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Hey everyone... I wanted to share a little guide I put together on how to go about a total transformation of both the body and the spirit... it’s been quite the journey...
Why even bother with the spirit, too?... It’s a question that lingers... sometimes just sitting there in the quiet moments... wondering about the essence of things beyond what we can actually touch or see...
The spirit... it just goes hand in hand with the body, doesn't it? They aren't separate things at all... they're one and the same. I remember being taught back in the 1980s that a strong spirit requires a strong vessel... a healthy body to carry it. Looking back on it now, after all these years, I realize they were absolutely right... they really knew what they were talking about...
It’s pretty rare, isn't it? To find someone who doesn't have a powerful spirit paired with a strong body... or even the other way around. And I'm not talking about those "quick fix" gimmicks you see advertised on every corner of the internet. Those things just don't exist... honestly...
Since I didn't spend my college years studying psychology, I won't try to get all clinical on you... I'll just say this: sports have honestly saved my life more times than I can count. I owe so much to that discipline... But look, it doesn't even have to be organized sports per se—it’s really just about staying active. Moving your body. Everyone needs it. Every single person...
I’m not about to stand here and toss out quick fixes for everyone... that just isn't my style. After all, even Jesus didn't just catch fish and hand them out to the crowds... he actually took the time to teach people how to go out and catch the fish themselves... it's about the process, really...
Look, I’m certainly not Jesus, nor is that anything I’d ever actually want to be... but I figured I’d just lay it all out here for you. I’d much rather share what I think you can achieve on your own than have you go paying some high-priced consultant an absolute fortune... because once you walk out that door after their session, you're left with nothing if you weren't paying close attention to every single word they said or wrote... and honestly, why pay for that?
Honestly, when it comes to training... there’s really no point in even typing this out... if you don't have the fundamentals down, you're just spinning your wheels. You either need to find someone who actually knows their stuff or just hire a coach... it's that simple. I can't even begin to explain how vital it is to master those four big lifts—bench, deadlift, squat, and military press... doing them with proper form is everything. Once you've truly internalized those movements and they become second nature... everything else just falls into place much easier... But getting to that level of automation requires constant, steady work... so the brain and the body can finally develop that intuitive habit of just... entering the movement...
Regarding this whole situation... there really isn't some magic trick or a special little shortcut that's going to teach you this. It’s just one of those things you have to face head-on. It’s absolutely vital...
It’s just like... imagine a doctor who finally finished med school and is now moving on to their surgical residency, right? But instead of actually being in the OR, they're just staring at a screen... learning everything through a monitor without any actual supervision from a seasoned surgeon who's been doing this for decades... It just doesn't add up, does it...? Seems a bit pointless...
Well, at the end of the day... everything I’m about to lay out here isn't exactly groundbreaking news. Anyone who spends any real time in the gym or follows the fitness scene already knows this stuff inside and out... most of it is common knowledge by now. But, still... I just really hope that whoever happens to stumble upon this might take a few things to heart and apply them to their own routine... maybe it'll help them finally hit those goals they've been chasing...
These are just some general pointers... they might not work for everyone, but for most people, they tend to hit the mark. This really applies to adults who are 30 or older. For those guys and girls still in their twenties, the rules are a bit different—it’s pretty simple, really... they’re basically running on pure biological chemistry at that age, which lets them get away with a lot more than someone hitting their 30s, 40s, or even 50s could ever dream of...
Alright, let's start by looking at our actual need for nutrients...
So, we’ve got our proteins... then there are the carbs... and finally, the fats...
If you're looking to build some serious muscle, you’ve got to talk about protein... It’s essential. Think of amino acids as the literal bricks used to construct our bodies—everything from the muscles themselves to our skin and even our nails... So, how much do we actually need? Well, it really depends on what kind of training you're doing, but let's assume everyone following this thread is chasing that perfect physique—you know, that ideal ratio between waist, hips, arms, and legs... That’s the essence of bodybuilding. And hey, don't get the wrong idea, ladies—bodybuilding isn't just about getting bulky and massive... it’s more about symmetry and creating an aesthetic illusion... For those aiming for that, I’d say aim for at least 2 grams of protein per kilogram of lean body mass... As for where to get it? Your best bets are milk, eggs, and meat... simple as that...
