I feel like this forum is out to get me

Hey there. I’m looking for a response from a moderator or an admin here.

For the last few days, this user Monty has been relentlessly stalking my posts and being incredibly abusive.
He started tracking everything I write over on the Reddit forums and dragging it over to a PDF thread titled Polite Discussion Regarding Alternative Medicine.
Basically, whatever I post anywhere else—right now it's just Reddit—he drags it into a thread that has absolutely nothing to do with what we're talking about here.

Here are just a few of his posts from tonight:

Monty said:You’re actually a pretty retarded person if having something explained twice isn't enough for you. Which is pretty obvious from your pathetic posts.

Why would I even bother responding to your garbage when you're clearly just full of crap over on Reddit since it's obvious to everyone that you REALLY ARE.

As for me thinking you're just a cheap, trashy, retarded fufa, we can settle that on some other PDF, but I was strictly sticking to the topic of this thread.

Monty said:Did I call you a fufa? YES, and I'll keep saying it in every single post. Some sleazy tramp who forces herself on married people with her trashy comments is a FUFA, a tramp, or whatever you want to call yourself. And that's not an insult based on gender, it's a FACTUAL STATE. But since you're so retarded you can't grasp that... well, that's a question of your morals, your brain, and your lack of upbringing.

And from a few days ago:

Monty said:What are you gonna do, you pathetic since it looks like your husband is smarter than a sack of rocks.

I am asking for this to be handled fairly because this guy's behavior has crossed every possible line. How long is this going to be allowed? Is this really how you run a forum that supposedly has its own set of rules?
Just so you know, these aren't even his only insults; he's got a whole pile of them, and they haven't been sanctioned at all. It just keeps happening.

I am not a punching bag for someone to vent their frustrations on, so I'm asking nicely for this behavior to be dealt with properly.

Thanks in advance.

Linda Harris44, unfortunately, nothing came of it—(since he’s been reported for being abusive more than once), so they shut the thread down almost immediately. Honestly, this is probably going to go down the same way, just sliding right through without any consequences at all.

Either just ignore it or file a private lawsuit—if you go that route, the forum will eventually be forced to hand over the IP address to track them down once an official request for information is submitted

Here is a little sample of what this thread starter posts on the alternative medicine boards every single day:

And wouldn't you know it, she’s targeting Monty and his family.

Maybe if the OP learned some basic manners first—and understood that dragging someone's wife, kids, and family through the mud isn't exactly "good forum etiquette"—she might stop doing exactly what she's been doing to Monty for the last two months before she starts popping off new threads.

To the OP, I'll just say you should be ashamed; you're harassing an older man across different threads and intentionally provoking him just so you have an excuse to start more discussions on the PŽK. ☕

You guys are getting exhausting. ☕

Look, I'm not making excuses for insults, from either side, but let's be real about what triggered this. I'm asking the supermoderators to please give Monty a break; he's one of the most high-quality members here, and frankly, this whole community wouldn't be the same without him.

I'll drop links to some more recent insults too, assuming she hasn't already deleted them, which seems to be her favorite habit.

It’s true that Monty always lashes out at anyone who dares to disagree with him
for absolutely no reason. He actually targeted me recently:

Monty said:Go grab an 8th-grade biology textbook,
learn the basics, and stop pretending you know anything here like some
clueless amateur. Once you've actually mastered middle school science, maybe then you can
address that nonsense and seek out actual, legitimate advice (assuming you
are even a real person).

But honestly, this doesn't even compare to how he treats other
members, which is so toxic I haven't seen anything quite like it on any forum. 😢
There’s zero excuse for this kind of behavior; if you disagree with someone, you can explain your position politely without resorting to insults. What Linda Harris44 said is truly repulsive and a complete disgrace—this shouldn't be tolerated.

Lawrence Booth2 said:Either just ignore him or file a private lawsuit; once they officially request the data, the forum will have to hand over the IP address to track him down.

That’s a fair point, but wouldn't it be easier for the moderators to just handle it than for one person's actions to force this entire forum into a legal battle with the police?
He only insulted me once, but he's attacking people in almost every single post—Ibrahima-pr, Gnuujninestrin, the right way of life, Daniel Davis40, and now Linda Harris44. If he were targeting me the way he targets them, I'd file a lawsuit without a second thought. We didn't join this forum to be insulted for no reason.

