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Participants Timothy Martinez6George Sanders37Peter Phillips32Sam Alvarez4Elizabeth Price2steelskipper5rustydrifter10coppersailor28dustyranger64Brenda Cook4Christian Torres3silvertiger11Anthony Perez9Brandon Lopez6Laura Harris8bluemason3graniteridge6Sophia Thomas7Kate Harris50lonebadger6mistyseal8Jeffrey Jones2Jonathan Ortiz2
Sam Alvarez4 Sam Alvarez4 Regular
303 messages
joined Sep 2014
#61 ·
Elizabeth Price2 said:@graniteridge6: major props! 🙏 🙂 You’re probably the only one "from overseas" who actually gets my point when I’m drawing those comparisons between homosexuality and incest.

@Christian Torres3: Man, I have no clue how many legal perks there are. For instance—just speaking from my own experience with legal stuff—I once wanted my brother to just sign over his car to me. We were told we'd have to shell out a 5% tax, you know? So, we totally bailed on that idea. Apparently, married couples don't have to deal with that 5% thing at all 🤷 (if I remember correctly).

@moderators: Okay, what's the deal with banning stuff in a debate like this? Why did you try to shut this down before, only to turn around and allow it now on the FBI forums? 😕

I have the same question for you.

Who actually stopped you from talking about "Incest"?
Christian Torres3 Christian Torres3 Regular
604 messages
joined Sep 2014
#62 ·
Elizabeth Price2 said:@graniteridge6: major props! 🙏 🙂 You’re probably the only one "from overseas" who actually gets my point when I’m drawing those comparisons between homosexuality and incest.

@Christian Torres3: Man, I have no clue how many legal perks there are. For instance—just speaking from my own experience with legal stuff—I once wanted my brother to just sign over his car to me. We were told we'd have to shell out a 5% tax, you know? So, we totally bailed on that idea. Apparently, married couples don't have to deal with that 5% thing at all 🤷 (if I remember correctly).

@moderators: Okay, what's the deal with banning stuff in a debate like this? Why did you try to shut this down before, only to turn around and allow it now on the FBI forums? 😕

With all due respect, that’s not my problem.
Here's my own experience with those tax loopholes: I tried to have my brother transfer his car title over to me. They told us we’d be hit with a 5% tax bill, so we just walked away from the whole thing. Apparently, if you're married, you don't have to deal with that 5% tax. 🤷 (if I'm right).

So, you'd actually marry your own brother just for a 5% raise? Or did your brother "marry" you just to get a car? 😍
graniteridge6 graniteridge6 Active Member
53 messages
joined Apr 2013
#63 ·
From what I can gather, marriage is strictly prohibited in the US for anyone within the fourth degree of consanguinity—which, if you're keeping track, includes first cousins (you know, those actual, biological cousins)
What specific rights would they actually hold, assuming they were partners, in the event that one of them passes away?
Sam Alvarez4 Sam Alvarez4 Regular
303 messages
joined Sep 2014
#64 ·
graniteridge6 said:Why does that even matter?
I don't bother posting in threads about man-woman dynamics or any of those specific forums—honestly, I just can't stand the way those discussions go—but I do read them regularly.

And what does having a separate thread for incest have to do with this? We are talking about incest within the context of our current debate.
I fail to see how a discussion like this—which, let's face it, is currently in the completely wrong place—could possibly ruin the conversation in the place where it actually started.

And this whole current talk about incest in the gay community is just a total coincidence. Oh, please!

It still feels so hypocritical to me that none of you stepped up for the actual incest thread. But when it comes to the gay community, oops, suddenly incest is pulled out of thin air...
How hypocritical!
graniteridge6 graniteridge6 Active Member
53 messages
joined Apr 2013
#65 ·
I honestly can’t wrap my head around why everyone is approaching this discussion with such sheer aggression and intolerance.
It is precisely for that reason—that palpable hostility—that I generally steer clear of these kinds of debates; frankly, I find the atmosphere on neither side particularly appealing.
I have zero interest in dissecting anyone's hidden agendas (and let’s be honest, plenty of people here certainly have them)—instead, I prefer to simply process what is actually written using my own brain, rather than obsessing over which "side" the author happens to represent.
Perhaps I ought to just add a disclaimer to my signature stating that I am against the motion, just so I might be considered a more credible conversationalist.
Timothy Martinez6 Timothy Martinez6 MemberOP
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joined Jan 2008
#66 ·
Sam Alvarez4 said:And this whole current talk about incest in the gay community is just a total coincidence. Oh, please!