Carbs are always such a tricky subject, aren't they... I mean, why is that? Well, I suppose it’s because everyone reacts to them so differently. It isn't like we all have the exact same energy requirements, especially when you consider how different our jobs and daily activities can be... some people are running marathons while others are sitting at a desk in Midtown all day. If you're looking to pack on some muscle mass, there should probably be some kind of guideline... maybe aiming for about 50 to 100 grams more carbs than protein to really see those results... It's a bit of a balancing act, really. As for the best ways to fuel up? You can't go wrong with the classics: rice, potatoes, and good old-fashioned oatmeal... simple, effective...
Listen, don't go running away from fats... they're actually essential. Honestly, one of the most frustrating things you see on grocery store shelves these days is all that "NO FAT" or "LOW FAT" nonsense... just pure consumerist marketing traps. You need fat. Your hormones won't even function properly without them. It’s really just about being smart about how you consume them, that's all... I usually aim for some right before bed—maybe a handful of almonds, for instance—or during lunch, or even paired with proteins after a morning cardio session. And olive oil? A huge yes. If you can swing it, spend a little extra and find some high-quality, artisanal oils from local farms out in California or maybe some small-batch producers in the Mediterranean imports... trust me, there is a world of difference between those and the cheap stuff you grab at a massive supermarket chain like Walmart...
When should you eat which macronutrients?
Right when you wake up, just some water plus a B-complex vitamin... Why the B-complex? Well, the body really loves its nervous system. Just make sure to pick reputable, high-quality brands. Back in the day, you could tell a good company by whether they used glass bottles instead of plastic, though... that rule doesn't really hold true anymore.
If you’re doing fasted cardio in the morning—which is honestly best for oxidation and torching fat—then after a session like that, you definitely don't need anything fast-acting, since you haven't really depleted your stores yet and the goal is fat loss. So, proteins and fats are the way to go. For example: cottage cheese and scrambled eggs.
Now, if you're doing weight training (though I wouldn't recommend heavy lifting for everyone due to the spine...) then naturally, you'll want to hit those proteins and fast carbs afterward. Think whey protein and raisins.
But if the goal is just staying healthy and mobile without any immediate ambition to change your body composition, then stick to slow carbs plus protein. Like oatmeal with egg whites.
Let’s say after that meal, you head out for a workout with external weights... what should you eat then? Something easily digestible protein, like chicken breast, paired with a high-insulin, fast carbohydrate, maybe white rice or potatoes.
The meal following that one should be something that digests more slowly while still being high quality. Ideally, you'd have beef and slow carbs, like brown rice or sweet potatoes.
That last meal of the day MUST be proteins and fats. Almonds and low-fat cottage cheese. It's perfect. Testosterone and growth hormone are produced while we sleep at night, so we have to give them a nudge... and we provide that nudge through healthy fats.
Vegetables? Tons of them. Salads, cabbage, kale... as much as you want.
Fruit? Sure—but just like with fats, you have to be smart about it.
Honey? Yes—but again, be smart.
Are we eating well and training four to five times a week, yet still struggling with that bit of extra fat we want gone?
Here is how you handle it.
The first step is to completely eliminate all junk food and sweets. All white sugar and pasta.
The second step would be adding brisk walking to your training repertoire. In the morning, fasted. Start with 30 minutes every other day, and progress by adding 5 minutes every week. Once you reach 60 minutes of brisk walking every other day, if you really want to push it, you can add another day or two. Keep your heart rate between 100 and 130 bpm. The goal is oxidation and fat burning without wasting muscle or overtaxing yourself. The only thing you're allowed to ingest before this training is black coffee. No sugar, no salt, not even a tiny splash of milk or any of that other stuff. If you want it to work, you have to follow the rules. Still, it’s probably best to drink half a liter of room-temperature water (definitely not cold) and just get moving with that walk. Personally, I think it's better to save the coffee as a pre-workout for your weight sessions.
The third step is not to decrease the weights, volume, or intensity of your weight training.
The fourth step is to implement carb cycling. My advice is to have 2 high-carb days, 2 medium-carb days, and 3 low-carb days. What does that mean? Well, on days when you have heavy workouts (like deadlifts or squats), designate those as high-carb days. You can divide the rest however you like. There's no point in me calculating everything and writing it all out for you... there is plenty of info online, just do some research.
Ketosis?
Honestly, I don't know what to say. It works, of course it works, but... I like being strong, and I believe most people do too. And that's nearly impossible without carbohydrates. Not to mention that the keto diet isn't quite as harmless as carb cycling, which is simple and yields quick results.
