Moderation on the "small and thin dick" thread

Charles Davis88 said:Fine. I can wait a few days too, just so you can explain why you're accusing me of being so rude.

It certainly looks that way to me. I’ve already laid out the timeline—just go back and look at the posts by Apophis that came right before this.

When things started heating up, some guy claiming he was "reading my mind" 🙄 jumped in to explain "what I actually needed." I didn't notice you using your massive stash of sarcasm to turn the attention back on him. Plus, there was zero reaction from the mods.

But when people started bringing up your private life? That was a totally different story. It was explicitly stated that anyone mentioning your privacy again would get slapped with a warning card, which is fair enough.

Then, someone jumps in and starts openly insulting Alex and 4fun—bam, instant ban. Exactly how it should be.

After that, the guy makes an alt account just to insult the moderation team—reaction? Immediate ban and his posts deleted.

So, yeah, the difference in how they handle things is pretty obvious. Now, please, walk me through how that's "fair," and feel free to use plenty of emojis while you're at it.

p.s. If I recall correctly, I didn't report "phraseology," just "corrections." I reported a few posts back then because that's what the system suggests doing—but nothing happened until this thread popped up. Honestly, I rarely bother reporting anything.

Frank Williams7 said:It certainly looks that way to me. I’ve already laid out the timeline—just go back and look at the posts by Apophis that came right before this.

When things started heating up, some guy claiming he was "reading my mind" 🙄 jumped in to explain "what I actually needed." I didn't notice you using your massive stash of sarcasm to turn the attention back on him. Plus, there was zero reaction from the mods.

But when people started bringing up your private life? That was a totally different story. It was explicitly stated that anyone mentioning your privacy again would get slapped with a warning card, which is fair enough.

Then, someone jumps in and starts openly insulting Alex and 4fun—bam, instant ban. Exactly how it should be.

After that, the guy makes an alt account just to insult the moderation team—reaction? Immediate ban and his posts deleted.

So, yeah, the difference in how they handle things is pretty obvious. Now, please, walk me through how that's "fair," and feel free to use plenty of emojis while you're at it.

p.s. If I recall correctly, I didn't report "phraseology," just "corrections." I reported a few posts back then because that's what the system suggests doing—but nothing happened until this thread popped up. Honestly, I rarely bother reporting anything.

I have no clue which guy you're talking about. 🤷
I guess that post just wasn't interesting enough for me...

When your privacy started coming up, the reaction was completely different—it was explicitly stated that any further mention of your private life would result in a strike, which is fair.

And it was totally off-topic, too. 👍

Then some guy swoops in and openly insults Alex and 4fun—ban. As it should be.

After that, he clones himself and starts insulting the moderation—reaction—instant ban and post deletion.

So, clearly, there's a massive difference in how they handle things. Now, please explain to me exactly how that’s okay—and feel free to use plenty of emojis.

The difference is that nobody is insulting you, let alone doing it openly or being crude about it. 🤷
Is that really so hard to see? 😕

p.s. As far as I recall, I didn't report the 'phrase,' just the 'corrections.' Back then, I reported a few posts because it's suggested as the preferred option—but nothing happened until this topic came up. Otherwise, I very rarely report posts.

I don't know exactly what you reported, but you mentioned that 'phrase' once or twice as a problematic and offensive post and called for sanctions. 😳
The term 'correction' is a bit rude, true. 😳 I'll take the suggestion to find a less abrasive version of that term.

Alright Charles Davis88, we’re looking at a spectrum here—ranging from selective ignorance to total, willful blindness, depending on whether the issue hits home personally or not.

I don't feel like dragging this out any further. I highly doubt we're ever going to see eye to eye on this.

Nicholas King said:I’ve read the post by rustydrifter10 five times now—there isn't a single mention of her specific name, so searching for it is just a waste of time. 😕

But, if you're asking whether she got caught in the crossfire, yes—but let’s move past the "how" and "why" or what percentage of the blame she bears for creating this whole mess ourselves.

This is a situation that is incredibly typical for LJES, one that you all really ought to discuss and take a stand on: what is the proper response when someone crashes a half-assed thread and starts acting all high and mighty and moralizing? Honestly, I find it just as offensive when people try to condescendingly disqualify participants from a thread by labeling them as "this kind of person" or "that kind of person"—simply because they started joking around—along with that excessive moralizing drenched in political correctness. That kind of behavior is exactly what consistently produces the aforementioned crossfire.