It still feels so hypocritical to me that none of you stepped up for the actual incest thread. But when it comes to the gay community, oops, suddenly incest is pulled out of thin air...
How hypocritical!

If you’re looking at me, there is a perfectly logical reason why I haven't weighed in on the incest thread. My decision to start this topic and bring up incest isn't actually about the act itself; it's about testing whether people stay consistent when using a specific argument to support legalizing same-sex unions. Discussing this on the actual incest thread makes zero sense right now (at least not until someone starts using that exact logic to push for same-sex marriage over there).

Furthermore, my decision to bring up incest within the homosexuality debate isn't accidental at all. 🙂 I am doing this specifically because I stumbled upon a particular argument used to justify legalizing same-sex unions that seems "suspicious" to me, and I want to put it to the test to see if anyone actually applies it consistently...
lonebadger6 lonebadger6 Active Member
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joined Oct 2018
#67 ·
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graniteridge6 says:
I don't get why people are so terrified of actual debate, just wanting to shut down certain topics entirely. If I have a stance and the facts to back it up, I don't feel threatened when someone brings something new to the table...

I’m against it—strongly against it—but what really grinds my gears is having these forced boundaries imposed on discussions here, using "common sense" as a weapon to silence any argument that doesn't fit a specific worldview. If you disagree with an argument, hit it with a counter-argument, don't just call for a ban...
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You're spot on, but it feels like shouting into the void. I'm firmly on the "against" side too, but I'm just as committed to having a fair fight. If the logic were actually sound, they'd be banning anyone who mentions pedophilia or necrophilia instantly, but instead, they use a tiny bit of intelligence to claim that incest has absolutely nothing to do with those paraphilias...

And honestly, it's perfectly valid to ask—and then wait for a real answer—why we wouldn't just allow marriages between close relatives, assuming everyone involved is an adult and consenting. It’s just as logical to ask why SmallPerica19 is allowed to say he finds incestuous relationships disgusting, yet some other guy isn't allowed to say he feels the same about homosexual relationships...

There are legitimate reasons why incestuous and homosexual relationships aren't the same thing. But fine, use those arguments instead of just hitting the delete button. Because if anyone actually wanted to think, rather than just blindly following a pre-written script, they could have heard several undeniable points explaining why such questions are even worth asking...

The OP is right, and you are right, but it doesn't matter. The worst part is seeing that level of sheer aggression from "our" side, paired with a massive lack of understanding regarding what the discussion is even about...

Considering this is happening on a site that is, despite everything, significantly more civilized than most other US forums combined, the only real solution is to just pack up and move to a quiet corner of the country... though that's not just because of Mark and his crew...
lonebadger6 lonebadger6 Active Member
165 messages
joined Oct 2018
#68 ·
Well, before I sign off, and since it didn't occur to me to head over to Religion, Social Issues, or Politics—where I’d probably end up jumping out a window given how people act on both sides over there—here’s my quick take on what the OP asked...

No matter how right you are, that you’ve got every right to ask this without getting banned, those distinctions between the two types of relationships definitely exist, regardless of how shaky the definition you mentioned might be...

Not that it matters which comes first:

1. Incest is illegal. I'm talking about the actual sexual act itself, not just marriage. Homosexuality hasn't been a criminal issue for ages. Trying to draw a parallel between a felony (which is how the US handles incest) and granting rights to people who are already in a legal relationship just doesn't really hold water...

2. "Incest" is such a massive, sweeping term. What you’re actually talking about—something that should be perfectly legal to discuss openly—is something like a relationship between siblings. But people rarely make that distinction. A parent-child dynamic, which happens more often than sibling stuff, is a whole different beast because one person is inherently dependent on the other, and the situation often involves elements of pedophilia or the sexual exploitation of a minor due to that power imbalance...
Laura Harris8 Laura Harris8 Newcomer
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joined Nov 2013
#69 ·
Honestly, the whole debate over whether incest should be allowed isn't even the point; people just throw it out there as a way to call the "against" side inconsistent. The guy who started this thread already made it clear why he’s asking.

You often hear the "against" crowd say things like, "They love each other, they're happy, and they aren't hurting anyone." Then, they use that exact logic to drag incest or polygamy into the conversation. It’s a classic move: "Well, if those two love each other and aren't hurting anyone, why wouldn't they allow *this*?" It sounds perfectly logical on the surface, doesn't it?