Losing 10, 15, or 20 pounds in a day or two, listening to those "whooshing" sounds while you run, cutting out salt and all that... don't play games with your health and your organs. Leave that to the professionals (and even for them, it can be devastating).
Supplements? Yes and no. They won't make a massive difference, but they can certainly make a massive difference in your wallet. If you decide to go for them, choose quality brands (which means spending $100 or...$67 Maybe once a month, or two if things are going exceptionally well... ) Just stick to whey, B complex, chelated zinc, magnesium, Vitamin C, and Omega-3 if you aren't eating fish twice a week. And by fish, I mean fresh catches from the Atlantic coast, not that canned stuff from the supermarket. Creatine? If you're a responder—it's a fantastic supplement. It works. Drink plenty of water and 5 grams after your workout should be more than enough. Take a break every two or three months from all the supplements... just give your body a little breathing room to clear out all those artificial nutrients.
Alright, those were some general guidelines... let's get a bit more specific now.
Are you about 5'11", weighing around 175 pounds, with thin arms, a bit of extra padding on the stomach and hips, legs that lack definition, and shoulders or glutes that don't really pop?
You fall into the toughest category for bodybuilding—skinny fat. But hey, it's totally fixable.
First off—cardio, no. Well, not the kind of cardio you've probably been doing until now. Brisk walking (like I mentioned above)? Yes.
Second—bulking or cutting. In my opinion, that’s pretty individual because no two "skinny fat" people are the same, and everyone arrives at that physique differently. Generally speaking, I’d say focus on building muscle while losing the fat. Now, some might argue that's only possible for beginners, but honestly, anyone who can't squat at least 250 to 330 lbs or deadlift 330 to 400 lbs is still a beginner in my book... there's so much room to grow. So, smart cardio (brisk walking) plus weight training 4 times a week. An upper/lower split—Monday/Tuesday and Thursday/Friday.
Why this way? Because of the muscle. Muscular people have faster metabolisms. It's just simple math.
Your diet needs to be anabolic and free from bakeries, sweets, and I might even go as far as saying milk. Even though milk is incredibly anabolic, it carries a lot of calories.
Aim to get stronger, not necessarily bigger. There's a difference.
Why even bother with the spirit, too?... It’s a question that lingers... sometimes just sitting there in the quiet moments... wondering about the essence of things beyond what we can actually touch or see...
The spirit... it just goes hand in hand with the body, doesn't it? They aren't separate things at all... they're one and the same. I remember being taught back in the 1980s that a strong spirit requires a strong vessel... a healthy body to carry it. Looking back on it now, after all these years, I realize they were absolutely right... they really knew what they were talking about...
It’s pretty rare, isn't it? To find someone who doesn't have a powerful spirit paired with a strong body... or even the other way around. And I'm not talking about those "quick fix" gimmicks you see advertised on every corner of the internet. Those things just don't exist... honestly...
Since I didn't spend my college years studying psychology, I won't try to get all clinical on you... I'll just say this: sports have honestly saved my life more times than I can count. I owe so much to that discipline... But look, it doesn't even have to be organized sports per se—it’s really just about staying active. Moving your body. Everyone needs it. Every single person...
I’m not about to stand here and toss out quick fixes for everyone... that just isn't my style. After all, even Jesus didn't just catch fish and hand them out to the crowds... he actually took the time to teach people how to go out and catch the fish themselves... it's about the process, really...
Look, I’m certainly not Jesus, nor is that anything I’d ever actually want to be... but I figured I’d just lay it all out here for you. I’d much rather share what I think you can achieve on your own than have you go paying some high-priced consultant an absolute fortune... because once you walk out that door after their session, you're left with nothing if you weren't paying close attention to every single word they said or wrote... and honestly, why pay for that?
Honestly, when it comes to training... there’s really no point in even typing this out... if you don't have the fundamentals down, you're just spinning your wheels. You either need to find someone who actually knows their stuff or just hire a coach... it's that simple. I can't even begin to explain how vital it is to master those four big lifts—bench, deadlift, squat, and military press... doing them with proper form is everything. Once you've truly internalized those movements and they become second nature... everything else just falls into place much easier... But getting to that level of automation requires constant, steady work... so the brain and the body can finally develop that intuitive habit of just... entering the movement...