The pride and joy of Nica, who supports him wholeheartedly.

He even went out of his way to ask if Lorelei gets worked up by social media—basically implying he’s going to insult her every single time she posts about alternative medicine. Honestly? No comment. 👎

Here's some more...

Monty said:It’s always the same story—people tell you to just suck it up when someone’s being a total jerk to you...
Well hey, gnu, why don't you just suck off whoever Linda Harris44 is sucking... she claims he’s the tastiest guy in the whole neighborhood.

I mean, honestly, rude assholes and frustrated hens aren't exactly in high demand anymore. Most women are basically beings with way more value than just acting like a prick and being obsessed with their own crap and gas..

Monty said:I put them in the nutrition thread as an example of idiots who write stuff like " can't stand how disgusting her meat smells and how I can't stand the smell of meat.

There's your "friend from a few years ago."
So why don't you be a sweetheart and join her for "dinner.". 🙄[/I]


That [I]"dinner" bit has sexual connotations and was pulled straight from my old posts on LJS.

Quote:

Monty says: Imagine a dried-up, shriveled, hairy, wide-hipped ass and once they've had a few drinks, after maybe half an hour, it looks roughly like this.. Monty said:Hehehe, were those "dear ones" kicked out of the house at 5:30 AM, or were you watching the sunrise with gnu and now you're packing your bags because you just read the comments on LJS? Or better yet... what's a "pyrrhic victory"? It's when your girl tells you that you have the best dick in the neighborhood. 😂 Since our Linda Harris44 writes doctoral dissertations on the flavors of sperm from all the guys she's swallowed, giving full-on breakdowns. Man... I'd kick you out at 5:30 AM too just to see that. 🙂 🙂 Topic: A polite debate regarding alternative medicine.

Good grief, this is genuinely revolting... It’s enough to make you lose all faith in humanity.
I haven't seen such appalling insults anywhere else; it's truly disgraceful.

Sophia Fowler44 said:You’ve got a point there, but wouldn't it be better for the mods to just hand out a ban rather than having one guy's behavior turn this whole forum into a legal headache involving the cops?
He only insulted me once, but he’s throwing shade at people in basically every single post—Ibrahima-pr, Gnuujninestrin, the right way of life, Daniel Davis40, and now even Linda Harris44... if he were coming for me the way he does them, I’d have filed a lawsuit before he even finished his sentence. We didn't join this forum just to get trashed by some random jerk for no reason...

Ever since this particular user showed up on the Alternative Medicine boards, he’s been trashing every single thread in sight. Every topic is just a playground for him to be toxic—everything from diet discussions to raw food, and now this mess about polite medicine.
And all of this is happening because there are zero consequences... nothing.
You only have to look at how these threads used to look—how civilized everyone used to be—versus the absolute disaster they've become now.

Hey mods, are you really just going to sit back and let these insults slide without any discipline? Are you actually going to lock this thread and stop him, or just let him keep running wild?

Is everyone just going to ignore Linda Harris44's little opus and the fact that she dragged her entire family into this mess? It’s a textbook case of double standards, isn't it? ☕

Nicole Johnson20 said:The pride and joy of Nica, who supports him wholeheartedly.

He went as far as openly asking if Lorelei gets off on SM and claiming he’ll insult her every single time she posts about alternative medicine. No comment. 👎

Yeah, I saw that.
And it's true—he can't help but lash out at anyone who disagrees with him.

Nicole Johnson20 said:The pride and joy of Nica, which stands behind them with everything it’s got.

Haven't you had enough, considering you already took one for the team and got absolutely hammered over this exact same thing last time? 😵

Richard Ramirez87 said:And nobody’s talking about Lorelei’s little masterpiece or how she went out of her way to drag his family into this mess?

When? Three months ago? Why are you trying to excuse these insults, and why does his family keep popping up in your arguments? Since when is their business your business?

Sandra Kern37, if someone said this kind of nonsense to your mother, your wife, or your sister, would you actually stand by them and agree?

Sophia Fowler44 said:Sandra Kern37, if someone were talking this kind of absolute garbage to your mother, your wife, or your sister—would you actually sit there and support it?