Look, I wasn't really preaching or being a moralist, and I definitely wasn't the only one voicing a different opinion—though we all hit the same wall.

You want to know where the real issue lies? It's that guys and men dealing with a small and thin penis actually suffer for it. It legitimately wrecks their self-esteem, and you can bet they've been reading this thread. If you could just step out of your "one of the legends forum hr." persona for a second and move into "I'm a flawed human being but still a decent person" mode, you might ask yourself why these guys are struggling. The answer is simple: it's the bullying from the "gifted" crowd and their constant need to dominate the space. It doesn't matter if it's a "funny" nose shape, a lack of wit, or a small and thin penis—the conclusion is the same. It's unfair, and it doesn't mean there's anything wrong with them.

Maybe the fix for this whole mess is for the forum dinosaurs to finally learn some restraint.

Frank Williams7 said:Alright Charles Davis88, we’re looking at a spectrum here—ranging from selective ignorance to total, willful blindness, depending on whether the issue hits home personally or not.

I don't feel like dragging this out any further. I highly doubt we're ever going to see eye to eye on this.

Look, I wasn't really preaching or being a moralist, and I definitely wasn't the only one voicing a different opinion—though we all hit the same wall.

You want to know where the real issue lies? It's that guys and men dealing with a small and thin penis actually suffer for it. It legitimately wrecks their self-esteem, and you can bet they've been reading this thread. If you could just step out of your "one of the legends forum hr." persona for a second and move into "I'm a flawed human being but still a decent person" mode, you might ask yourself why these guys are struggling. The answer is simple: it's the bullying from the "gifted" crowd and their constant need to dominate the space. It doesn't matter if it's a "funny" nose shape, a lack of wit, or a small and thin penis—the conclusion is the same. It's unfair, and it doesn't mean there's anything wrong with them.

Maybe the fix for this whole mess is for the forum dinosaurs to finally learn some restraint.

Look, we have endless threads like this on LJES. Should we just lock every single discussion just because someone’s feelings get hurt? Just because they aren't getting a pat on the back and are instead facing reality? Of course, the nasty, abusive stuff needs to be removed and users banned, but most posts aren't even like that. We can't exactly police whether some random person feels offended by reading a thread.

If we followed that logic, any topic involving personal preferences would either have to be locked down or completely sanitized.

When you decide to jump into a debate on LJES, you really shouldn't take things personally.
This subforum has its own specific vibe—it's a lot more laid back than most other places online. It’s honestly a shame to see you fighting so hard against everything; instead of just rolling with the jokes and the banter, you're constantly insisting on explanations and tearing down everyone else's takes.

Frank Williams7 said:Alright Charles Davis88, we’re looking at a spectrum here—ranging from selective ignorance to total, willful blindness, depending on whether the issue hits home personally or not.

I don't feel like dragging this out any further. I highly doubt we're ever going to see eye to eye on this.

Look, I wasn't really preaching or being a moralist, and I definitely wasn't the only one voicing a different opinion—though we all hit the same wall.

You want to know where the real issue lies? It's that guys and men dealing with a small and thin penis actually suffer for it. It legitimately wrecks their self-esteem, and you can bet they've been reading this thread. If you could just step out of your "one of the legends forum hr." persona for a second and move into "I'm a flawed human being but still a decent person" mode, you might ask yourself why these guys are struggling. The answer is simple: it's the bullying from the "gifted" crowd and their constant need to dominate the space. It doesn't matter if it's a "funny" nose shape, a lack of wit, or a small and thin penis—the conclusion is the same. It's unfair, and it doesn't mean there's anything wrong with them.

Maybe the fix for this whole mess is for the forum dinosaurs to finally learn some restraint.

It might be wiser if they talked to a professional or brought the subject up in a psychology forum. 🤷
But on LJES, everyone acts like an absolute alpha, and that's just the charm of the place. 🤣

It's the same deal as if this topic were opened in the men's corner; the whole connotation would be completely different. 🤷

Frank Williams7 said:Alright Charles Davis88, we’re looking at a spectrum here—ranging from selective ignorance to total, willful blindness, depending on whether the issue hits home personally or not.

I don't feel like dragging this out any further. I highly doubt we're ever going to see eye to eye on this.

Look, I wasn't really preaching or being a moralist, and I definitely wasn't the only one voicing a different opinion—though we all hit the same wall.

