Posts by Kyle Bishop65

Peter Gray2 said:Alright, let me apologize for my post then—it’s clear we just see things differently, especially on this topic. Personally, I couldn't function if my shopping style was just "charge me up and toss it in the bag." If it wasn't for that lady driving a Mustang who suggested a specific denim cut—one that wouldn't make my thighs look even heavier but would actually slim them down visually—I wouldn't be wearing the best jeans of my life right now. Instead, I'd probably be stuck in some carrot-cut style that makes my backside look way wider. Sometimes, you actually have to listen to other people.

And that's the thing... the real issue is whether you can actually trust someone whose job it is to sell you something.😁 My brain starts working overtime the second a salesperson begins "advising" me. Look, I know there are well-meaning people out there—not everyone is out to get you—but sometimes they push a specific color or a certain fit just because it’s more expensive, or because they’re out of what you actually wanted, or because that one item isn't moving off the racks fast enough and they want you to try it. I don't know, everyone has different experiences and different stories. Up until this little debate, I hadn't even realized how much easier it is for me to shop at places like Target or Old Navy where I can just pick things out and try them on without feeling like I'm being watched. That's why I usually prefer big retailers over those tiny boutiques. But based on what you said, I guess it really comes down to "nothing ventured, nothing gained." It all just depends on who you're dealing with and what you're looking for in the moment.

nimbleheron47 said:Look, even if I weighed 330 lbs—which I don't—it's her job to be professional and give me what I asked for. Whether I'm 90 lbs or 330 lbs, it’s totally inappropriate for her to comment on my body parts. That's the actual issue here, not how anyone chooses to carry themselves. Her stupidity didn't hurt my feelings; it just annoyed me because that kind of behavior is unacceptable, regardless of whether I'm a size 2 or a size 16. Honestly, it would be just as messed up if she told a thin woman, "Who's to blame that you haven't grown any boobs?" It’s even funnier because the person making the statement is a bit 😁 curvy herself.
Basically, I was in shock... both at the first store and the second. Luckily, 😬 they were right next to each other, which gave me enough time to decide I wasn't going to waste any more time in places like that.

dustycyclist72 said:Honestly, just shut up about that point already!

I am perfectly aware of my own body—which parts are critical and exactly what size pants, shirts, and everything else I need to buy.

A sales clerk’s job is to assist me without adding their unsolicited commentary. If I decide to walk out with two sizes smaller than what I actually wear—that is entirely my business. Her responsibility is simply to ring up the sale, bag the items, and wish me a pleasant day.

That comment about the watch was particularly moronic. What on earth were they trying to achieve by saying that? It isn't like they're selling a flock of expensive sheep.

Okay, I get it, you guys have a point. The real crux of the matter is that these people felt entitled to chime in when nobody asked for their opinion 😁 rather than the content of what they were saying. Personally, I can't stand those "Oh, that looks great on you!" comments. Your job is to sell me merchandise; whether I think it suits me or not, you say it looks good, and that's it. We aren't children; why even bother saying anything else? Yeah, it's incredibly annoying when you're trying things on and some stranger decides to weigh in. But honestly, there isn't much else to do besides deal with it, just like having to hear "Do you have a rewards card?" or "Would you like to add this toothpaste to your order?" at the checkout counter. They are trained for this, and no matter how much it gets under our skin, they have to try to convince us somehow. I guess that's where "people skills" come into play—some people have them, some don't. Even though it's still not justified, I'll say it again.

Charles Gomez4 said:Unbelievable 😲 And then you hear people say, "Oh, poor things, they just couldn't make it work in America, it's all the customers' fault / the politicians / the small fry"... if we could just filter out the trash here and/or send them to some basic human decency training, maybe it would actually mean something 😠

One time, while I was picking out a watch worth over a thousand dollars, the sales clerk told me it was perfect for someone more substantial like myself. I think I was about 155 lbs at 5'10" back then. I turned around and walked straight to the competitor to buy the exact same watch.

dustycyclist72 said:Kimble, that’s awful. They treated me with that exact same attitude back when I was thin—just as dismissive. Around here, the retail staff are generally rude and completely checked out. Honestly, they should be paid strictly on commission—then we'd see just how much malice they could squeeze into a single sentence.

That is precisely why I never ask for help in stores. I navigate the aisles myself, put everything back where it belongs, and only flag someone down if I actually intend to try something on. That’s the extent of our interaction.

Look, at the end of the day, this whole thing is really just about how you view yourselves and whether you’ve actually made peace with your own reflection. Don't get me wrong—don't take this the wrong way—I'm fat too. But if you were actually okay with your body, these kinds of comments wouldn't sting nearly as much as they do. It reminds me of that show *The Biggest Loser*, where you see these contestants breaking down in tears because their trainer gives them a hard time for not pushing themselves hard enough. And the trainer is doing it to help them, right? But then one girl starts sobbing and says, "That hurts even more than someone calling me fat to my face." Well, what exactly are you doing on a weight-loss competition if you aren't overweight?! I'm not trying to be a jerk or insult anyone here, I really am not, but I genuinely don't get why it's such an issue to just acknowledge the obvious. Why does it bother you so much when other people notice the very same thing you already know about yourself? Is it really better to have people smiling at you and throwing out fake compliments like they're being hypocrites? Or is there some other catch I'm missing? Honestly, I'm curious...

Looks like the Medtronic site is finally back up and running, so I'm just dropping this here in case anyone actually needs it:

Hey everyone! I’m looking for a solid recommendation for medical pedicure services.

I’ve been putting this off because it’s nothing majorly painful, but I’m honestly pretty skeptical when it comes to hygiene. It is absolutely critical to me that everything is sterile, spotless, and that the technician actually knows what they’re doing.

The most common suggestion I see is Medtronic, but those reviews are years old. From what I’ve gathered lately, they’ve been moving locations constantly, losing their best staff, and I’ve even stumbled upon some negative feedback. Plus, they don't even have a website.

To be honest, I don't care about the neighborhood or how friendly the staff is, and price isn't my main concern either. My priority is expertise and sterilization. So, if anyone can recommend a legitimate salon—and please, no mobile technicians who come to your house—I’d really appreciate it. Let me know which specific technician to ask for. Feel free to DM me. Thanks a million!