Jack, word of advice: stop feeding these attention-seeking clones.

Just let them enjoy their little spotlight in New Orleans.

It feels pretty weird to see someone defending him so fiercely after those disgusting insults, especially when he’s being so relentlessly obnoxious about it. It's just not normal.

🙏

Nicole Johnson20 said:Jack Gomez17, word of advice: stop feeding the attention-seeking clones.

Come on, let’s not play pretend; we all know exactly who’s running which clone account here.🙂

Nia already confirmed I'm the real deal, so you can pack up this little conspiracy theory and go home.

Leave me out of your delusions, or I might just have to file an official report.☕

You’ve got about five minutes to come up with an apology so heartfelt it actually moves someone to tears.

Sophia Fowler44 said:Honestly, it strikes me as pretty bizarre how much someone would jump to defend him after those absolutely vile insults. It’s weird to see such intense concern for a guy who is being so relentlessly, aggressively obnoxious. That kind of behavior just isn't healthy.

And frankly, who I choose to stand up for or whose side I take is none of your business. I’ll back whoever I feel like backing, so I really don't see why you're making it your problem.☕

Can we please, just for once, drop the hypocrisy and admit that there is nothing normal about this situation? For two months straight, this user has been acting like a total loose cannon—constantly circling back to his family, his wife, his kids, even obsessively tracking when other members are hooking up or writing entire manifestos about his wife's anatomy. It’s painfully obvious who actually lit the fuse on this argument.

Look, I’m not an advocate for insults, but if Monty gets penalized, then the person who started this whole mess deserves to be held accountable too.

At the end of the day, let the man speak for himself... let there be another side to the story.🧐

Nicole Johnson20 said:Nica is absolutely beaming with pride! She’s standing right there behind them, giving nothing but pure, heartfelt support.

He actually went ahead and wrote that out loud—asking if Lorelai even cares about social media, and claiming he’s going to insult her every single time she posts anything on Alternative. Honestly? No comment from me! 👎

Grandpa Lee, I honestly thought that once we kicked off that thread about civil communication over on Alternative, we had finally cleared the air on everything. If you’ve been paying attention, you’ll notice I haven’t left a single comment on any of your posts or said one mean thing since then. I’ve been sticking strictly to what we agreed on! But instead of giving me the benefit of the doubt, you went straight for Nica.

Look, there’s a massive difference between Lorelei being sincere and her suddenly trying to pull an overnight power trip—trying to ban everyone left and right in that intense style of hers. Honestly, if you ask me, it feels like Abraham is actually the one pulling the strings behind the keyboard instead of her!

I’m going to lay it all out right here and give her a straight answer once and for all, just so we can finally settle this and see who actually deserves to be banned!

It’s been four months now, and this lady—even though I haven't even directed a single word toward her—has been relentlessly attacking other users, claiming that @one_mind is just my clone. And honestly, Leena, you’re doing the exact same thing, and frankly, the way you do it is so blunt and tacky that it's actually embarrassing. Of course, with the help of the team—Google, Ibrahim-PR, and Lorelei—there have been several threads opened up where she tries to argue that a group of nine different forum members is actually just one person (me) using clones to populate the board. Does that sound reasonable to anyone? Everyone else can see through it easily; the only people clinging to this nonsense are those of you who clearly have personal motives for these constant attacks. Even the Moderators and Nica have to step in and shut these threads down constantly because, let's be real, you're all boring everyone to death with the same repetitive story! At the end of the day, it all boils down to the frustrations of one specific "individual" who genuinely believes he’s some kind of messianic genius. He thinks he knows everything—like his ridiculous claim that fruit contains no carbohydrates and that the body just synthesizes its own Vitamin C as long as there's enough Carbon, Hydrogen, and Oxygen present. To him, every single thread and every single idea that isn't his own "brilliant" vision is seen as a personal disruption to his perfect little world.
So, here’s the latest drama from my side of the world. I’ve been dealing with this absolute nightmare involving a user named Ibrahim-PR, who is—to put it lightly—completely unhinged. This person actually crossed the line into full-blown harassment, digging up my private info and even sending unsolicited texts to people close to me in real life. It got so bad that I actually had to file a formal police report just to get some protection. Since then, it feels like there's been a coordinated effort to basically nuking the Alternative forums. They’re systematically shutting down and deleting threads left and right. And the worst part? In about 90% of these posts, the topic isn't even what the title says—it’s just a targeted attack on me! They keep repeating these blatant lies over and over again like some kind of broken record, constantly bringing up known scammers and troublemakers as if they have any credibility at all. To top it all off, Lorelai is being incredibly rude and aggressive, totally dominating these threads with her obnoxious behavior. It’s honestly exhausting!

