Posts by William Williams7

frozengull2 said:Of course they show up.
I wasn't always this fulfilled, you know? Like, I didn't used to be someone who could just shrug things off.

But man, there are moments where I am just straight-up "fed up."
The big thing though, is that I can actually remember those times.
In a weird way, being able to "relive" it for a second helps everything click back into place.
At least enough so I can see things from the right angle.

Like, for example;
There’s this guy I know—he was super miserable growing up because his dad treated him like garbage.
He wasn't hitting him or anything, but he’d call him a "crybaby" and was just generally awful to him.
My heart just broke for him.
I was always there to comfort him, and we’d play together all the time.
I knew exactly how much it sucked and how hurt and sad he felt deep down.
When you see stuff like that, your first instinct is to just get pissed at the dad, and honestly, that’s what I did at first.
But then, when inspiration hit me, I realized the guy—the dad—was just young. He never really learned how to actually treat people (you know, with tact, being subtle, just acting natural), he didn't have a dad himself, he grew up bouncing around with people who didn't care about him like family, and deep down, he isn't a bad person; he just doesn't know how to show it.
I could also tell he loved his son, but his impulses would just take over, he'd say something shitty, and then feel bad about it later.
Look,
once you feel all that, that guy isn't "evil" in your eyes anymore. All you can really feel for him is pity and understanding.
The dumbest thing you can do is sit there judging him and holding onto hate in your gut.
The hardest part for me was seeing that my friend probably won't ever be able to fix that inside himself.
He’s always going to carry that sense of being wounded... even when he’s grown.
Who knows, maybe one day he’ll find himself in that exact same spot.
But I get him too.
It's not easy to let go of that feeling of being hurt.
Especially when you're a kid and you feel like someone *should* be giving you love, but they aren't—at least not in the way you need it.
If I were in his shoes, all that stuff wouldn't get to me.
Because I don't measure the world through that lens; instead, I see everything through this "glass" of wonder—it's hard to explain—that's always right in front of my eyes.

Sometimes it's at a hundred percent, sometimes a little less, and sometimes it takes me a while to
"wake up" to it.

How could I not?

But one thing I know for sure: in the light of an experience like that, everything else on this planet feels easy and bearable.

Anyway, here's a gold star for you!

Thanks for getting back to me. I really dig your take on people—it's pretty much how I look at things too.🙂

frozengull2 said:It’s really not that deep.

The only true compass—you know, like that lighthouse you see way off in the distance guiding you home—is this feeling of being "fulfilled," at least according to what I’ve gathered from life.
I can't even put it into words properly.
If it’s there, we’re on the right track... if it isn't, then something is seriously missing.
And that’s pretty much it.

It doesn't matter if someone is struggling through life (and by that, I mean money stuff).
As long as a person feels full inside, they don't need anything else.
I met this guy once, a friend of my dad's, who was a missionary working out somewhere in Africa (back when he came to visit us here in the States for a bit).
He had absolutely nothing.
Like, zero. But man, he was incredible. I snapped a photo of him immediately.
That guy—heaven or hell, whatever—was always smiling and genuinely happy.
It wasn't because he was broke, and it wasn't just because he was "into spiritual stuff"... it was because he was fulfilled deep down.
Whatever it is that fills him up, he's the only one who truly knows.
I get him 100 percent.
Whatever kind of mental "gymnastics" he's doing to stay on that path, it clearly works.

On the flip side, you see so many people today who have way more than they could ever need, yet they’re miserable.

In my opinion, all that stuff they own is basically worthless to them.

You can do whatever you want.
You can chase after new gadgets, bury your head in books, talk until you're blue in the face, or just stare blankly into space... but if you aren't fulfilled on the inside, none of it matters.

There’s honestly no point in arguing about it.
Whether someone is actually "fulfilled" or just lying to themselves—they'll know.

We either feel it or we don't; it's an instant, gut-level thing.

Anything else—like saying, "Well... I guess I am fulfilled in a way? Yeah, sure..."—that just isn't it.

I do need to mention one thing, though.
You can't mix up spiritual fulfillment (or lack thereof) with just feeling frustrated because your brain is annoyed by something (like your bank account, your surroundings, or those people who—let's be honest, our judgment is usually crap—just "get on our nerves").

Those are two totally different things.

Once you're truly "filled up" the right way, none of that other stuff bothers you.
You can look at everything from the right perspective (the fulfillment perspective), see everyone for who they are, understand things deeply, and not hold a grudge against anyone.