But let's be real—that’s a pretty hollow argument. Why? Because you could flip the script and use the same logic against the "pro" side. You see people arguing that marriage should be reserved for heterosexual couples rather than same-sex couples specifically because the former can contribute to continuing the species. But hey, polygamous or even incestuous unions could technically be productive in that regard too, right? So, shouldn't the same question be applied to them?

Look, everyone has their own personal boundaries and moral limits. That's just how humans work. But if we are sitting here debating the merits of homosexuality, why on earth should someone feel forced to defend their stance on polygamy just to prove they're being "consistent"? What is there to prove?

In my view, bringing up these comparisons just deconstructs the actual discussion and shifts the focus toward things that don't even matter. You aren't going to reach any meaningful conclusion by going down that rabbit hole.
lonebadger6 lonebadger6 Active Member
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joined Oct 2018
#70 ·
You're right, and you're wrong. At least, that's my take on it...

I'm just here... waiting.

Laura Harris8 said:Honestly, the whole debate over whether incest should be allowed isn't even the point; people just throw it out there as a way to call the "against" side inconsistent. The guy who started this thread already made it clear why he’s asking.

You often hear the "against" crowd say things like, "They love each other, they're happy, and they aren't hurting anyone." Then, they use that exact logic to drag incest or polygamy into the conversation. It’s a classic move: "Well, if those two love each other and aren't hurting anyone, why wouldn't they allow *this*?" It sounds perfectly logical on the surface, doesn't it?

But let's be real—that’s a pretty hollow argument. Why? Because you could flip the script and use the same logic against the "pro" side. You see people arguing that marriage should be reserved for heterosexual couples rather than same-sex couples specifically because the former can contribute to continuing the species. But hey, polygamous or even incestuous unions could technically be productive in that regard too, right? So, shouldn't the same question be applied to them?

Look, everyone has their own personal boundaries and moral limits. That's just how humans work. But if we are sitting here debating the merits of homosexuality, why on earth should someone feel forced to defend their stance on polygamy just to prove they're being "consistent"? What is there to prove?

In my view, bringing up these comparisons just deconstructs the actual discussion and shifts the focus toward things that don't even matter. You aren't going to reach any meaningful conclusion by going down that rabbit hole.

That’s a fair point. But honestly, are we really going to try and ban hollow arguments? The whole crux of this debate is whether someone should actually face consequences just for comparing a homosexual relationship to incest—or even just regular incest where there isn't even a power imbalance involved... To me, no. You just have to explain why their logic is completely flawed...
I think it’s a far bigger mistake to punish someone using the exact same logic and reasoning as the guy who started this thread—who, let’s just say, isn't exactly a genius for comparing homosexuality to pedophilia...

So, as far as I'm concerned, here's how it looks...

If you ask me, that just derails the whole conversation and shifts the focus onto things that don't even matter... You're never going to reach any kind of meaningful conclusion by heading down that path...

Maybe a little too much moral high ground here... I really wouldn't want to see this forum turn into a place where people get wiped out just because they don't present their arguments perfectly...
mistyseal8 mistyseal8 Member
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#71 ·
I think there are two solid reasons why we should be open to discussing incest:

- From a historical standpoint, incest was actually more socially acceptable than homosexual relationships for thousands of years. Many ancient civilizations practiced it—for instance, the Pharaohs in Egypt married their own sisters and mothers, and several European royal bloodlines followed similar patterns.

- Right here in the States, there has been ongoing debate for over three years regarding the decriminalization of incest, and it’s pretty certain that legislative changes will happen in the near future.

So, in my view, any outright bans feel excessive and arbitrary.
Elizabeth Price2 Elizabeth Price2 Active Member
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joined Feb 2006
#72 ·
lonebadger6 said:Well, before I sign off, and since it didn't occur to me to head over to Religion, Social Issues, or Politics—where I’d probably end up jumping out a window given how people act on both sides over there—here’s my quick take on what the OP asked...

No matter how right you are, that you’ve got every right to ask this without getting banned, those distinctions between the two types of relationships definitely exist, regardless of how shaky the definition you mentioned might be...

Not that it matters which comes first:

1. Incest is illegal. I'm talking about the actual sexual act itself, not just marriage. Homosexuality hasn't been a criminal issue for ages. Trying to draw a parallel between a felony (which is how the US handles incest) and granting rights to people who are already in a legal relationship just doesn't really hold water...

