How to block testosterone?

Hey
here's the real deal:
I honestly don't want to spend the rest of my life feeling constantly turned on.

and for all those haters out there: castration isn't the answer.

mistyseal11 said:hey
here's the bottom line:
I don't want to spend the rest of my life feeling constantly turned on.

for the bad actors out there: castration isn't the answer.

Go see a psychiatrist or a therapist🙄 No offense intended, but this post makes it clear that your issue isn't about testosterone levels. You need to learn how to accept yourself for who you are. If you strip away your testosterone, you're basically turning yourself into someone who's half-functional.

Angela Wright said:You’re going to lose your edge if you run out of testosterone.

Basically, you'll end up being a fashion stylist or a designer. 😬

mistyseal11 said:Hey,
here’s the bottom line:
I have zero interest in living my life feeling completely sexless.

As for those looking for trouble: castration isn't the answer.

Maybe look into how testosterone impacts overall health before coming at me with questions like that.🙄

Ethan Garcia8 said:Basically, they're acting like some high-end fashion stylist or designer. 😬

😁 I can't tell if it's just me talking, since this is literally my line of work,😬 but honestly, I am perfectly content with my curves and my sex drive.😍

@Redeemer
are you shaving yourself out of some religious fervor or a vow of celibacy?
If so, the whole point is supposed to be living with that intense desire and just powering through it. It’s like the core of Christianity—you take up your cross and carry it, accepting whatever divine will comes your way.

Angela Wright said:😁 Maybe it’s just me since this is my line of work, but I’m actually really happy with my curves and my libido.😬 😍

Oh, really? It wasn't you who struggled; it was more about the male stylists and designers, most of whom tend to be more feminine than women.😁

Ethan Garcia8 said:Oh, really? It wasn’t just you—it was the male stylists and designers who tend to be more effeminate than most women.😁

Stop generalizing🙄. This whole thing is driven by special interest lobbies, but that’s a completely different conversation.

Anyway, I'm hoping this "testosterone" narrative is just some byproduct of frustration over a bad opening move and that it passes quickly.

But what if someone actually wants that?
I think I saw some documentary on TV about a rapist who, once he got out of prison, was given certain medications to "calm him down"—basically to kill his drive so he wouldn't go out and attack anyone else. Actually, it wasn't even just pills, it was an injection...😁
But that supposedly is a real thing. Though, if you completely block out the testosterone, I feel like he’d basically become half-gendered, just like Ivanka Trump said...

🤔

Angela Wright said:Come on, don't paint everyone with the same brush🙄. It's really about the lobbyists, but that’s a whole different conversation.

Notice she said 'mostly.' It's all about the statistics.

Bradley Barnes90 said:But what if someone actually wants to do it?
I think I saw a documentary on TV about a rapist who, once he was released from prison, was given certain medications just to keep him "calm," essentially.

Wait, what does high testosterone have to do with sexual assault? Professional bodybuilders can have levels twenty times higher than the average guy, yet they aren't running around committing crimes against women.

Look, you’d have to ask them directly. I never even said anything about it being linked to sexual assault; I just meant there’s this certain "vibe"—if you want to call it that—where a guy just doesn't feel turned on anymore.
I don't know if there's some biological connection to testosterone levels or whatever, but it's definitely something that can be observed. Honestly, I don't claim to be an expert, I'm just calling it like I see it...😁

Ethan Garcia8 said:Notice how they used the word 'mostly.' It’s just pure statistics at this point.

😕 Is there actually any official data to back that up?
I honestly think that "mostly" is just a common misconception held by people in homophobic circles—and frankly, it's wrong, much like the homophobia itself.
Scientific studies have already proven that homosexuality has nothing to do with testosterone levels.😳

Nah, I’m not talking about going celibate or anything. I just want Carmen Electra (or honestly, any woman, really)
to be ready and waiting in my DMs whenever she feels like hooking up—you know, totally chill about it, but strictly because I don't actually *need* it.

please help me!

Angela Wright said:I think that’s just a typical generalization you hear in homophobic circles, and honestly, it's just as flawed as the prejudice itself.
It’s been scientifically proven that sexual orientation isn't tied to testosterone levels.😳

Did I ever actually say homosexuality is linked to testosterone? Or that stylists are gay? No. I just said they tend to be more feminized—I wasn't making any claims about their sexual orientation. While it's fair to say many lean toward a more feminine presentation, whether they are mostly gay is something I can't really weigh in on, since I'm not in a position to judge that the way I can notice mannerisms.

Bradley Barnes90 said:Apparently, there’s this supposed "trick" to stop feeling so turned on all the time.
I don't know if it actually has anything to do with testosterone levels, but maybe you can just train it out of your system.

If that actually works, why aren't they using it on sex offenders?

Kimberly Davis52 said:If that actually exists, why aren't they using it on sex offenders?

It’s a thing, and people use it. 🙂

Don't quote me on this, but I think in places like Scandinavia and the USA, those injections are part of the "standard" rehab program for pedophiles, rapists, and other criminals once they get out of prison. There's even an article about it here http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/uk/6748789.stm

I have to say, I doubt I'd ever volunteer for something like that under any circumstances, and I honestly don't get where the OP is coming from, but whatever. Though, I guess the whole bit about losing all your body hair isn't a bad idea. 😬

Ethan Garcia8 said:Did I ever actually claim homosexuality is tied to testosterone levels? Or suggest that stylists are all gay? No. My point was about being feminized; I wasn't making a judgment call on their sexual orientation. It’s a simple observation: they tend to be feminized. Whether they happen to be mostly gay is something I can't verify, because you can visually identify feminization much more easily than you can guess someone's private attractions.

I think your implication was pretty obvious, drawing that direct line between men acting feminine and having homosexual inclinations, for the most part😉.

mistyseal11 said:Nah, I’m not preaching celibacy. I just want to drive Carmen Elektra (or any woman, really)
to the point where she's begging to go at it, and then I can just stay completely stone-faced and shut it down—not because I'm incapable, but simply because I don't need to.

please help me!

Personally, I think it would be an even bigger rush if some guy walked up to you all worked up and said, "Look, I'm ready to go, but this is just 'him,' my little guy, and when I tell my little guy NO, then we aren't doing it!" And then you just walk away and ignore the urge out of pure principle, even if Carmen or anyone else is offering to take care of you and you're feeling it. See, your issue isn't about testosterone; it's about having a backbone and being stubborn. Lean into that. There is way more satisfaction in that than in riding a wave of female hormones. There is something incredibly adrenaline-pumping about winning a fight against your own impulses.👍

Angela Wright said:I think you were pretty clearly implying a connection between men being more feminine and having homosexual tendencies, mostly😉 .

Actually, I wasn't hinting at anything regarding homosexuality. It seems like the issue is you're equating femininity with sexual orientation. 🙄

Ethan Garcia8 said:Look, I wasn't making any comments about gay people. Your issue is that you somehow equate being feminine with homosexuality. 🙄

🙄
And what about you, linking "femininity" to low testosterone and pigeonholing it into just one specific profession? 😳
What does femininity even mean, anyway? Forty years ago, it probably just meant a guy having long hair. 😁