If you don't feel that deep down in your soul, you're heading the wrong way.

Just my experience.

If it isn't too much trouble, could you explain how you actually handle specific, real-world problems once you've reached that level where nothing gets under your skin?

And do you actually maintain that feeling of total fulfillment constantly, or are there still moments where things knock you off balance?

[QUOTE=Pangloss;23521809]Just highlight the section of text you want to reply to and hit that little square icon at the end (you can also find it down in the Quick Response box) that says "Wrap

tags around selected text"

Will it actually work for me?

[QUOTE="cosmicskipper39, post: 382206, member: 654"]You can even do it "manually" if you want.
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Just type this at the start:
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Then wrap it up with this at the end:
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Sandra Morgan2 said:Personally, I don't think the destination matters—because let's face it, we're all marching toward the same inevitable end regardless. What matters is HOW we travel.

When looking at the "HOW"—my observations of life here on Earth lead me to believe that everyone wants a journey that is pleasant, easy, and comfortable, surrounded by the right people and feeling good.

Everyone. No exceptions.

Absolutely nobody wants their journey (read: life) to be defined by pain, discomfort, or constant struggle.

So, when I want to check if my path is on track, I look at the basics: Am I waking up happy? Am I laughing throughout the day? (I use kids as my benchmark—they say kids laugh about 450 times a day, while adults barely hit 12). Do small things bring me genuine joy? And when I lay my head down at night, do I feel like sleep is a waste of precious time?

If those things are missing, something is definitely wrong with my journey.

Since I almost forgot the most vital ingredient for a happy, smooth ride, I’ll quote some classic lyrics to remind myself:

all you need for happiness is a woman, a man, and the sea
all you need for happiness is a child born of love
all you need for love is a woman, a man, and the sea
and a little salt-crusted cottage on the coast

and you know I'm not one for big speeches
and I'll never be able to tell you "I love you"
but for love, I'd give it all, la la la la la la la la

I really dig this practical way you evaluate things. I definitely need to start using this method myself.

As for Whitman's recipe for bliss, I think I'll just stick to the partner part—we can probably skip the ocean (even though I'm a total beach person) and the kids.

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If this doesn't work, I'll give it another shot tomorrow. My brain works better in the morning anyway.🙄

hollowviper40 said:I’m relatively new to this forum—so please, be gentle—and I was wondering if anyone could walk me through how to quote multiple different posts and reply to all of them within a single response? I have a feeling this exact question has been addressed somewhere in this thread already, but honestly, trying to dig through everything right now would just lead to a massive headache and I’d probably lose my way before finding the answer.

My bad! Scratch that—this post is totally redundant. I figured out how to do it just now. Thanks anyway.

If this doesn't pan out, I’ll give it another shot tomorrow. Honestly, my brain just works better in the morning than it does late at night.🙄

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Alright, I’ve picked out this specific text to work on for practice. Hopefully, I’ve finally managed to pinpoint exactly where I went wrong in my last attempt.

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I just deleted a quote, so I really hope that doesn't end up triggering any more glitches or errors around here.

hollowviper40 said:I’m relatively new to this forum—so please, be gentle—and I was wondering if anyone could walk me through how to quote multiple different posts and reply to all of them within a single response? I have a feeling this exact question has been addressed somewhere in this thread already, but honestly, trying to dig through everything right now would just lead to a massive headache and I’d probably lose my way before finding the answer.

My bad! Scratch that—this post is totally redundant. I figured out how to do it just now. Thanks anyway.

If this actually works out, I owe a huge thanks to the kind people on here who took the time to teach me the ropes. If it doesn't? Well, I’ll just have to get back in there and try again.

Someone once said—life is a constant struggle.

I don't really see it that way at all. Look, nobody ever promised us a life of nonstop pleasure, but then again, you also have those rare people who seem to attract one tragedy after another without any breathing room. Even those folks going through it have their good moments, provided they actually know how to recognize them when they happen.

In my opinion, the hardest people to watch are the ones who spend their entire lives looking sideways with envy. They’re always fixated on everyone else who seems to have more, lives more exciting lives, travels the world constantly, or lives in much more organized countries than ours...

Maria Robinson2 said:Honestly, people claim God doesn't distribute wisdom, yet here He is, handing us intuition too, I guess.🙂

For instance, I had a feeling ahead of time that the two of us would take over this site in record time 😉.
The two of us—wherever we go, if we actually want to, it becomes ours 😁.
If this isn't some kind of comedy, then I don't know what is
.
It seems others have realized that arguing with us is pointless—one should just talk to us instead
. Since nobody really feels like having a conversation, they just let us enjoy our peace... honestly, "understatement" doesn't even cover it 🤷.