Honestly, I’ve had just about enough. Lorelei is constantly going after people with those cheap ad hominem attacks, post after post. It’s getting really personal—she’s even throwing insults at my family members (calling someone "looking rough in bed") and making jabs at kids. It’s just plain nasty. A bunch of us on the forum actually stepped in to give her a heads-up that her behavior was being totally inappropriate, crude, and just straight-up rude, but did she listen? Nope. She actually doubled down and started acting even worse!

And this latest thing that apparently "really hit her hard"... just, wow.I honestly can't even begin to tell you—her post is just something else! It’s one of those things where you have to sit down, grab a coffee, and really process what she actually wrote. I was scrolling through, saw it, and was just like, "Wait, did she really just say that?" It's definitely quite the read! Public She posted it over on the LJES forum! So, look, I’m not just making this up—it’s actually real! Twice! Seriously, twice! Can you actually believe it’s been six whole months already?! Time is absolutely flying by! It’s a carbon copy! It’s happened again—just like every other typical forum regular. Did anyone actually force her to write that? Of course not. She went out of her way to post it all over again just so she could get her name mentioned (even if it meant dealing with those nasty comments over on LJES) and to take a cheap shot at Alternative.

I actually shared that post specifically because she was being incredibly disrespectful to everyone in the nutrition thread. She was making these nasty comments about how meat "smells disgusting" to her and claiming she wouldn’t touch it in a million years—all while I had clearly explained my reasoning (and yes, I wrote that explanation three different times!). But the second her own post got flagged in that same thread, she suddenly lost it. She started throwing insults and threats left and right, and of course, her little "squad" jumped in to defend her, almost like they all coordinated to be online at the exact same moment just to ganging up on me. Honestly, if you take a quick look at her profile and check out what two other users have been posting in that nutrition discussion, you'll see exactly what I'm talking about. They’ve moved past the actual topic and started attacking my weight, my lifestyle, my family, even my private life—which is wild, considering I don't even bring that stuff up because I believe privacy matters! They're picking at my advice, too (maybe I should just start a whole new thread dedicated to personal harassment?), and even bringing up death and the idea of treating cancer with raw food—even though the admin already shut that specific topic down because of the dangerous, non-medical advice involved. It's just exhausting.

Who on earth were those comments aimed at YESTERDAY? THE TOPIC IS NUTRITION

Lorelai said:The results of habits like that show up most clearly in someone's physical appearance, which then spills over into some pretty unbalanced behavior.

Google said:Well, you're not wrong! We've all seen some pretty terrible photos that gave us a good laugh... honestly, it's no wonder people with that kind of look carry so much frustration toward women; we notice it all the time.

Lorelai said:So true. I have never once received such nasty, sexist, or downright repulsive remarks from a decent, well-mannered man—only from that one frustrated individual. Honestly, it’s just sad.

Ibrahim-PR said:You know that expression "old crank"?
There's clearly a reason people say it. 😂

Ibrahim-PR said:Are you calling him an old crank? 😁

Lorelai said:Getting older, carrying extra weight, and dealing with gas...

Ibrahim-PR said:And she looks great too—not some heavy-set person constantly stuffing themselves with hot dogs. She looks so good you practically have to run away just to save face, you know? Like, "just keep walking and don't look back, honey."

Now that everyone on the forum has finally called her out for being so trashy—showing how her whole act is just a manufactured tantrum fueled by her own frustrations—she’s suddenly playing the "victim" card and heading straight to the moderators.

It’s transparent, it’s pathetic, and honestly, it fits perfectly with that same old crowd we always see (Ibrahim-PR, Google, Lorelei S, Leena). At this point, it's hard to tell who's actually a real person and who's just someone jumping on someone else's account.