Posts by Robin Barrett

Olivia Hughes20 said:hey there!

Quick question... I’m starting college this fall and I am seriously craving a tattoo. Just something small, maybe 5-10 cm on my forearm. But honestly, I'm low-key stressing because people keep saying tattoos can mess with your job prospects. Is that actually a thing? Like, am I gonna screw myself over and have recruiters pass on me because of some ink?

I'm majoring in Education, by the way.

thanks!

Ugh, I'm at a state university and dealing with the exact same "issue." If I were you, I'd pick a spot where it isn't so obvious...
Since I'm going to be a teacher, I can't have anything showing, so my tattoo is tucked away way above my butt.
Companies are super sensitive about it when it comes to hiring, especially with women, so... yeah. Not saying they're wrong, though.
Just think about it. If it makes you happy, you'll find a place that accepts you for who you are! 😉

slyscout192 said:Honestly, you don't even realize that men—and I’m not talking about little kids here—aren't actually staring at breasts; they’re looking at the ass, or rather, a well-shaped, fuller backside. It can be any shape, really. Even bigger. But once a man matures, that's where his eyes land.

Now, the real question is who you're actually trying to attract. Men, or children?

As far as I’m concerned, go ahead and get the surgery if you want—but just know you’ll be altering the very thing that makes you who you are as an individual.

Maybe you aren't even aware that what you consider a flaw is actually your greatest asset.

Perhaps you've grown used to guys falling all over you—guys you aren't even interested in—
yet somehow, you still can't seem to catch the attention of the ones you actually like.

True self-confidence? That comes from being with someone who actually loves you, not from having larger breasts.

Look, honey, you can have melons for breasts, but if you end up with a jerk on your arm, God help your self-esteem—and just think about whether you really want to invite those kinds of jerks into your life by getting them bigger.
In doing that, you might actually be digging your own hole even deeper.

Just the other day, a friend came over for coffee; she’s got breasts, huge ones, for sure. But what does it matter? Her husband was cheating on her anyway.

Then again, if you're doing this strictly for yourself—just so dresses and necklines fit better—then maybe it's time to rethink the media you consume and the information sources you trust.

But then again, giving advice like this requires a lot of experience dealing with people.

And I know you didn't come here looking for genuine help; you're probably just here to brag a little and maybe fish for some encouragement to go through with it.

Well, I'm telling you: don't do it.
Work on your ass instead. And once you're married, just make sure you're taking care of your husband in the bedroom every single day.

Simple as that.
There's your self-confidence right there.

👍 I completely agree. At twenty, you barely know how to wipe your own nose, let alone talk about "maturity." 😕
I'm not trying to be mean, but I think you're way too caught up in puberty stuff. You need to stand in front of a mirror and actually look at your body, because honestly, it's probably gorgeous given your age.
And here's the most important part: It's much better to pump up your confidence than your chest. That'll serve you way better in life.
That's just my honest opinion.