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Susan Foster45 said:Hey there, everyone on this journey!
I don't post here very often, but I just scrolled through the last fifteen pages or so and thought I should probably jump in and maybe, just maybe, offer some encouragement to anyone who might be going through the same thing right now :-)
It’s been exactly five months since my surgery, and honestly, I can't even begin to describe how much everything has changed in such a short window of time... To be completely truthful, right at the beginning, I wasn't exactly thrilled with how things looked immediately after the procedure. I mean, I was certainly happy when comparing it to my old nose, which was just terrible (though looking back at old photos, I realize just how bad it actually was :-)) But generally speaking, I felt like I had a ski jump right in the middle of my face; I could feel these awful bumps and uneven spots under my finger... my tip was lifted so high it looked quite scary, there was swelling at the bridge between my eyes, and it was just awful—one eye looked like it was pulled east while the other went west...
BUT...
For everyone currently navigating the recovery process, if you're dealing with similar issues, or for those of you just getting ready and wondering what to expect, please believe me when I say that you just have to be patient, and try not to spend every single second staring into a magnifying mirror and crying... because it is truly incredible how everything eventually settles into place; my "ski jump" smoothed out beautifully, those little bumps seemed to "melt" into the length of my nose, the bridge became twice as narrow as it used to be... and now, it looks absolutely wonderful!!!!
I suppose the nose starts changing almost immediately after the operation, basically as soon as that initial swelling begins to subside... and every single week, things just kept getting better and better...
So, my friends—patience really is a virtue :-)
By the way, I have a feeling that it isn't quite finished yet, and that it might look even better down the road... they say it takes a full year for everything to truly settle into its final form...
My sunglasses still feel a bit awkward, and the tip still feels a little "wooden," but I've been blowing my nose like a total maniac for quite a while now and, most importantly, I can breathe perfectly...
Oh, and before I forget, I see that so many of you are dealing with similar anxieties... I actually had a few little accidents after my surgery—getting bumped by my boyfriend in his sleep (the man tosses and turns, I guess :-)), or accidentally hitting myself with my own hand (which was probably just from being so worried about someone else bumping me, though I ended up doing it myself).... and so on... so please, don't worry too much; nothing catastrophic is going to happen if you happen to bump yourself after surgery (though I totally understand the fear, as I was convinced something had "shifted" inside after one of my little bumps, but it turned out to be fine)
Best wishes to you all!
I am so incredibly happy for you!🙂 Could you tell us which doctor you went to? Thanks so much. Best wishes!