You want to know where the real issue lies? It's that guys and men dealing with a small and thin penis actually suffer for it. It legitimately wrecks their self-esteem, and you can bet they've been reading this thread. If you could just step out of your "one of the legends forum hr." persona for a second and move into "I'm a flawed human being but still a decent person" mode, you might ask yourself why these guys are struggling. The answer is simple: it's the bullying from the "gifted" crowd and their constant need to dominate the space. It doesn't matter if it's a "funny" nose shape, a lack of wit, or a small and thin penis—the conclusion is the same. It's unfair, and it doesn't mean there's anything wrong with them.

Maybe the fix for this whole mess is for the forum dinosaurs to finally learn some restraint.

So, get this... some guy on the forum hit me up with this::

grandpa's banjo said:@Charles Davis88 (...)
if you actually read this (meaning, if you don't find my take on the matter satisfying, yet you still choose to keep arguing), then you must have some psychopathic, sadistic streaks in your personality.🤷

I didn't report the post, and I didn't report the posts where people were demanding I weigh in on my husband's hypothetical impotence. 🙂
Because I think it's all pretty benign—I didn't sense any actual malice in those comments, just a somewhat desperate attempt to save face.
But honestly, it surprised me that you didn't say anything! 😳

You know what the real issue is here? Guys and men with a small and thin penis truly suffer because of it. It absolutely wrecks their self-esteem, and they’re definitely reading this thread. If you could just step out of your "one of the legends forum hr" persona for a second and move into "I'm a flawed human being but that doesn't make me less valuable" mode, you'd realize why these guys struggle. The answer is simple: they're suffering because of the bullying from the "gifted" crowd and their constant territorial dominance. It doesn't matter if it's a "funny" thickness, a nose shape, a lack of wit, or centimeter count—the conclusion is the same. It isn't fair, and it certainly doesn't imply dysfunction.

That’s the first time anyone has suggested I belong among the legends of this forum. 🙂
How kind of you, really. 🙂 🙂

I don't consider myself a bully. A potential reader of this thread can simply use it to see the wide spectrum of opinions out there. Thank God there are encouraging views for those with a small and thin penis... but they should also know exactly what they might face in life. 😉

On a different note, when is the LJES council planning to appoint more moderators!?🍿

Sophia Thomas7 said:Look, we have endless threads like this on LJES. Should we just lock every single discussion just because someone’s feelings get hurt? Just because they aren't getting a pat on the back and are instead facing reality? Of course, the nasty, abusive stuff needs to be removed and users banned, but most posts aren't even like that. We can't exactly police whether some random person feels offended by reading a thread.

If we followed that logic, any topic involving personal preferences would either have to be locked down or completely sanitized.

You're talking from a moderator's perspective here. I don't follow every single thread on LJES, so I'll take your word for it.

I just hope the toxic crap gets scrubbed (not that I'm a huge fan of banning people, but a girl can dream), regardless of which direction the conversation goes.

It’s just much easier to spot "The Weakest Link" when things get crude, rather than spotting the old-timers (what a ridiculous word). Specifically, I'm thinking about that guy "Devil in the Snow"—based on how you describe LJES, he was the perfect example: totally unhinged and constantly spamming, which is why he got banned. He annoyed the hell out of me too with his trolling, but honestly, he wasn't even the worst kid on the playground—so that's saying something.

Charles Davis88, honey, I was actually thinking of Nicholas King, but sure, I'll lump you in with that group too. 😁

I'll zapamticati the advice from Henry Edwards33, the "King" of LJES, along with the responsibility of maintaining a reputation that comes with the title. I can only imagine. 🤣

Frank Williams7 said:You're talking from a moderator's perspective here. I don't follow every single thread on LJES, so I'll take your word for it.

I just hope the toxic crap gets scrubbed (not that I'm a huge fan of banning people, but a girl can dream), regardless of which direction the conversation goes.

It’s just much easier to spot "The Weakest Link" when things get crude, rather than spotting the old-timers (what a ridiculous word). Specifically, I'm thinking about that guy "Devil in the Snow"—based on how you describe LJES, he was the perfect example: totally unhinged and constantly spamming, which is why he got banned. He annoyed the hell out of me too with his trolling, but honestly, he wasn't even the worst kid on the playground—so that's saying something.