No, seriously—sometimes when I tell people, "let's just talk like humans," they immediately bolt because they see there won't be any intense debate or fighting 🤣 😂.

Who else has God granted wisdom, besides knowledge of Him?
Well, look—He gave it to people like us; He offered it, we accepted it, and now we operate this way because anything else isn't an option
. And it's unlikely people like us would just pick a fight with each other—I can't imagine what the reason would even be
.
So, my conclusion is that perhaps others should follow our lead 🙂.

Let them do whatever they want and whatever makes them happy. I've noticed a few individuals—probably just kids, I assume—who spend their precious time and intellect mocking believers.
I guess that’s more thrilling to them than playing video games. Whatever, youth is wasted on the young. They can look up to whoever they want; they can idolize Ram or Terminator for all I care, the internet is wide enough for them.

We have our own strategy.
Come on, ☕☕ let's go meet up in those other newly conquered threads. 🙂

Maria Robinson2 said:You're quite the little genius—a bit of a breath of fresh air in this place, I suppose.🙂

Right there with you😍.

Honestly, looking at how people talk back home in Canada, you aren't much different—you're right in that same vein.

Catch you later, God willing. 🙂🙂

Maria Robinson2 said:Well, you'll see there are some of us who actually are grateful... I suppose. 🙂

People have been saying for ages that knowledge is laid out before us—it's right there, existing—so it’s really just a matter of who chooses to reach for it.

It's a bit like after-school programs in the States; they're available for anyone who wants them to learn something extra they enjoy—if they feel like it—without any pressure, just individual choice.

God doesn't force anyone to believe in Him, nor does He force anyone to seek knowledge.
He simply offers... the rest is up to the individual, I guess.

Exactly!

We should be thankful to Him for giving us what He intended and withholding what He intended.

Brian Martinez49 said:Why do I think talented people actually figure themselves out? Honestly, it’s probably because they have nothing else to do—most of them are too busy overthinking their own existence to actually live it. It’s like, you spend all this time honing a skill or being "gifted," and then you hit this wall where you realize that being good at something doesn't actually mean you know who the hell you are. It’s a bit like what Eckhart Tolle talks about—that disconnect between your ego and your actual being. For a lot of these high achievers, their whole identity is wrapped up in being "the best" or "the smartest," and once that starts to crack, they’re forced to look inward. They can't just hide behind their trophies anymore. They end up having to face the void, which, let's be real, is pretty terrifying. So they start digging, looking for some kind of deeper meaning, and eventually, they stumble into self-awareness just by trying to make sense of why being successful feels so... empty sometimes. It's a messy process, though—lots of staring at ceilings at 3 AM and questioning every life choice since middle school.
They’re usually just high-strung, unlikable, totally on edge, and basically useless at everything—except for that one specific talent they cling to.
Unlike those other guys—you know the type—there are actually regular, totally untalented people out there who just happen to have incredible outlooks on life.
They’re actually out there living their best lives—just soaking it all up and enjoying every damn second of it.
And maybe—if we're being totally real here—the biggest thing is that they aren't even afraid of the end.
I’ve met a few people like that—folks who barely finished middle school, let alone had some fancy degree, yet they possessed these profound, earth-shattering insights... honestly, it's wild. They lived life on their own terms, and they left it the same way: quiet, low-key, and completely at peace with everything.

I honestly could see the merit in that argument. But then again, maybe being able to live a simple, unassuming life is its own kind of talent. Is it something anyone can do? Absolutely not.

It leaves you with so many questions to chew on. I’ve started noticing that having a gift can be just as much of a curse as it is a blessing.

But it makes me wonder... do we actually have the right to just ignore our talents and choose not to develop them?

Maria Robinson2 said:Seriously? Just imagine if the majority of people on this planet were constantly seeking wisdom from God! It would be almost like paradise here—a world full of people actually pursuing true understanding and knowledge. There wouldn't be any wars, no endless bickering over trivial nonsense; everyone would basically be someone else's best friend.

But unfortunately, reality is the exact opposite of that.

It doesn't matter, though. This isn't just some myth; it’s going to be part of the new order of things, no matter how much skeptics scoff or laugh at us.
You know how the saying goes: he who laughs last, laughs best... 😉

Both you and I know that God created this world with incredible wisdom. We also know He shared a small spark of that wisdom and knowledge with us. He provided the guidelines and the roadmap, yet left us with the absolute freedom to choose whether we believe or not.