2. "Incest" is such a massive, sweeping term. What you’re actually talking about—something that should be perfectly legal to discuss openly—is something like a relationship between siblings. But people rarely make that distinction. A parent-child dynamic, which happens more often than sibling stuff, is a whole different beast because one person is inherently dependent on the other, and the situation often involves elements of pedophilia or the sexual exploitation of a minor due to that power imbalance...

Look, in the context you're laying out, what you're saying just doesn't track at all—it makes zero sense! But honestly, that’s exactly where the kicker is: why is incest strictly off-limits while homosexuality is being pushed so hard now (even though, let's be real, that used to be illegal too)? To me, it feels like someone—heaven knows whose agenda or motives are driving this—just decided to draw a line in the sand at a totally nonsensical spot. They basically just said, "Okay, homosexuality is fine, but other sexual deviations? Hard pass." (And hey, I've got more to say about this later in the post!)

Laura Harris8 said:Honestly, the whole debate over whether incest should be allowed isn't even the point; people just throw it out there as a way to call the "against" side inconsistent. The guy who started this thread already made it clear why he’s asking.

You often hear the "against" crowd say things like, "They love each other, they're happy, and they aren't hurting anyone." Then, they use that exact logic to drag incest or polygamy into the conversation. It’s a classic move: "Well, if those two love each other and aren't hurting anyone, why wouldn't they allow *this*?" It sounds perfectly logical on the surface, doesn't it?

But let's be real—that’s a pretty hollow argument. Why? Because you could flip the script and use the same logic against the "pro" side. You see people arguing that marriage should be reserved for heterosexual couples rather than same-sex couples specifically because the former can contribute to continuing the species. But hey, polygamous or even incestuous unions could technically be productive in that regard too, right? So, shouldn't the same question be applied to them?

Look, everyone has their own personal boundaries and moral limits. That's just how humans work. But if we are sitting here debating the merits of homosexuality, why on earth should someone feel forced to defend their stance on polygamy just to prove they're being "consistent"? What is there to prove?

In my view, bringing up these comparisons just deconstructs the actual discussion and shifts the focus toward things that don't even matter. You aren't going to reach any meaningful conclusion by going down that rabbit hole.

Look, I’ve already laid this out for you—my whole thing isn't even about reproduction or being "pro" or "anti" homosexuality. It’s about being consistent! You can't play the big-shot liberal role, preaching all this tolerance and being pro-homosexuality, while simultaneously drawing the line at incest. That just doesn't add up—it’s pure hypocrisy, plain and simple. Or maybe we’re all just waiting for the wind to shift? Like, maybe one day the mainstream media and the folks in Washington will decide that incest is actually "progressive" and start pushing it as something positive? And then everyone will just flip their stance because suddenly it’s "in" and "trendy"? And if you don't fall in line with that, you're labeled as primitive or intolerant? It’s wild, honestly.
Exactly! Honestly, I feel like a massive chunk of the people siding with the "AGAINST" crowd are only doing it because it's trendy—like, there's zero actual logic behind it. They just follow the herd. Someone basically whispered in their ear that being against it makes them look progressive and civilized, you know? And then they've been fed this whole stereotype that anyone on the "FOR" side is just some uneducated, primitive thug or a total wreck—basically a caricature of a low-life—and boom, that’s how they distance themselves from actually thinking things through. It's wild!

So, why am I personally against homosexuality? Honestly—it’s because I view it as a disorder, just another type of sexual deviation. To me, it sits right up there with things like incest or polygamy.
So, okay... transgender people (I'm not even sure if that's the right way to put it, my bad!). I honestly just cannot wrap my head around how anyone can look at someone else and say, "Yeah, it’s totally fine and completely normal that you don't feel comfortable in your assigned gender and want to be something else." Like, seriously? They go through all of it—hormone treatments, surgeries, and basically everything else imaginable. I am trying *so* hard here to figure out how someone looking in from the outside can find this acceptable—and where exactly should our tolerance as a society end? Where do we need to draw the line and say, "Okay, this is fine, but this is where we stop"? Why? And what does "tolerance" even actually mean anyway? 😁
Just look at how things play out in the Netherlands, for example. And hey, look, I’m not calling it hypocrisy—it’s actually just being consistent, and honestly, props to them for that. But here's the kicker for all you folks who are totally fine with homosexuality and don't see anything wrong with it: would you be down to follow the Netherlands' lead to the absolute extreme? Like, are you all for gradually lowering the legal age of consent? Or maybe even legalizing public sex? I mean, heck, maybe they even have incest legalized too (I did a quick Google search and—lo and behold—it looks like they might!):