Charles Davis88, honey, I was actually thinking of Nicholas King, but sure, I'll lump you in with that group too. 😁

I'll zapamticati the advice from Henry Edwards33, the "King" of LJES, along with the responsibility of maintaining a reputation that comes with the title. I can only imagine. 🤣

🙂

VUS is truly a kind soul on LJES.😍

rustydrifter10 said:I'm with you on that. Just give me a little bit of time to comb through the last few pages and sort the posts out. But either way, I still feel like trying to keep both threads looking the way they did at the very beginning is going to be a bit awkward. :/

The LJES isn't going to be "stifled," I just sincerely hope that the constant insults and unnecessary provocations aren't going to be tolerated anymore. There's nothing wrong with a good joke.

As for the new mod, the current moderation team will make the call. It’s super important that they pick someone they actually click with and someone they can work alongside smoothly. Once they make their choice, the admins—and ultimately Anderlon himself—will step in to approve (or not) the decision.

rustydrifter10 said:Basically, this is the most controversial part of the whole thing, and honestly, there's plenty of it scattered throughout the PDF. I don't think the LJES community needs to tighten its grip too much here; given the nature of the topics we dive into, a little bit of casual chatting, some off-topic banter, and even a bit of lighthearted teasing should be perfectly fine—I really don't see a reason to overhaul that specific section. What I am talking about is that unpleasant side of things where people start hurling insults, engaging in nasty trolling, or just being plain old provocative... That’s the stuff that shouldn't be allowed, if you ask me. At the very least, those kinds of posts should just be deleted.

If the kind of politics you’re talking about actually starts taking over LJES, the whole place is going to completely fall apart. Nicholas King used the perfect word for it—and honestly, let me tell you, it was a struggle not to just nod along while reading that. 😢)
I tried going down this road about two years ago, and honestly, it was a total wash. I spent months scrolling through threads, hunting for anything remotely interesting or fun to read, let alone something actually worth replying to. It just wasn't happening.

At the end of the day, the only one coming in here whining and crying is Frank Williams7. Honestly, if the entire moderation team is going to start policing everything based on one person's constant complaining, then screw that. I'm not interested in following a policy like that. 🤷

Frank Williams7 said:You're talking from a moderator's perspective here. I don't follow every single thread on LJES, so I'll take your word for it.

I just hope the toxic crap gets scrubbed (not that I'm a huge fan of banning people, but a girl can dream), regardless of which direction the conversation goes.

It’s just much easier to spot "The Weakest Link" when things get crude, rather than spotting the old-timers (what a ridiculous word). Specifically, I'm thinking about that guy "Devil in the Snow"—based on how you describe LJES, he was the perfect example: totally unhinged and constantly spamming, which is why he got banned. He annoyed the hell out of me too with his trolling, but honestly, he wasn't even the worst kid on the playground—so that's saying something.

Charles Davis88, honey, I was actually thinking of Nicholas King, but sure, I'll lump you in with that group too. 😁

I'll zapamticati the advice from Henry Edwards33, the "King" of LJES, along with the responsibility of maintaining a reputation that comes with the title. I can only imagine. 🤣

Sorry, I have to ask you—do you have any masochistic tendencies? 🤷
You’re constantly complaining about how people on LJES are insulting you or that they aren't treating you with the level of respect you think you deserve. Honestly, I’m just a bit confused—why on earth would you keep hanging out there if it makes you feel that bad? If a place makes you miserable, why stay? 😕

Look, I’ll set aside my own thoughts on whether your whining and constant complaining are actually justified for a second. This forum has dozens of different PDF threads where you could dive into much more specific discussions—topics that are moderated in a way that's a bit more "old school," which I'm guessing would suit your taste much better. Honestly, I really don't get why you haven't just moved over to one of those instead? 🤷

hollowmason64 said:If the kind of politics you’re talking about actually starts taking over LJES, the whole place is going to completely fall apart. Nicholas King used the perfect word for it—and honestly, let me tell you, it was a struggle not to just nod along while reading that. 😢)
I tried going down this road about two years ago, and honestly, it was a total wash. I spent months scrolling through threads, hunting for anything remotely interesting or fun to read, let alone something actually worth replying to. It just wasn't happening.