Regarding this whole situation... there really isn't some magic trick or a special little shortcut that's going to teach you this. It’s just one of those things you have to face head-on. It’s absolutely vital...
It’s just like... imagine a doctor who finally finished med school and is now moving on to their surgical residency, right? But instead of actually being in the OR, they're just staring at a screen... learning everything through a monitor without any actual supervision from a seasoned surgeon who's been doing this for decades... It just doesn't add up, does it...? Seems a bit pointless...
Well, at the end of the day... everything I’m about to lay out here isn't exactly groundbreaking news. Anyone who spends any real time in the gym or follows the fitness scene already knows this stuff inside and out... most of it is common knowledge by now. But, still... I just really hope that whoever happens to stumble upon this might take a few things to heart and apply them to their own routine... maybe it'll help them finally hit those goals they've been chasing...
These are just some general pointers... they might not work for everyone, but for most people, they tend to hit the mark. This really applies to adults who are 30 or older. For those guys and girls still in their twenties, the rules are a bit different—it’s pretty simple, really... they’re basically running on pure biological chemistry at that age, which lets them get away with a lot more than someone hitting their 30s, 40s, or even 50s could ever dream of...
Alright, let's start by looking at our actual need for nutrients...
So, we’ve got our proteins... then there are the carbs... and finally, the fats...
If you're looking to build some serious muscle, you’ve got to talk about protein... It’s essential. Think of amino acids as the literal bricks used to construct our bodies—everything from the muscles themselves to our skin and even our nails... So, how much do we actually need? Well, it really depends on what kind of training you're doing, but let's assume everyone following this thread is chasing that perfect physique—you know, that ideal ratio between waist, hips, arms, and legs... That’s the essence of bodybuilding. And hey, don't get the wrong idea, ladies—bodybuilding isn't just about getting bulky and massive... it’s more about symmetry and creating an aesthetic illusion... For those aiming for that, I’d say aim for at least 2 grams of protein per kilogram of lean body mass... As for where to get it? Your best bets are milk, eggs, and meat... simple as that...
Carbs are always such a tricky subject, aren't they... I mean, why is that? Well, I suppose it’s because everyone reacts to them so differently. It isn't like we all have the exact same energy requirements, especially when you consider how different our jobs and daily activities can be... some people are running marathons while others are sitting at a desk in Midtown all day. If you're looking to pack on some muscle mass, there should probably be some kind of guideline... maybe aiming for about 50 to 100 grams more carbs than protein to really see those results... It's a bit of a balancing act, really. As for the best ways to fuel up? You can't go wrong with the classics: rice, potatoes, and good old-fashioned oatmeal... simple, effective...
Listen, don't go running away from fats... they're actually essential. Honestly, one of the most frustrating things you see on grocery store shelves these days is all that "NO FAT" or "LOW FAT" nonsense... just pure consumerist marketing traps. You need fat. Your hormones won't even function properly without them. It’s really just about being smart about how you consume them, that's all... I usually aim for some right before bed—maybe a handful of almonds, for instance—or during lunch, or even paired with proteins after a morning cardio session. And olive oil? A huge yes. If you can swing it, spend a little extra and find some high-quality, artisanal oils from local farms out in California or maybe some small-batch producers in the Mediterranean imports... trust me, there is a world of difference between those and the cheap stuff you grab at a massive supermarket chain like Walmart...
When should you eat which macronutrients?
Right when you wake up, just some water plus a B-complex vitamin... Why the B-complex? Well, the body really loves its nervous system. Just make sure to pick reputable, high-quality brands. Back in the day, you could tell a good company by whether they used glass bottles instead of plastic, though... that rule doesn't really hold true anymore.
If you’re doing fasted cardio in the morning—which is honestly best for oxidation and torching fat—then after a session like that, you definitely don't need anything fast-acting, since you haven't really depleted your stores yet and the goal is fat loss. So, proteins and fats are the way to go. For example: cottage cheese and scrambled eggs.
Now, if you're doing weight training (though I wouldn't recommend heavy lifting for everyone due to the spine...) then naturally, you'll want to hit those proteins and fast carbs afterward. Think whey protein and raisins.
But if the goal is just staying healthy and mobile without any immediate ambition to change your body composition, then stick to slow carbs plus protein. Like oatmeal with egg whites.
Let’s say after that meal, you head out for a workout with external weights... what should you eat then? Something easily digestible protein, like chicken breast, paired with a high-insulin, fast carbohydrate, maybe white rice or potatoes.