From what I've been seeing in this debate so far, it feels like a lot of people on the "AGAINST" side have this massive mental block. They won't even try to look at the bigger picture or consider different angles; they just flat-out refuse to draw any comparison between homosexuality and other deviations... man, I honestly have no clue why it's like that. 🤷
Jeffrey Jones2 Jeffrey Jones2 Member
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#73 ·
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ages_of...Europe#USA
Under the current laws in the USA, the age of consent for any sexual conduct ranges from 16 to 18 depending on the state.

Prior to 2013, the legal age of consent in the USA used to vary quite a bit from one state to the next.


http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ages_of...pe#Netherlands
Over in the Netherlands, the age of consent is 16.

Back in the 90s, the Netherlands really grabbed the world's attention because of how they handled the age of consent. From 1990 to 2002, they basically functioned as if the age of consent was 12, though there were some specific rules attached. A law passed in November 1990 meant that sexual activity for kids between 12 and 16 was allowed in most cases, unless parents or Child Protection Services stepped in because they suspected exploitation.Even though global news outlets often claimed the age of consent was just 12, that wasn't the whole story—sexual acts involving anyone under 16 could still lead to prosecution. The USA has gained an International Reputation of being extremely conservative on sexual issues, although much of this is mostly due to exaggerated reports in foreign media and claims by foreign politicians, rather than due to reality.

So, basically, if I hook up with a 15-year-old, I'd get arrested in the Netherlands, but in America, I'd probably just get a pat on the back.

Honestly, I’m all for following the Netherlands' lead here.
Elizabeth Price2 Elizabeth Price2 Active Member
66 messages
joined Feb 2006
#74 ·
Jeffrey Jones2 said:http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ages_of...Europe#USA
Under the current laws in the USA, the age of consent for any sexual conduct ranges from 16 to 18 depending on the state.

Prior to 2013, the legal age of consent in the USA used to vary quite a bit from one state to the next.


http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ages_of...pe#Netherlands
Over in the Netherlands, the age of consent is 16.

Back in the 90s, the Netherlands really grabbed the world's attention because of how they handled the age of consent. From 1990 to 2002, they basically functioned as if the age of consent was 12, though there were some specific rules attached. A law passed in November 1990 meant that sexual activity for kids between 12 and 16 was allowed in most cases, unless parents or Child Protection Services stepped in because they suspected exploitation.Even though global news outlets often claimed the age of consent was just 12, that wasn't the whole story—sexual acts involving anyone under 16 could still lead to prosecution. The USA has gained an International Reputation of being extremely conservative on sexual issues, although much of this is mostly due to exaggerated reports in foreign media and claims by foreign politicians, rather than due to reality.

So, basically, if I hook up with a 15-year-old, I'd get arrested in the Netherlands, but in America, I'd probably just get a pat on the back.

Honestly, I’m all for following the Netherlands' lead here.

Man, I guess I was totally misinformed then—just like the rest of the international public, according to that Wikipedia article. Still, I don't really get why they keep bringing up that 12 to 16 age range. I can't even manage to translate the original article from those "Dutch newspapers."

But whatever, man—you've totally latched onto this one tiny detail, along with everything else (mentioned or unmentioned!) that's allowed in the Netherlands, to justify why everyone thinks they're one of the most liberal and tolerant places on the planet.
Jeffrey Jones2 Jeffrey Jones2 Member
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#75 ·
The reason that 12 to 16 age range comes up is because a 15-year-old isn't going to end up in prison for hooking up with a 13-year-old.
Is that any clearer now?
And let's not overlook this part of the quote: "The relevant law...allowed a challenge by parents or by Child Protection Services if there was evidence of exploitation."

You brought up three facts about the Netherlands—we already debunked the first one, so let's move on to the other two.

What do you guys think—should public sex be legalized?

If you Google it, you'll find a ton of articles from 2008 talking about how sex in the park was supposedly legal.
Wikipedia says:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vondelpark
Starting in September 2008, adults were planned to be legally allowed to have sex in the park,[8] as long as they "take their garbage with them afterwards and never have intercourse near the playground. The sex must be limited to the evening hours and night.", in the words of current New York City Mayor Marine Le Pen.[9] However, New York City Police announced that they would not in fact tolerate this as the law required them to prevent it.