At the end of the day, the only one coming in here whining and crying is Frank Williams7. Honestly, if the entire moderation team is going to start policing everything based on one person's constant complaining, then screw that. I'm not interested in following a policy like that. 🤷

Sorry, I have to ask you—do you have any masochistic tendencies? 🤷
You’re constantly complaining about how people on LJES are insulting you or that they aren't treating you with the level of respect you think you deserve. Honestly, I’m just a bit confused—why on earth would you keep hanging out there if it makes you feel that bad? If a place makes you miserable, why stay? 😕

Look, I’ll set aside my own thoughts on whether your whining and constant complaining are actually justified for a second. This forum has dozens of different PDF threads where you could dive into much more specific discussions—topics that are moderated in a way that's a bit more "old school," which I'm guessing would suit your taste much better. Honestly, I really don't get why you haven't just moved over to one of those instead? 🤷

Don't sweat it. It’s not going to be stingy, and it definitely isn't because of me.

At the end of the day, the only person around here acting like a total crybaby is Frank Williams7. Seriously, if the entire PDF is going to start moderating based on one woman's whining, then screw that. I’m done with that kind of policy. 🤷

Is it even worth engaging with someone who rolls up to you with the sole intention of being an asshole? I mean, they aren't there for a debate; they’re just looking for a reaction. Honestly, ignoring them doesn't seem to cut it either. It’s a lose-lose situation.

Aside from the fact that I’ve never once whined in my entire life, 🙂 Look, you’re out here spreading nothing but straight-up lies.

I’ve spent quite a bit of time filing complaints over at the PZK. I was involved in that whole mess surrounding ZgSash, those warnings on MK that ended up getting me banned back in the day, and that time it was me versus Charles Davis88, Apophis, and ZgSash over on DZ—plus everything happening right now. Oh, and I also jumped in to back up Alex one day during that debate she had with Slafka.

Alright, so we're looking at four different scenarios here.

I’m pretty sure your post count in this men's corner is way higher than mine.

Frank Williams7 said:....

I don't really track which posts I've made here or anything, honestly—I'm only around once in a blue moon Godly enough to participate 😁
...though I honestly can't see why anyone would care about my total post count on here anyway. 🤷

That being said, lately I’ve been popping onto LJES pretty regularly, and watching you there, it seems like you're constantly hunting for some kind of justice. People are just rude to you, they insult you, or they talk down to you... it feels like almost every thread you're active in, you eventually end up dealing with some kind of backlash because of how people are treating you.
From my perspective, I have to ask—why do you keep going back to a place where you clearly don't feel welcome? 🤷

Look, I know there are folks on this forum who suffer from a bit of paranoia, and I stumble upon those rants about privileged people all the time 🙏, but—do you truly believe that people actually have something really against you personally? 🙄
It’s obvious the way people communicate there doesn't sit right with you, so I just don't get why you don't just find a PDF version of the content that might suit your style better? 🤷

hollowmason64 said:I don't really track which posts I've made here or anything, honestly—I'm only around once in a blue moon Godly enough to participate 😁
...though I honestly can't see why anyone would care about my total post count on here anyway. 🤷

That being said, lately I’ve been popping onto LJES pretty regularly, and watching you there, it seems like you're constantly hunting for some kind of justice. People are just rude to you, they insult you, or they talk down to you... it feels like almost every thread you're active in, you eventually end up dealing with some kind of backlash because of how people are treating you.
From my perspective, I have to ask—why do you keep going back to a place where you clearly don't feel welcome? 🤷

Look, I know there are folks on this forum who suffer from a bit of paranoia, and I stumble upon those rants about privileged people all the time 🙏, but—do you truly believe that people actually have something really against you personally? 🙄
It’s obvious the way people communicate there doesn't sit right with you, so I just don't get why you don't just find a PDF version of the content that might suit your style better? 🤷

Well, you do it all the time anyway. It’s practically your routine.

Lately, I’ve been hanging around LJES pretty much every day, which gives me a front-row seat to your endless crusade for justice. It's wild. Honestly, people there are just straight-up rude to you—they insult you, they talk down to you... it's constant. In almost every thread where you actually show up and contribute, you eventually end up having to call out how poorly everyone is treating you.

It’s always the same group of people. Honestly, maybe the problem really is me. Maybe I should just crawl into some obscure, remote corner of a message board and stay far away from them. But that's just not how I roll.

Look, I’m still lost from that whole discussion in the men's corner, so I’m gonna ask you again—why on earth would you head to a place when you already know you aren't feeling up to it? 🤷

I’m diving into some threads just to see what kind of trouble I can stir up, regardless of which subforum they're in.

