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brightgardener8 brightgardener8 Active Member
157 messages
joined Jul 2007
#1101 ·
Angela Wright said:... I might be able to talk my home health nurse into helping out (if she’s willing to set up a PICC line during those five days of therapy to make administering the meds easier), since we’ve gotten along pretty well, but honestly, how we're actually going to get a hold of the medication is still a total question mark.

Is your mom still undergoing any chemo right now?
We actually started the second round of Temodal today, and they bumped the dose up to 320 mg this time. My mom is already dealing with nausea and vomiting again... We're going to have to try that ginger trick because I'm running out of ideas. Apparently, Reglan and Peptoran just aren't cutting it.
Angela Wright Angela Wright RegularOP
731 messages
joined Feb 2007
#1102 ·
brightgardener8 said:Is your mom still going through chemo right now?
We started the second cycle of Temodal today, and we bumped the dose up to 320 mg. My mom is dealing with nausea and vomiting again... We’re actually going to try that remedy involving linen because I’m at my wit's end. Apparently, Reglan and Peptoran just aren't cutting it.

No, I was speaking hypothetically—just wondering "what if"—but the idea of anything being administered intravenously (and since high doses of dexamethasone aren't exactly sustainable for my mom long-term, it's really just a matter of time before she needs a cannula) is a major hurdle for us.
I'm just holding onto hope that this new medication might still offer her some kind of lifeline.😳 I just pray she stays lucid enough to see it through, because what we've experienced so far has been nothing short of a miracle.
Christian Wood63 Christian Wood63 Newcomer
6 messages
joined May 2008
#1103 ·
Angela Wright said:No, I was speaking hypothetically about "what if" scenarios. But the reality is that administering anything intravenously—and given my mother can't handle large doses of Dexedrine for long before things take a turn for the worse, she’ll likely need a PICC line soon—presents a significant hurdle.
I am still holding onto hope that this new medication might offer her some relief.😳 Let's just hope she stays lucid enough to experience it, because what we've seen so far has been nothing short of a miracle.

I'm going to be incredibly blunt here: Reglan, Clomel, or Metoclopramide are not sufficient treatments for chemotherapy-induced vomiting. Talk to your oncologist about getting a prescription that actually works to get you through those five days.
Make sure they prescribe what is actually necessary...
casualpanther1 casualpanther1 Member
37 messages
joined Feb 2007
#1104 ·
brightgardener8 said:Is your mom still undergoing chemotherapy?
We started the second cycle of Temodal today, and they bumped the dose up to 320 mg this time. My mom is dealing with nausea and vomiting again... We’re going to have to try that thing with the linen because I honestly don't know what else to do. Reglan and Peptoran clearly aren't cutting it.

Maybe Zofran would help. You usually take it about half an hour before the Temodala to keep the nausea at bay. My wife took it for the first few days of chemo, but she didn't end up needing it later on since the nausea became manageable. It's something the oncologist at the hospital prescribes. A side effect can be constipation, so you really have to adjust her diet accordingly. She's also still taking Peptoran every morning and night.
To protect the stomach and boost the immune system throughout the entire chemo process—and she's still doing it now—my wife takes Virosalus based on her nutritionist's recommendation. It's a probiotic dietary supplement made from goat milk. It's produced by MarinaLab in Washington, D.C. If goat milk isn't tolerated, then Acidosalus is an option. You can find more info here: .
Maybe it will help you guys too.
Best regards, stay strong.
Harold Richardson4 Harold Richardson4 Member
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joined Nov 2007
#1105 ·
She passed away tonight at 10:30 p.m. She fought with everything she had left in her. We spent the entire day by her side, showering her with affection, holding her hands, and kissing her face. She knew, beyond any doubt, that she wasn't alone.
To anyone out there struggling: never give up. Just last night, the two of us finalized all the arrangements to begin her new treatment this morning; she was actually quite optimistic about it.
I feel an extraordinary sense of peace right now because she has finally found hers. Personally, I can say with total clarity that I have no regrets; I fought alongside her until the very end and exhausted every possible avenue. I was at the hospital with her two or three times every single day. I made sure to cheer her up and lift her spirits—she easily had the finest pajamas in the entire facility and the most beautiful wig, which I personally sourced for her. She was an exceptional woman throughout her entire life, and that didn't change even in her final hours. Coincidentally, today is the feast day of Saint Mother Teresa, a woman who shared much of the same spirit.
My thoughts are with you all. Please, do not be afraid.
Roger Hall15 Roger Hall15 Active Member
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joined Jul 2003
#1106 ·
Linda Campbell, please accept my deepest, most sincere condolences. 🙂
My God. We really are just tiny, insignificant specks in this vast universe, and everything we think we understand about ourselves, or everything we perceive and claim to know, is nothing compared to the immense depth of what your mother is experiencing right now—everything she sees and everything she knows. 🙂