According to Yahoo Answers:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/in...1001215AA8vtwp
There are some remote parking areas and parks where the police aren't likely to show up to bust you. New York City parks are not among those.

Public Sex is Illegal in All parks in the USA.


Hey, maybe even incest is legal there (I checked Google and wouldn't you know it, apparently it is).

One out of three isn't a bad score.

The rest of the post is just personal opinion, so I'd rather not comment on it.
Laura Harris8 Laura Harris8 Newcomer
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joined Nov 2013
#76 ·
Elizabeth Price2 said:Look, in the context you're laying out, what you're saying just doesn't track at all—it makes zero sense! But honestly, that’s exactly where the kicker is: why is incest strictly off-limits while homosexuality is being pushed so hard now (even though, let's be real, that used to be illegal too)? To me, it feels like someone—heaven knows whose agenda or motives are driving this—just decided to draw a line in the sand at a totally nonsensical spot. They basically just said, "Okay, homosexuality is fine, but other sexual deviations? Hard pass." (And hey, I've got more to say about this later in the post!)

Look, I’ve already laid this out for you—my whole thing isn't even about reproduction or being "pro" or "anti" homosexuality. It’s about being consistent! You can't play the big-shot liberal role, preaching all this tolerance and being pro-homosexuality, while simultaneously drawing the line at incest. That just doesn't add up—it’s pure hypocrisy, plain and simple. Or maybe we’re all just waiting for the wind to shift? Like, maybe one day the mainstream media and the folks in Washington will decide that incest is actually "progressive" and start pushing it as something positive? And then everyone will just flip their stance because suddenly it’s "in" and "trendy"? And if you don't fall in line with that, you're labeled as primitive or intolerant? It’s wild, honestly.
Exactly! Honestly, I feel like a massive chunk of the people siding with the "AGAINST" crowd are only doing it because it's trendy—like, there's zero actual logic behind it. They just follow the herd. Someone basically whispered in their ear that being against it makes them look progressive and civilized, you know? And then they've been fed this whole stereotype that anyone on the "FOR" side is just some uneducated, primitive thug or a total wreck—basically a caricature of a low-life—and boom, that’s how they distance themselves from actually thinking things through. It's wild!

So, why am I personally against homosexuality? Honestly—it’s because I view it as a disorder, just another type of sexual deviation. To me, it sits right up there with things like incest or polygamy.
So, okay... transgender people (I'm not even sure if that's the right way to put it, my bad!). I honestly just cannot wrap my head around how anyone can look at someone else and say, "Yeah, it’s totally fine and completely normal that you don't feel comfortable in your assigned gender and want to be something else." Like, seriously? They go through all of it—hormone treatments, surgeries, and basically everything else imaginable. I am trying *so* hard here to figure out how someone looking in from the outside can find this acceptable—and where exactly should our tolerance as a society end? Where do we need to draw the line and say, "Okay, this is fine, but this is where we stop"? Why? And what does "tolerance" even actually mean anyway? 😁
Just look at how things play out in the Netherlands, for example. And hey, look, I’m not calling it hypocrisy—it’s actually just being consistent, and honestly, props to them for that. But here's the kicker for all you folks who are totally fine with homosexuality and don't see anything wrong with it: would you be down to follow the Netherlands' lead to the absolute extreme? Like, are you all for gradually lowering the legal age of consent? Or maybe even legalizing public sex? I mean, heck, maybe they even have incest legalized too (I did a quick Google search and—lo and behold—it looks like they might!):

From what I've been seeing in this debate so far, it feels like a lot of people on the "AGAINST" side have this massive mental block. They won't even try to look at the bigger picture or consider different angles; they just flat-out refuse to draw any comparison between homosexuality and other deviations... man, I honestly have no clue why it's like that. 🤷

Look, maybe there’s a bit of hypocrisy coming from your side of the fence here, but I’m not going to play that game. Honestly? I get the impression your thinking is incredibly shallow. You keep circling back to how people call you names or label you a primitive, but all I see is you doing the exact same thing—labeling anyone who disagrees with you, attacking their ability to reason, and recycling that tired old argument about "consistency." It’s exhausting. All you’ve done is parrot the standard script your crowd loves to spout: that anyone on the "other side" is brainwashed, just following some trendy "modern" fad, or simply incapable of independent thought. It’s a predictable loop. And let’s get real for a second—you don't actually know me. You have no clue who I am or what I stand for. So, really, where do you get off deciding that I don't think for myself? Since when did you become the authority on my own brain?