Who are we to sit in judgment of His infinite wisdom and love?

He placed us in such a high position among all His creations, and yet, we remain ungrateful.

ironharbor8 said:Without getting bogged down in the weeds, just look at the variables already set: genetics dictating your physique, sex, brain structure, IQ, inclinations, talents... Then there are the social circumstances (you don't pick your parents, after all), plus behavioral patterns imprinted deep within the subconscious that are nearly impossible to overhaul. Toss in inertia, phobias, and countless other factors imposed without our conscious input... and see how much room is left for actual free will or agency. Very little, if you ask me. But people love their delusions; they find comfort in believing they are the ones making the calls. I won't be the one to knock down someone else's sandcastle, though.

The question remains: if you truly possess free will, and there is a better, different path available than the one you are currently walking—why aren't you taking it?

Free will is directly proportional to the amount of conscious constraints and binding mechanisms within your own subconscious. As long as there is anything capable of tethering you—positively or negatively—you aren't truly free. And those ties are endless.

I can't say for certain how much of the road is paved in advance, but a significant portion definitely is.

As for the ultimate purpose of life, free will, or any of this nonsense, I haven't a clue. I just know that I exist, that answers don't arrive on my schedule, and that I have to live out the duration I've been allotted. I try to do so as consciously and responsibly as possible.

Whether free will exists or not becomes irrelevant once you realize you are merely an anonymous, attribute-less observer in an infinite game where you didn't write the rules. Like a single snowflake caught in a blizzard... You accept your fate and simply exist, appearing only in those rare moments when the fog of daily life lifts.

That is my take on it. It doesn't have to be the absolute truth, and it's subject to change as my perspective evolves.

But even that choice to "surrender to fate" is still a choice—it's an exercise of free will, because some people simply refuse to settle.

Regarding those predetermined factors you mentioned—two sisters could share almost identical ones and still end up on completely different paths.

In my opinion, most people—even when they realize there's a better way out of their current situation—don't change a thing because they're terrified of change. It's just too hard for them to step outside their comfort zone.

wearyhawk83 said:Honestly, we can pretty much toss the word "moral" out of our vocabulary altogether.
Honestly, I don't think you can ever really separate your path from how you actually act. They’re basically two sides of the same coin, right? Because let’s be real: the quality of your journey is directly tied to the quality of your behavior. You can't have one without the other! We shouldn't just sit around waiting for some "destiny" or a lucky break to drop into our laps. We have to go out there and actively seek out the path through learning and searching. That’s exactly what separates someone who actually owns their will from someone who is just being driven around by it. It’s the difference between truly being alive and just going through the motions like a zombie.

There’s just no way to sit down and logically crunch the numbers to figure out our best move. You can't just analyze your way through this! It all comes down to how we see things right now—how we interpret the current situation and the impact we actually have on it.

Look, the "best" path isn't always the easiest one. It’s definitely not the most moral one, nor is it the one that keeps you from feeling any pain. Real talk: the best path is simply *your* path. It’s the specific journey meant for you that actually leads to the growth and life lessons you need to experience.

I’ve honestly realized that life just flows way easier when you stop fighting everything and actually embrace what’s right in front of you. It’s so easy to get caught up in the big picture and completely miss the small stuff right under our noses!

Right? I mean, seriously!
You're basically pointing out exactly when things feel effortless, and you probably don't even realize that by doing so, you're actually dropping huge hints about where you should head next or how to make the whole journey a little smoother! 🙂
Look, we’re all constantly hunting for that better, higher-quality path. It’s just human nature! We’re wired to chase a better life, and that drive pushes us forward whether we're making tiny daily shifts or massive life changes. You can't just ignore that instinct just because you're afraid of messing up—honestly, dwelling on guilt is a total waste of energy. The real trick is to realize that most "mistakes" aren't actually failures; they're just lessons. Once you see them in a different light, you can stop beating yourself up and start using those slip-ups as actual intel to steer yourself toward the best possible direction right now, exactly like you were saying. At the end of the day, I truly believe that how much we reflect and question our choices is the secret sauce. That constant recalibration is what keeps us moving toward that "perfect" path, even if it feels impossible to pin down exactly where that path is!

