in pretty bad shape. 😢 Fear and procrastination are a terrible combination.

Vlasta Glamuzina, Times Square.

I had a friend once who basically had "white coat syndrome"—she was terrified of anyone in a lab coat, even the people working at the local bakery—and she had her wisdom teeth pulled, and she was extremely happy with the experience.

I guess I'm a little less terrified than she was, but I still made sure to give them a heads-up, and they were incredibly professional about it. They narrated everything they were doing so there wouldn't be any surprises—you know, things like, "this might sting a bit now," or "it's going to feel cold," or "now I'm just drilling/grinding..."
Looking for a specialist... in Health ·
Sophia Alvarez said:Does anyone know what the co-pay is for T3, T4, and TSH thyroid panels?
If you're going through a hospital system?
Also, if anyone has advice on where in Washington, D.C. I could get seen the fastest? Honestly, scrolling through endless waiting lists on various hospital websites is driving me absolutely insane.. 😢

Because I see private clinics are charging around $67, which isn't too bad, but if there's any way to save a bit of money, I'd certainly appreciate it.

Thanks so much!

Check out Breyer Labs over on Illica Street. The cost is about $23 per hormone, and you can just show up whenever—assuming they're actually open, of course.

In my experience, I ended up waiting a full month just for the hormone results, then another month for the actual consultation, and apparently, I'm looking at an ultrasound at Mount Sinai sometime next year. In the end, I just gave up and went to a private specialist. 🤷
Looking for a specialist... in Health ·
Alright, everyone... now for the east side

I urgently need to find a sane doctor!

So, my dear Dr. Živković prescribed Normabelle for my high blood pressure and heart palpitations—and then actually suggested I drink Cola just to avoid heartburn...

Please, I'm looking for a doctor in West Washington, D.C., though a clinic downtown would work too.
Looking for a specialist... in Health ·
I'm on the hunt for a general practitioner over on the west side of town—ideally someone who is actually accepting new patients right now. Either a private practice or maybe at a local community health center would work fine.
I just have one major condition: please, for the love of God, don't suggest Dr. Ružica Živković... I am actively trying to stay as far away from her as possible.😬
Hey there!

So, I just had a complete disaster on my hands... I was trying to pull a $500 bill out of this metal box (and please, don't ask me why my grandmother keeps her cash stashed in there 🤦), and the damn thing got snagged on a sharp edge and ripped right down the middle.

Is there any way to swap a torn bill for a fresh one? Anywhere at all? Is there even a chance?
Hey there! Just checking in—not that anyone really asked, I suppose. How’s everything going with you?

If you’ve accidentally taken an emergency contraceptive pill—what most people here probably call the "morning-after pill"—there isn't really much to panic about, though I suppose it can feel pretty overwhelming in the moment. It’s one of those things where you just have to take a breath and figure out the next steps. First off, if you’re worried about whether it’s actually going to work, that depends entirely on how much time has passed since the encounter. Most of these medications, like Plan B, are designed to be taken within a specific window—usually up to 72 hours—though some types can work a bit longer. If you're still within that timeframe, the medication is doing exactly what it was designed to do. Now, regarding what to do next... honestly, you just have to monitor how your body reacts. It’s quite common to experience some side effects—everything from nausea and fatigue to a bit of abdominal pain. I guess it might also throw your menstrual cycle for a loop. You might see some spotting or find that your period arrives a few days early or late. It’s annoying, certainly, but usually nothing to worry about. One thing I should mention—and this is important—is that if your period doesn't show up when you expect it to, you really ought to take a pregnancy test. Even though the pill is highly effective, it isn't a 100% guarantee, especially if there were issues with timing or weight factors. A standard over-the-counter test from a place like CVS or Walgreens should give you the clarity you need after a couple of weeks. Also, please keep in mind that this is a one-time emergency measure. It isn't meant to be used as regular birth control—using it too frequently can definitely mess with your hormones more than necessary. If you're feeling physically unwell in a way that feels "off" or intense, or if you just need professional medical advice to ease your mind, reaching out to a doctor or a clinic like Planned Parenthood is probably your best bet. They deal with this every single day and can provide specific guidance based on your health history. Just stay calm; you'll get through it.

So, I went and did it—I actually swallowed my Sunday pill today instead of my Monday one. It’s the very first tablet of this cycle, and apparently, I just completely miscalculated what day of the week it actually is. So, yeah... the pill has been taken, but for the entirely wrong day! I guess I'm just a bit ahead of schedule—or behind, depending on how you look at it—and now I'm sitting here wondering if I should even be stressing about it. Maybe it doesn't matter as much as I think it does, but still... definitely not the plan.

I’m at my wit's end here—seriously, someone please help me out. 🙂
Unrealistic movie tropes and plot holes in Movies ·
1. everyone is having sex without any protection at all
2. everyone finishes in like, two milliseconds flat
3. hooking up on the beach
4. standing up during sex
5. sex under the water
6. parents who respond to the absolute worst possible situations with just a calm conversation
7. everyone manages to work, go to college, and stay incredibly fit all at once
8. everyone is already a CEO by the age of 25

well... that's basically what comes to mind immediately