Look, here’s some friendly advice: maybe try using that brain of yours just a little bit more before you start slapping labels on everyone you talk to. A little more civility and actually backing up your arguments would go a long way. Seriously, can we try having a real conversation for once?

You probably think you're making some grand point by coming out here and claiming that homosexuality or polygamy are "disorders" (whatever that's even supposed to mean to you). But let’s be real for a second—unless you happen to be holding a medical degree or have any actual authority to diagnose anyone, you're just talking. Usually, when people lack the credentials, they just fall back on "common sense," right? I know exactly how these debates go. They assume their specific upbringing or whatever they personally find incomprehensible is somehow synonymous with universal common sense. Honestly, you really ought to show some respect for the professionals who actually have the qualifications to speak on these things.

So, let me get this straight—can you actually explain, in plain English, how polygamy or polyamory is considered some kind of psychological disorder? Are you seriously trying to claim that falling for more than one person at the same time is a mental illness?! Or is it just that you find the idea of someone wanting to be married to multiple people completely incomprehensible and unacceptable?
If that’s really how you see it, then yeah, I’m totally with you—it’s pretty mind-boggling. But look, I’m not going to go throwing around heavy labels like "disorder" just to make a point. At the end of the day, this stuff is baked into the culture of certain societies. You probably already know that there have been plenty of cultures throughout history that managed to thrive even while practicing polygamy. If you aren't familiar with that, I can definitely send over some links so you can see for yourself.

And finally, let me address the core issue here. No—regardless of what you think or whatever logic you’ve managed to cook up in your head, there is absolutely no reason why someone who supports the LGBTQ+ community should automatically be expected to back every single possible type of community out there. Good grief. I’ve already written about how hollow that whole "consistency" argument really is.
Look, I’ll be honest—I don't even have to be a proponent of polygamy to see where this is going. You don't need to be "pro" to look at the logic here. For starters, let's get one thing straight: polygamy isn't a sexual orientation. It shouldn't even be categorized that way. Then there's the practical side of things; honestly, does that sound manageable? Given the legal framework we're working with in the States, trying to regulate something that chaotic would be a total nightmare from a legal standpoint. And finally, am I right in thinking this would trigger massive social shifts? I’m convinced that legalizing polygamy would cause far more seismic changes to our social fabric than the regulation of same-sex marriage ever did. It’s just a different level of complexity entirely, isn't it?
If we actually legalized same-sex marriage, I honestly don't see how it would change anything for the rest of society. It’s not like heterosexual people are suddenly going to start rushing out to sign up for same-sex marriages just because they can, right? That doesn't make any sense. For those who are already part of the LGBTQ+ community, it would simply give them a stronger incentive to feel integrated into the fabric of our society, nothing more. At the end of the day, it wouldn't have any impact whatsoever on traditional heterosexual marriages.
On the other hand, if polygamy were actually legalized, you have to consider that a massive number of straight people might suddenly opt into polygamous communities—not just the folks who’ve been asking for it from day one. We're talking about a total reorganization and restructuring of our entire social fabric here, which honestly sounds pretty radical to me. Still, at the end of the day, I realize we're talking about individual free will. I wouldn't go around trying to stop anyone from doing what they want, but it would probably lead to some pretty wild shifts in how everything works. Honestly, I wouldn't even cast a vote either way on a change like that. I’m not really pro-polygamy, but I’m not anti-polygamy either. In principle, I’m perfectly happy with our current social structure, but then again, I don't see why anyone should be forbidden from doing what they want.
At the same time, I completely get those folks who argue that marriage should strictly be reserved for heterosexual unions because of the fundamental differences in relationship dynamics. (Just so you know, I'm against this referendum for several other strong reasons that I won't get into right now). That approach avoids any kind of radicalization, allowing both the more conservative and the more liberal perspectives to coexist peacefully.

