Hey everyone,
Short version: I promised myself I’d drop a few words here once this was all behind me. Before the surgery, I was basically driving myself insane—constantly asking questions, obsessively researching, comparing my notes to everyone else's experiences, you name it.
Look, if you do a couple of searches before the procedure, you can get everything sorted in two days. You can go through a hospital or opt for a private clinic depending on how much time and cash you have to burn. Anyway, your chosen doctor sends you the referrals. You take those to your primary care physician to get the paperwork moving, finish the tests, and then just wait for your date. The night before, around 9:00 PM, you stop eating. Same thing in the morning, though you can have a tiny bit of liquid. I couldn't ditch the cigarettes, though. 🙂By the time the waiting game dragged on, I ended up smoking way more than I planned. As for the surgery itself? Nothing special. It felt like a split second from the moment I hit the table until they woke me up. They told me the actual procedure took about 30-40 minutes, plus an hour for prep. Total time from going under to waking up was maybe 2 or 3 hours. Once I was up, I got dressed, lit a cigarette, and that was that. Honestly, don't stress yourself out over the surgery itself. Things happen, you can't control it, and worrying won't change the outcome. The recovery isn't even that bad. That first night is a bit annoying—your throat gets incredibly dry, but as long as you drink fluids, it's fine. Your head might ache, but nothing out of the ordinary; I just popped an Advil and called it a day. Then, three days later, they remove the packing, which feels like a total relief. Removing the splint on day seven was actually the most painful part—getting those stubborn bandages peeled off your face... honestly, compared to a bad flu, it wasn't even that bad. So, if you want to do it, I say go for it.
Regarding the results: I don't think anyone has found a doctor that *everyone* is happy with. You've gotta negotiate well, and at the end of the day, it really depends on what you're starting with and how skilled the surgeon is.
Everything looks great right down to the tip of the nose. Reading other people's stories, it seems like a lot of folks walk away unhappy. For me, the change is huge, even if it doesn't look that different to everyone else. People I told know the difference, and that's enough for me.
I'll admit, it takes a while for everything to feel "normal" again. I didn't have any issues with bleeding, but that weird sensation and sensitivity when you touch your nose lasts about 2 to 3 months. Still, it's definitely not worth being terrified or stressed about. I took a week of vacation, and by Monday, I was back at work like nothing happened.
One last thing: if you want this, and every time you look in the mirror it bugs you and you just want it fixed, don't wait. (Unless, obviously, money is the issue.) Just go for it.
Waiting around accomplishes nothing.
Good luck