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Lisa Nelson70 said:But then you went ahead and wrote an entire extra page anyway. 🙄 Just for us. 🙄
Why does it bother you so much that I'm talking to people who aren't moderators?
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Lisa Nelson70 said:But then you went ahead and wrote an entire extra page anyway. 🙄 Just for us. 🙄
placidorca16 said:And all this drama just because someone was "simply" recounting what was written in the files.🙄 Where do you live?😲
placidorca16 said:The Chamber is stripping away licenses at age 16.🙄 You’re clearly living in some kind of fantasy land.
placidorca16 said:Nah, but you definitely are.😁
placidorca16 said:Oh, give me a break. And here I was thinking you actually knew what you were talking about, like some kind of expert doctor.😁
placidorca16 said:Since it's clear we aren't on equal footing here, and now that you've started pulling rank and making threats from a position of power, I'm done. I have nothing left to say to you.
melloworca6 said:As far as I'm concerned—you don't need to participate in this thread anymore.
placidorca16 said:Can you give me an example where a "board of ethics" actually revoked a license because someone leaked confidential patient information?
Maybe I have a reason to be this bitter. Maybe I lost someone very close to me because of doctors.
People act like patients "aren't" experts. But there are incompetent doctors out there too—doctors who misdiagnose or treat people wrongly, and nothing ever happens to them in this country.
Well, you can't always know for sure ahead of time. Sometimes a person just makes a wrong call, and by then, it might already be too late.
Lisa Moore61 said:If someone decides to have an abortion, that's their business—doctors aren't there to act as judge and jury. Whether it gets logged in the medical records or not, nothing actually changes.
Lisa Moore61 said:I just can't—there’s actually such a thing as a code of ethics. You could try reaching out to the medical board and asking; I'm pretty sure you'll get some stats, though they probably won't hand over specific names and faces.
Or maybe try a patient advocacy group.
Look, if you think patients are experts who can connect all the dots based on stuff they find online, then they should just go treat themselves.
It's total nonsense—to actually research a modern consensus, you need access to databases and journals that are basically locked away from regular people unless they want to drop $10-$40 per single article. And let's be real, most patients aren't doing that.
Whether you have a reason to be bitter or not, just talk to her directly about what happened. Or take action. Venting here is just rude—it makes you look bad and, more importantly, it’s not helping the topic or the discussion at all.
If you aren't happy with your doctor, you can always switch providers. Patients have the right to choose.
placidorca16 said:I actually checked with an investigative judge, and they told me nothing like this exists.
Anyone working within the scientific community has access to those databases, for instance.
Honestly, I couldn't care less what you or anyone else thinks about me. And regarding medical malpractice involving someone close to me—well, I wasn't asking for your advice. If things were as simple as you seem to think, we wouldn't be dealing with such a fatal outcome.
That time has passed. The patient is gone.
placidorca16 said:I mean, if recording it doesn't actually change any laws, why bother documenting an abortion if there weren't even any complications?
Lisa Moore61 said:—and that anyone making decisions regarding someone else's health really ought to have all the puzzle pieces in front of them.
just as another idea for thought... a case where a patient, Jane Doe, has had 15 or 16 abortions... perhaps that data in her file could serve as a signal to her primary care physician to refer her to a psychologist, or to her gynecologist so they might attempt to educate her on other methods of contraception.
or that the first five shouldn't be recorded🤔
Sophia Wells72 said:So, take this specific case:
I honestly didn't realize you hadn't mentioned this before... Back when I used to see my old OBGYN (she was quite the chatterbox, probably just looking for someone to vent to😁), she told me about a woman who literally uses abortion as her primary form of birth control. She’d just show up every single time and be like, "Alright, let's get this over with." Usually, when things follow that pattern, the patient—along with their whole family circle—gets scrutinized by other doctors, or in her case, even a psychiatrist. It's an extreme outlier, obviously, but that's the reality.
Lisa Moore61 said:but isn't it okay for someone like that to be under scrutiny? 🤷 An abortion is hardly an pleasant experience—not for the one undergoing it, nor for the one criticizing it.
Lisa Moore61 said:As far as those articles go—unfortunately, they're wrong. God forbid they actually get something right, 😁 but that’s not really what we’re here to talk about.
It’s fine if you don't care what people think of you—really, it is—but this is a public forum, and as such, there are certain norms and standard ways of behaving.
Regarding the medical error part—since I have no clue what happened, I didn't even offer advice. I just suggested that whatever is eating at you, you should probably deal with it, because keeping it bottled up is obviously bad for your health.
Make up your mind: do you want to discuss this or not? If you do, provide the actual data needed for a decent conversation. If not, don't drag it out.
There is a massive difference between medical malpractice and a treatment complication. If you’ve already reached out to an investigative judge, the medical board, or a patient advocacy group, then I assume you've done your due diligence—and if it truly was malpractice, the person responsible will face the consequences.
One little side note—just food for thought, though I'm not looking for a debate or planning to engage with any insults or sink to the level of communication I've been reading on this thread for the last few pages.
No system is perfect. We expect our doctors to be highly educated, 100% infallible, and completely up-to-speed on every new discovery... yet we deny them access to scientific journals. Between healthcare reforms turning them into glorified administrators sweating over whether their paycheck gets docked for prescribing a necessary drug instead of just sticking to a list, our entire medical system is basically crumbling.
P.S. You aren't the only one who has dealt with tragedy. It might just be someone else's blessing to realize that while the doctors did everything they could, the system itself failed to provide adequate diagnostics and treatment, leaving the body to simply give out due to a series of unfortunate circumstances...
placidorca16 said:Are you actually telling me I can't participate here?
Sophia Wells72 said:But let's be real—we're all talking about data privacy here, as if the law is actually being enforced yet. We don't even have a clue what the actual practice looks like, whether it'll even stick, or how it's going to function in the real world...
placidorca16 said:And that is exactly what I wanted to warn everyone about. Misuse is definitely possible.
melloworca6 said:No, but maybe try to chill out with the poking.
Just realize that not everyone thinks the same way.