The meal following that one should be something that digests more slowly while still being high quality. Ideally, you'd have beef and slow carbs, like brown rice or sweet potatoes.
That last meal of the day MUST be proteins and fats. Almonds and low-fat cottage cheese. It's perfect. Testosterone and growth hormone are produced while we sleep at night, so we have to give them a nudge... and we provide that nudge through healthy fats.
Vegetables? Tons of them. Salads, cabbage, kale... as much as you want.
Fruit? Sure—but just like with fats, you have to be smart about it.
Honey? Yes—but again, be smart.
Are we eating well and training four to five times a week, yet still struggling with that bit of extra fat we want gone?
Here is how you handle it.
The first step is to completely eliminate all junk food and sweets. All white sugar and pasta.
The second step would be adding brisk walking to your training repertoire. In the morning, fasted. Start with 30 minutes every other day, and progress by adding 5 minutes every week. Once you reach 60 minutes of brisk walking every other day, if you really want to push it, you can add another day or two. Keep your heart rate between 100 and 130 bpm. The goal is oxidation and fat burning without wasting muscle or overtaxing yourself. The only thing you're allowed to ingest before this training is black coffee. No sugar, no salt, not even a tiny splash of milk or any of that other stuff. If you want it to work, you have to follow the rules. Still, it’s probably best to drink half a liter of room-temperature water (definitely not cold) and just get moving with that walk. Personally, I think it's better to save the coffee as a pre-workout for your weight sessions.
The third step is not to decrease the weights, volume, or intensity of your weight training.
The fourth step is to implement carb cycling. My advice is to have 2 high-carb days, 2 medium-carb days, and 3 low-carb days. What does that mean? Well, on days when you have heavy workouts (like deadlifts or squats), designate those as high-carb days. You can divide the rest however you like. There's no point in me calculating everything and writing it all out for you... there is plenty of info online, just do some research.
Ketosis?
Honestly, I don't know what to say. It works, of course it works, but... I like being strong, and I believe most people do too. And that's nearly impossible without carbohydrates. Not to mention that the keto diet isn't quite as harmless as carb cycling, which is simple and yields quick results.
Losing 10, 15, or 20 pounds in a day or two, listening to those "whooshing" sounds while you run, cutting out salt and all that... don't play games with your health and your organs. Leave that to the professionals (and even for them, it can be devastating).
Supplements? Yes and no. They won't make a massive difference, but they can certainly make a massive difference in your wallet. If you decide to go for them, choose quality brands (which means spending $100 or...$67 Maybe once a month, or two if things are going exceptionally well... ) Just stick to whey, B complex, chelated zinc, magnesium, Vitamin C, and Omega-3 if you aren't eating fish twice a week. And by fish, I mean fresh catches from the Atlantic coast, not that canned stuff from the supermarket. Creatine? If you're a responder—it's a fantastic supplement. It works. Drink plenty of water and 5 grams after your workout should be more than enough. Take a break every two or three months from all the supplements... just give your body a little breathing room to clear out all those artificial nutrients.
Alright, those were some general guidelines... let's get a bit more specific now.
Are you about 5'11", weighing around 175 pounds, with thin arms, a bit of extra padding on the stomach and hips, legs that lack definition, and shoulders or glutes that don't really pop?
You fall into the toughest category for bodybuilding—skinny fat. But hey, it's totally fixable.
First off—cardio, no. Well, not the kind of cardio you've probably been doing until now. Brisk walking (like I mentioned above)? Yes.
Second—bulking or cutting. In my opinion, that’s pretty individual because no two "skinny fat" people are the same, and everyone arrives at that physique differently. Generally speaking, I’d say focus on building muscle while losing the fat. Now, some might argue that's only possible for beginners, but honestly, anyone who can't squat at least 250 to 330 lbs or deadlift 330 to 400 lbs is still a beginner in my book... there's so much room to grow. So, smart cardio (brisk walking) plus weight training 4 times a week. An upper/lower split—Monday/Tuesday and Thursday/Friday.
Why this way? Because of the muscle. Muscular people have faster metabolisms. It's just simple math.
Your diet needs to be anabolic and free from bakeries, sweets, and I might even go as far as saying milk. Even though milk is incredibly anabolic, it carries a lot of calories.
Aim to get stronger, not necessarily bigger. There's a difference.