Stay strong. 😘
northernfox9 northernfox9 Newcomer
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joined Mar 2007
#1107 ·
My deepest condolences
slyseal28 slyseal28 Member
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joined Mar 2007
#1108 ·
Linda Campbell said:She passed away tonight at 10:30 p.m. She fought with everything she had left in her. We were by her side all day today—kissing her, holding her hands, kissing her face. She knew she wasn't alone.
Don't ever give up, everyone. The two of us sat down last night and worked out all the details; we were actually supposed to start the new treatment this morning. She was so ready for it.
I feel an incredible sense of peace right now because she finally found hers. Personally, I can't look back with any regrets; I fought until the very end and tried absolutely everything within my power. I was at the hospital with her two or three times every single day. I was always there to cheer her up, to lift her spirits... I even made sure she had the nicest pajamas in the entire hospital and the most beautiful wig, which I picked out myself. She was an extraordinary woman throughout her whole life, and that didn't change even on her final day. It happens to be the feast day of Saint Mother Teresa, and honestly, she reminded me so much of her.
My thoughts are with you all. Don't be afraid.

Please accept my deepest, most sincere condolences.

I truly admire the calm and courage you've shown through all of this.
brightgardener8 brightgardener8 Active Member
157 messages
joined Jul 2007
#1109 ·
Linda Campbell said:She passed away tonight at 10:30 PM. She fought with everything she had left in her. We were right there by her side all day today—kissing her, holding her hands, kissing her face... just making sure she knew she wasn't alone.

I am so incredibly sorry for your loss.
electricgardener14 electricgardener14 Newcomer
9 messages
joined Jul 2007
#1110 ·
Diana dear
, please accept my most sincere condolences. Your mother was an incredibly fortunate woman—truly—to have had you by her side as a daughter. You did absolutely everything within your power; you followed every prescription and exhausted every medical option available to you, but that damn disease was simply more powerful than any of us. She has found her peace now, and while I know it feels impossible, you eventually have to find a way to return to your own life and move forward. Try to be as strong as she was, and please, take care of yourself.
electricgardener14
Elizabeth Diaz60 Elizabeth Diaz60 Member
20 messages
joined Aug 2007
#1111 ·
Linda Campbell said:She passed away tonight at 10:30 PM. She fought until her very last breath, and we were right there by her side all day today, kissing her, holding her hands, kissing her face... she knew she wasn't alone.
Don't you ever give up, everyone; just last night, the two of us had everything settled and were supposed to start the new therapy this morning—she was actually feeling quite optimistic about it.
I feel an incredible sense of peace right now because she has finally found hers, and honestly, I don't have a single regret; I fought alongside her until the end and tried absolutely everything humanly possible. I was at the hospital with her two or three times every single day. I was always there to cheer her up, to lift her spirits; she even had the nicest pajamas in the entire hospital and the most beautiful wig, which I went out and bought myself. She was truly an exceptional woman throughout her whole life, and even in these final hours. It just so happens that today is the feast day of Saint Mother Teresa, and she really was a lot like her.
My thoughts are with you all, and please, don't be afraid.

My deepest condolences.
Angela Wright Angela Wright RegularOP
731 messages
joined Feb 2007
#1112 ·
Linda Campbell said:She passed away tonight at 10:30 PM. She fought until her very last breath; we were by her side all day today, kissing her, holding her hands, kissing her face. She knew she wasn't alone.
Don't ever give up, everyone. The two of us sat down last night and finalized everything—we were supposed to start the new therapy this morning, and she was actually really motivated for it.
I feel incredibly peaceful right now because she has finally found her peace, and personally, I have nothing to regret; I fought until the bitter end and tried absolutely everything. I was at the hospital with her two or three times every single day. I was always there cheering her on, trying to lift her spirits; she had the nicest pajamas in the entire hospital and the most beautiful wig, which I bought myself. She was an extraordinary woman throughout her whole life, including this final day. Incidentally, today is the feast day of Saint Mother Teresa, and she truly shared that same spirit.
My best to you all, and please, don't be afraid.