I know for a fact that some people on this forum are suffering from straight-up paranoia. Every other day, I end up stumbling onto these rants about "privileged" users.🙏But seriously—do you actually think people have anything at all? Exactly. Against you? Seriously? 🙄

Alright, Doc, since you're the undisputed expert on these wild forum games that have absolutely no boundaries—which specific individuals are we talking about here?

Look, if you're clearly not feeling the vibe of how people talk over there, I don't get why you haven't just hunted down a PDF that actually suits your style better. Why deal with the headache? 🤷

I already gave you an answer to that question.

Nicholas King said:We need at least two more moderators right this second—that’s my only demand.

Just look at them (well, look at you 😬)—on ŽuD there are exactly six of them, and you can't even attempt to troll for a split second without getting absolutely crushed 😢. On the US site, there are five—though, I suppose, you might actually manage to slip under the radar there... 🙂.

It’s only because we let them. 😉

Frank Williams7 said:Well, you do it all the time anyway. It’s practically your routine.

Lately, I’ve been hanging around LJES pretty much every day, which gives me a front-row seat to your endless crusade for justice. It's wild. Honestly, people there are just straight-up rude to you—they insult you, they talk down to you... it's constant. In almost every thread where you actually show up and contribute, you eventually end up having to call out how poorly everyone is treating you.

It’s always the same group of people. Honestly, maybe the problem really is me. Maybe I should just crawl into some obscure, remote corner of a message board and stay far away from them. But that's just not how I roll.

Look, I’m still lost from that whole discussion in the men's corner, so I’m gonna ask you again—why on earth would you head to a place when you already know you aren't feeling up to it? 🤷

I’m diving into some threads just to see what kind of trouble I can stir up, regardless of which subforum they're in.

I know for a fact that some people on this forum are suffering from straight-up paranoia. Every other day, I end up stumbling onto these rants about "privileged" users.🙏But seriously—do you actually think people have anything at all? Exactly. Against you? Seriously? 🙄

Alright, Doc, since you're the undisputed expert on these wild forum games that have absolutely no boundaries—which specific individuals are we talking about here?

Look, if you're clearly not feeling the vibe of how people talk over there, I don't get why you haven't just hunted down a PDF that actually suits your style better. Why deal with the headache? 🤷

I already gave you an answer to that question.

See, there it is—on one hand, you’re complaining about how people talk to you, but on the other, you’re doing the exact same thing by throwing those little snarky jabs between the lines. 🤣
The difference is, unlike you, I don't have a hard time realizing this is just a forum, a bit of digital entertainment. I can either dish it right back or just ignore it... it's really not that deep. 🤷

Frank Williams7 said:Well, you do it all the time anyway. It’s practically your routine.

Lately, I’ve been hanging around LJES pretty much every day, which gives me a front-row seat to your endless crusade for justice. It's wild. Honestly, people there are just straight-up rude to you—they insult you, they talk down to you... it's constant. In almost every thread where you actually show up and contribute, you eventually end up having to call out how poorly everyone is treating you.

It’s always the same group of people. Honestly, maybe the problem really is me. Maybe I should just crawl into some obscure, remote corner of a message board and stay far away from them. But that's just not how I roll.

Look, I’m still lost from that whole discussion in the men's corner, so I’m gonna ask you again—why on earth would you head to a place when you already know you aren't feeling up to it? 🤷

I’m diving into some threads just to see what kind of trouble I can stir up, regardless of which subforum they're in.

I know for a fact that some people on this forum are suffering from straight-up paranoia. Every other day, I end up stumbling onto these rants about "privileged" users.🙏But seriously—do you actually think people have anything at all? Exactly. Against you? Seriously? 🙄

Alright, Doc, since you're the undisputed expert on these wild forum games that have absolutely no boundaries—which specific individuals are we talking about here?

Look, if you're clearly not feeling the vibe of how people talk over there, I don't get why you haven't just hunted down a PDF that actually suits your style better. Why deal with the headache? 🤷

I already gave you an answer to that question.

I don't see why you're playing the victim here, especially since that's clearly not who you are. And honestly, who said you had to move anywhere? If this kind of joking really bothers you that much, I was just suggesting you maybe look into a more "serious" way of communicating via PDF or just adapt to the vibe that usually rules on LJES. 🤷
At the end of the day, you admitted it's you versus a few others, so it might be worth considering if you're overreacting a bit. It's unlikely everyone else is wrong and you're the only one holding the truth.

