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Parenting and upbringing tips!!

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Richard Perez3 Richard Perez3 Active Member
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#21 ·
Charles Martin2 said:First I report the behavior, then I wait at least a day
but usually, they just do it again because people get too comfortable
so then I handle them my own way, in my own style!!


If your "style" is the exact same thing you’re complaining about and fighting against, isn't that a little hypocritical? Just saying.

Charles Martin2 said:Patience and tolerance are foreign concepts to me—I don't have them in my DNA
and if the people actually in charge aren't doing their jobs, then I'm taking matters into my own hands!!!


Nobody is telling you not to, just pick your battles.

Charles Martin2 said:And when I finally lose my cool on someone, I'm meaner than a grizzly bear in a honey patch!!!


We know, we know, we've known that about you on PŽK for a long time now. 😁

Charles Martin2 said:Basically, I take that behavior and flip it back on them
meaning, first on the guy who started it
and then on myself!!


Man, screw that, you gotta go the other way around. It sounds great in your head, really, but it doesn't work like that—you clean up your own damn house before you start worrying about everyone else's.
Charles Martin2 Charles Martin2 Active MemberOP
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#22 ·
Sarah Edwards38 said:If you're using the exact same style you're complaining about, isn't that just hypocritical?


Whoa, hey, don't come at me!!
My style is nothing like that jerk's style.
I always respond with class and distance, keeping it high-brow!

It would be hypocritical if I reported him while I'm doing the same thing,
but I report first, wait, and then I take matters into my own hands!
Once I do that, I stop reporting people, and then they're the ones crying about it!
What really bugs me is when my first aggressive post gets punished,
while the guys who were insulting me get off scot-free for days until I start
doing the moderator's job—which they clearly aren't doing, since they're only around the second I get penalized!

The Jazz Age guy spent ten days insulting everyone in America and Canada
with the worst insults imaginable, even comparing people to filthy pigs, and nothing happens to him.
Then I write to him saying he's being RUDE and I get a Governor!
Is that okay with you? Is that hypocritical!!!!?????????
Based on the reasoning that I insulted a fellow user!!!!!!
That makes zero sense, especially given the rule!?!?!

Nobody is defending it, just choose your weapons.


Here, look at this even worse example and tell me what's wrong with it.
Could I have picked a better way to handle it?!
And I put that part at the end of my post,
which was a direct response, totally on topic,
to his post full of insults and belittling!!


I know, I know, we've known that on unknown for a long time. 😁


So if you know that, then act accordingly—talk to me!


Man, it has to work the other way. You've got a nice idea in your head, but it won't work like that, because you clean your own house before you worry about someone else's.


He came right to my doorstep, so I swept him away first,
and then I cleaned my own porch just to be safe,
who knows, maybe there was some spit left behind!!!
When I show up "at someone's door" bringing up their family,
then they can sweep me away or do whatever they want!!!
Whatever, that's how it is in the USA, private property is SACRED!
So go ahead...

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