🙂
I am so sorry, and my heart breaks for you. You are a wonderful person, and your mother passed away peacefully because of you. Let it comfort you that you had the chance to be there with her until the very end, that she was conscious, and that she was loved with the kind of devotion only a truly amazing daughter can provide.
My deepest condolences, dear, and please continue to stay as brave as you have been. 😘
Angela Wright Angela Wright RegularOP
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joined Feb 2007
#1113 ·
electricgardener14 said:Honey,
please accept my deepest condolences. Your mother was such an incredibly blessed woman simply because she had you as a daughter. You truly did everything within your power—you followed every prescription and tried every single treatment available to you—but this damn disease was just too powerful. She’s found her peace now, and you need to find a way to step back into your own life and move forward. Be just as strong as she was, and please, take care of yourself.
electricgardener14

How is your husband holding up?
Christian Wilson16 Christian Wilson16 Newcomer
6 messages
joined Jan 2007
#1114 ·
Please accept my deepest condolences.

You truly fought so hard for your mother, and you continue to show such incredible bravery even now.
Carol Sanchez2 Carol Sanchez2 Active Member
85 messages
joined Apr 2007
#1115 ·
Honestly, my heart just goes out to you. It’s truly wonderful that you stayed right by her side through everything until the very end, and because of that, you can really hold your head high and have some peace of mind...😘
electricgardener14 electricgardener14 Newcomer
9 messages
joined Jul 2007
#1116 ·
Angela Wright said:Honey, how is your husband doing?

Thanks for asking, Angela Wright,
things aren't too bad at the moment—though "not bad" is a relative term in this situation. He just finished his second round of chemo and is moving on to radiation, but the pelvic pain is becoming quite an issue; he can't sit, let alone walk, which is just exhausting to witness. Do you happen to have any insight on whether targeting those specific areas with radiation helps ease the discomfort? Aside from that, the pain is somewhat manageable. We've been relying on Voltaren and Durogesic patches, which seem to be doing the trick, but his doctor is suggesting we find an alternative to the Voltaren—apparently, it’s not ideal for long-term use. Any suggestions? Honestly, right now, Voltaren is our lifeline—it keeps the pain down and helps stabilize his temperature, which seems to be perpetually running a low-grade fever. I'm not even sure what's causing that constant simmer; I wonder if it's just a symptom of the underlying illness itself.
Anyway, how is your mother doing? Is she feeling any better?
Best,
electricgardener14
Angela Wright Angela Wright RegularOP
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joined Feb 2007
#1117 ·
electricgardener14 said:Thanks for asking, Angela Wright,
things aren't too bad right now. He finished his second round of chemo and is heading into radiation, but he can't sit or even walk because of the pelvic pain. Do you have any experience with this—does radiating those specific areas help at all? Aside from that, the pain is slightly more manageable. Using Voltaren plus Durogesic patches helps him get by, but his doctor mentioned we should probably swap out the Voltaren for something else since he shouldn't be on it long-term. Any suggestions? Right now, Voltaren is the perfect fit because it manages the pain and keeps his temperature under control, which has been hovering constantly. I honestly don't know why his fever won't break; is a persistent low-grade fever just a symptom of the underlying disease?
How's your mom doing? Is she feeling any better?
Best,
electricgardener14

Thank God! I have no idea how they manage bone metastases, but I assume it’s handled through chemo as well, though I'm not certain. Personally, I think stronger ibuprofen might work better than Voltaren. Since they act as both analgesics and anti-inflammatories, they might provide better relief for the inflammation. You should definitely ask the doctor.
I also think it might be worth looking into an acupuncturist to see if that could take some of the edge off the pain. I've seen plenty of cases where it helped people dealing with things like rheumatoid arthritis, where the pain levels are just as intense. It's worth looking into.

My mom is doing just as poorly. This change in weather has completely wiped her out. We're struggling to get her to eat again. I am thanking God every single day for our home health nurses. They are truly wonderful; I honestly don't know what we would do without their help.
ruggednomad182 ruggednomad182 Newcomer
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joined Mar 2007
#1118 ·
Linda Campbell;10074694 said:She passed away tonight at 10:30 PM. She fought with everything she had left. We were right there by her side all day today, kissing her, holding her hands, kissing her face. She knew she wasn't alone.

I am so incredibly sorry for your loss.
Harold Richardson4 Harold Richardson4 Member
16 messages
joined Nov 2007
#1119 ·
Please accept my sincerest condolences. I can tell this comes from a place of genuine heartache. Hang in there, stay strong, and please, reach out if anyone here needs a bit of guidance, some practical advice, or just a listening ear. Unfortunately, I’ve navigated these dark waters more times than I care to admit.
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#1120 ·
abuxl;10063165 said:maybe it’s just easier for me because of my line of work,
but honestly, I’d suggest doing this at home. You don't need any fancy training or specialized needles; you'll run into way fewer issues that way. Trust me, once you get used to it, you won't even think about the nausea while taking Temozolomide.
Taking

They're using Ondansetron, and we’re going to try adding flaxseeds too—thanks for the tip!! Also, does anyone have recommendations for dealing with constipation during treatment?

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