Frank Williams7 said:Well, you do it all the time anyway. It’s practically your routine.

Lately, I’ve been hanging around LJES pretty much every day, which gives me a front-row seat to your endless crusade for justice. It's wild. Honestly, people there are just straight-up rude to you—they insult you, they talk down to you... it's constant. In almost every thread where you actually show up and contribute, you eventually end up having to call out how poorly everyone is treating you.

It’s always the same group of people. Honestly, maybe the problem really is me. Maybe I should just crawl into some obscure, remote corner of a message board and stay far away from them. But that's just not how I roll.

Look, I’m still lost from that whole discussion in the men's corner, so I’m gonna ask you again—why on earth would you head to a place when you already know you aren't feeling up to it? 🤷

I’m diving into some threads just to see what kind of trouble I can stir up, regardless of which subforum they're in.

I know for a fact that some people on this forum are suffering from straight-up paranoia. Every other day, I end up stumbling onto these rants about "privileged" users.🙏But seriously—do you actually think people have anything at all? Exactly. Against you? Seriously? 🙄

Alright, Doc, since you're the undisputed expert on these wild forum games that have absolutely no boundaries—which specific individuals are we talking about here?

Look, if you're clearly not feeling the vibe of how people talk over there, I don't get why you haven't just hunted down a PDF that actually suits your style better. Why deal with the headache? 🤷

I already gave you an answer to that question.

I think you were just mentioning a discussion you were involved in recently regarding "privileged" people, so you should probably know.
Personally, I'm totally over all this talk about privilege. 🙄

I think it might be a good idea to take a little breather from this thread—I mean this in the most well-intentioned way possible, just as a reader who’s finding it a bit exhausting to follow this level of back-and-forth and interference. It seems pretty obvious that the excess noise is starting to bother others too. To be honest, I’m reacting specifically because of some of the posts from hollowmason64; there are certain elements in those messages that really don't belong here and feel more like trolling. If you happen to think this situation needs to be looked at through a psychological lens—assuming that's the angle we're actually interested in—I would be more than happy to call in some colleagues from psychology on arbitration. We have two experts on hand whom I can personally vouch for, and they could help resolve this issue from that perspective, while also assisting the discussion regarding proper ways to handle conflicts or situations in specialized topics like this one.

Frank Williams7 said:Well, you do it all the time anyway. It’s practically your routine.

Lately, I’ve been hanging around LJES pretty much every day, which gives me a front-row seat to your endless crusade for justice. It's wild. Honestly, people there are just straight-up rude to you—they insult you, they talk down to you... it's constant. In almost every thread where you actually show up and contribute, you eventually end up having to call out how poorly everyone is treating you.

It’s always the same group of people. Honestly, maybe the problem really is me. Maybe I should just crawl into some obscure, remote corner of a message board and stay far away from them. But that's just not how I roll.

Look, I’m still lost from that whole discussion in the men's corner, so I’m gonna ask you again—why on earth would you head to a place when you already know you aren't feeling up to it? 🤷

I’m diving into some threads just to see what kind of trouble I can stir up, regardless of which subforum they're in.

I know for a fact that some people on this forum are suffering from straight-up paranoia. Every other day, I end up stumbling onto these rants about "privileged" users.🙏But seriously—do you actually think people have anything at all? Exactly. Against you? Seriously? 🙄

Alright, Doc, since you're the undisputed expert on these wild forum games that have absolutely no boundaries—which specific individuals are we talking about here?

Look, if you're clearly not feeling the vibe of how people talk over there, I don't get why you haven't just hunted down a PDF that actually suits your style better. Why deal with the headache? 🤷

I already gave you an answer to that question.

You're joking, I assume... 😕

You practically sank the entire thread about small and thin penises just so you could call out a handful of us to publicly show off (!!!) our photos—basically implying we're ugly if we refuse (not to mention, I hadn't even participated in the discussion for several pages/days at that point).

Frank Williams7 said:What has been irritating me most on this thread for a long time is the massive amount of bullsh*tting (excuse my French). It crossed the line of good taste ages ago, and now it's dancing right on the edge of sanity. You can't argue with tastes. It's just that it hasn't reached your neocortex yet.

Fine, let's see it then. If Sophia Thomas7, Apophis, Charles Davis88, pool_sandra, ZgSash, Delveccio, div, 4fun, and ljutica all post their photos, I'll post mine too—humanoid as I am—along with dedina_tambura, no problem (I haven't cleared this with them, I just assume they're cool with it based on their posts). I'm pretty sure granitefalcon10 is on this side too.