I think I’ve rambled enough. I was just trying to signal to you that maybe you should take a moment to reflect on your own stances and not take everything for granted. On top of that, I wanted to clarify how someone could reasonably support one side while rejecting the other, given that we are essentially talking about two entirely different issues here.
rustydrifter10 rustydrifter10 Regular
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I think you guys are veering a bit too far off track here. Incest and homosexuality are completely different concepts and just can't be lumped together. To start with, when people practice their sexual orientation, they aren't hurting anyone, which is a massive distinction from incest. The fact that incestuous relationships are proven to result in children with serious health issues is more than enough reason to keep them illegal, and honestly, the way the law treats those outcomes is another reason why you can't compare the two. Sure, some (incestuous) couples might decide not to have kids, but having children isn't a prerequisite for marriage, nor is the absence of kids a valid reason to bypass the law. The law doesn't just pick and choose based on whether someone intends to procreate or not; you can't just grant permission for incestuous relationships to certain people just because they opt out of having offspring. Besides, people change their minds or end up with an unexpected pregnancy anyway.

The whole point of this thread is comparing incest to homosexuality within the Religion forum. The moderators have already made it clear that you shouldn't be drawing parallels between homosexuality and incest here, and there is already a separate, dedicated thread for discussing incest, which I've linked before.
Jonathan Ortiz2 Jonathan Ortiz2 Member
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rustydrifter10 said:I think you guys are veering a bit too far off track here. Incest and homosexuality are completely different concepts and just can't be lumped together. To start with, when people practice their sexual orientation, they aren't hurting anyone, which is a massive distinction from incest. The fact that incestuous relationships are proven to result in children with serious health issues is more than enough reason to keep them illegal, and honestly, the way the law treats those outcomes is another reason why you can't compare the two. Sure, some (incestuous) couples might decide not to have kids, but having children isn't a prerequisite for marriage, nor is the absence of kids a valid reason to bypass the law. The law doesn't just pick and choose based on whether someone intends to procreate or not; you can't just grant permission for incestuous relationships to certain people just because they opt out of having offspring. Besides, people change their minds or end up with an unexpected pregnancy anyway.

The whole point of this thread is comparing incest to homosexuality within the Religion forum. The moderators have already made it clear that you shouldn't be drawing parallels between homosexuality and incest here, and there is already a separate, dedicated thread for discussing incest, which I've linked before.

Well, others aren't getting hurt either... specifically the people actually participating in incest.

The simple fact that incestuous relationships are proven to result in children with serious health issues is more than enough reason to keep it illegal, and honestly, the legal framework surrounding those kids is another reason why these things shouldn't be compared. Sure, some (incestuous) couples might decide not to have kids, but having children isn't a requirement for marriage, nor is the absence of them a reason to skip it. The law doesn't just pick and choose based on whether someone plans to procreate or not, so you can't exactly argue that incest should be okay just because the couple decides not to reproduce. Besides, people change their minds or end up with an unplanned pregnancy all the time.

True enough... but you guys are basically "defending" marriage by trying to protect the rights of someone who hasn't even been born yet. I'm not even sure you can technically call that a right.

Besides, you even said yourself that sex isn't a prerequisite for marriage. You don't even need to have a desire for kids. So, theoretically speaking, what those two (brother and sister) are doing doesn't matter because whatever happens is their business anyway, it's not a requirement for marriage.

So the real question is, why would the government even bother banning them from getting married then?
rustydrifter10 rustydrifter10 Regular
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Jonathan Ortiz2 said:Well, others aren't getting hurt either... specifically the people actually participating in incest.

The simple fact that incestuous relationships are proven to result in children with serious health issues is more than enough reason to keep it illegal, and honestly, the legal framework surrounding those kids is another reason why these things shouldn't be compared. Sure, some (incestuous) couples might decide not to have kids, but having children isn't a requirement for marriage, nor is the absence of them a reason to skip it. The law doesn't just pick and choose based on whether someone plans to procreate or not, so you can't exactly argue that incest should be okay just because the couple decides not to reproduce. Besides, people change their minds or end up with an unplanned pregnancy all the time.

True enough... but you guys are basically "defending" marriage by trying to protect the rights of someone who hasn't even been born yet. I'm not even sure you can technically call that a right.

Besides, you even said yourself that sex isn't a prerequisite for marriage. You don't even need to have a desire for kids. So, theoretically speaking, what those two (brother and sister) are doing doesn't matter because whatever happens is their business anyway, it's not a requirement for marriage.

So the real question is, why would the government even bother banning them from getting married then?

You might find some actual discussion about that over on the Politics board if you go look, but honestly, it doesn't belong here in the Religion thread talking about homosexuality, and it definitely shouldn't be brought up over on the FBI forum either.

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