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Timothy Martinez6 said:I have two questions for those in charge who might actually give me an answer.
On the thread "Questions regarding homosexuality from social and religious perspectives" (over on Religion), there’s a recurring argument used to support legalizing same-sex unions that goes something like this: "The fact that people live together and love one another should be enough reason to allow them to enter into civil marriage." To test the logic of that specific argument, I brought up the case of incest and asked if we should also allow such unions since those individuals can also live together and love one another. My goal was simply to see if we are being consistent with this reasoning or if we are applying double standards. My response was that I am forbidden from using an "incest parallel" for same-sex unions—which earned me a ban—yet I am supposedly allowed to use a "polyamory parallel."
Since I haven't received a clear or logical explanation as to why an incest comparison is off-limits while polyamory is acceptable—especially when both serve to test the validity of the same argument supporting same-sex legalization—I would like a more precise clarification...
Furthermore, since I was directed to try this line of questioning over on Politics, I want to know if I am permitted to test arguments there using similar parallels (if they arise)? Or am I just going to get banned there too?
It’s actually quite simple, even if it isn't for this PDF.
Modern social progress in shaping legal norms is based on the ethics of individualism. Essentially, everything is acceptable as long as it doesn't offend or harm anyone else (though, in practice, things aren't always that clean, and tribalistic social mechanisms with irrational taboos haven't been entirely wiped out).
In this sense, incest has specific rational arguments for being banned, specifically regarding the harm to a third party—namely, the higher probability of genetic disorders in offspring. Since a same-sex couple doesn't have that inherent risk (there's a whole other debate about adoption, but regardless, we're talking about two consenting, mature, working adults with full rights to decide how to live their sexual lives), it just doesn't compare.
You might be able to draw a comparison with polyamory, because that also falls within the realm of social taboos and value systems, and it lacks the direct, unambiguous harm found in incest.
Maybe you could compare it to an incestuous relationship involving someone who, for biological reasons, cannot conceive.