Look, maybe calling things "right" or "wrong" is just playing a losing game. And sure, I get the whole idea that we should just accept where we are and say, "Hey, if only we’d been more careful," but honestly? I totally disagree. Even though that’s exactly what most people do, it’s a trap. The real issue here is how superficial everything has become. We’re constantly denying who we actually are and throwing away our own potential. Most people just cruise through life without ever stopping to ask themselves a single meaningful question. I think we need a massive wake-up call. We need to stop coasting and start diving deep into self-work, actually hunting down what matters. We have to go out there and experience all those incredible things we're currently missing out on. It’s about building up this insane level of personal power and sheer willpower—creating such a powerful internal momentum that we inevitably master this physical existence.

I couldn't agree more with this perspective. You have to go out and find the path. Every single one of us has inherent talents and untapped potential, but most of us leave them rotting because we aren't proactive about self-discovery or putting in the effort to grow.

The reality is that for certain highly gifted individuals, their talent seems to "hunt" them down. You usually see evidence of this when you read their biographies.

But maybe it's simpler than that? Maybe they're just the people who, unlike the rest of us, actually took the time to figure themselves out when it mattered most?

I’ve been staying away from this thread because, frankly, I couldn't stand the title.

The idea that God withholds knowledge is just plain false. It’s actually quite telling how many people who claim they don't believe in God have nothing but grievances about life on Earth (as if it's the only reality that matters). They need God as a scapegoat so they can blame Him for their own lack of initiative—not to mention their sheer laziness. Look, if you insist He doesn't exist, then who exactly do you think is responsible for the state of the world right now?

Human beings possess knowledge, plenty of it. And God provides it, even when we aren't actively begging for it.

Imagine the possibilities if most people actually sought wisdom from God!

Maria Robinson2 said:It seems some people here still find anything straightforward completely unacceptable
it’s as if they have an inherent allergy to simplicity—they much prefer the endless, exhausting complication they seem to enjoy so much 😁

I suppose it’s because they think if things stop being complicated, they might actually lose their reason for existing 😁

which is why what Jesus said was quite brilliant: Thank You, Father, for hiding wisdom from the wise (the philosophers) and revealing it to little children

that is precisely why certain individuals here will never, ever grasp the true essence of things
they can spin themselves in circles for the rest of their lives, but actual knowledge will remain out of reach as long as they live

that is the reward for all their "effort"
the "prize" for everything they've "achieved" through philosophizing

mind you, there will be philosophers who eventually abandon their theories—but only those who realize there is absolutely no utility in them
only then will they have any fertile ground for actual growth in the right direction 🙂

You hit the nail on the head. Why settle for simple when you can make everything unnecessarily difficult? 🙂

I’m not sure if anyone else has brought this up yet, but I just stumbled upon this quote and it felt like it hit the nail on the head for this discussion.

"If you don't know where you're going, you'll end up in the wrong place no matter where you land."

It seems like a pretty solid way to look at things when we're talking about finding our true path in life.

Whenever I hear the phrase 'the wrong path,' my mind immediately jumps to theft, drugs, alcoholism, or straight-up dishonesty—basically anything that strips a person of their dignity and ends up wrecking both their own life and everyone around them.

The 'right path,' on the other hand, is a whole different beast; it’s subjective and means something different to everyone. I remember hearing this one really fascinating idea once—that our entire lives are constantly drifting toward a specific destination, even when we don't realize it. It’s like we're being pulled toward a single, defining moment that shapes our whole existence. It isn't until that big event actually hits us, and we finally take a step back to look at everything behind us, that we see how every little thing was actually leading up to that exact point.
to it.

Either way, I think it's vital to actually sit down and reflect on life, find some sense of purpose, and consider our impact on others and ourselves.

rapidjackal16 said:I don't really buy the idea that spiritual growth should be the end goal itself—it’s more like... I don't know, a side effect? Something that just kind of happens along the way.

But look, at the end of the day, I honestly couldn't care less what your specific life goal actually is. Everyone is chasing something different, right? One person wants to build a tech empire in Silicon Valley, another just wants a quiet life in the suburbs—it's all subjective. What I was actually trying to get at was whether you feel like you're actually moving in the right direction toward whatever that goal might be for you.

Personally, I feel like I'm heading in the right direction, thank God. I have this sense of contentment and peace. Don't get me wrong, I still deal with the usual stuff—you know, the everyday stress, anxiety, or sadness that hits anyone, especially women dealing with their own set of issues—but I’m increasingly feeling like I have my own internal world. External chaos just doesn't shake me the way it used to.

I do have one question for you, though, since you started this whole discussion. If you don't believe spiritual growth is the ultimate objective, then what do you think the actual goal should be?