Let's see what we're actually talking about. I propose everyone takes a photo wearing jeans and a top, with the date in the shot and your username on a scrap of paper in your hand. The ball is in your court. No need for faces—a photo of your irresistible bodies and fantastic attributes is plenty.

Since I highly doubt you'll have the guts to literally stand by your words, just lock this thread. Enough with the bull****. Seriously. 🤦

Is this how you normally behave as a participant on LJES? 🤷
I'm not even talking about that specific post, but the whole idea of posting that, baiting a reaction, and then coming over to whine in the men's corner.
If you can't handle a little verbal ping-pong, go find another sport where you can shine solo while an audience claps for you.
Family and friends.
Anyone.

Frank Williams7 said:Alright Charles Davis88, we’re looking at a spectrum here—ranging from selective ignorance to total, willful blindness, depending on whether the issue hits home personally or not.

I don't feel like dragging this out any further. I highly doubt we're ever going to see eye to eye on this.

Look, I wasn't really preaching or being a moralist, and I definitely wasn't the only one voicing a different opinion—though we all hit the same wall.

You want to know where the real issue lies? It's that guys and men dealing with a small and thin penis actually suffer for it. It legitimately wrecks their self-esteem, and you can bet they've been reading this thread. If you could just step out of your "one of the legends forum hr." persona for a second and move into "I'm a flawed human being but still a decent person" mode, you might ask yourself why these guys are struggling. The answer is simple: it's the bullying from the "gifted" crowd and their constant need to dominate the space. It doesn't matter if it's a "funny" nose shape, a lack of wit, or a small and thin penis—the conclusion is the same. It's unfair, and it doesn't mean there's anything wrong with them.

Maybe the fix for this whole mess is for the forum dinosaurs to finally learn some restraint.

I was just expressing this exact sentiment—regarding the push to use political correctness as the primary benchmark for whether a post or an entire thread is deemed "acceptable."

Whether we are talking about people with a small and thin penis, girls with small breasts, people with oversized noses or ears, the balding, the unintelligent, the uneducated, the witless, the short, the overweight, or the underweight... in every single one of those groups, you are going to find plenty of individuals who are suffering. And what is our solution then? Are we supposed to just sterilize every single discussion that might, even remotely, remind someone of their handicap? If we do that, what is actually left for a forum discussion—aside from, of course, endlessly singing hymns to our own perceived perfection? 🥳

Furthermore, the idea that someone's suffering will be significantly lessened simply because we all collectively and cooperatively decide to stay silent about the problem... well, I guess that's just a little bit ridiculous.

hollowmason64 said:See, there it is—on one hand, you’re complaining about how people talk to you, but on the other, you’re doing the exact same thing by throwing those little snarky jabs between the lines. 🤣
The difference is, unlike you, I don't have a hard time realizing this is just a forum, a bit of digital entertainment. I can either dish it right back or just ignore it... it's really not that deep. 🤷

I don't see why you're playing the victim here, especially since that's clearly not who you are. And honestly, who said you had to move anywhere? If this kind of joking really bothers you that much, I was just suggesting you maybe look into a more "serious" way of communicating via PDF or just adapt to the vibe that usually rules on LJES. 🤷
At the end of the day, you admitted it's you versus a few others, so it might be worth considering if you're overreacting a bit. It's unlikely everyone else is wrong and you're the only one holding the truth.

I think you were just mentioning a discussion you were involved in recently regarding "privileged" people, so you should probably know.
Personally, I'm totally over all this talk about privilege. 🙄

It isn't even about "right vs. wrong" anymore. It’s about how people actually talk to each other in this thread and the ones next to it. Things went south when I stopped trying to play nice or just throw out some lighthearted jabs and instead started calling people out directly. Turns out, these forum users can't handle being challenged—not even a little bit. That’s on them, obviously, but it became my headache the second they started spewing absolute nonsense without any moderation stepping in to shut it down.

First you said you’d "keep quiet," and now suddenly you’re claiming that playing the victim isn't my style. Of course it isn't. I don't feel like one, so why would I act like one?

Colbert. Honestly, I don't know what to make of him lately. He’s got that whole late-night routine down, sure, but sometimes it feels like he's just spinning his wheels. It's fine if you want that kind of predictable commentary, but I need something with more grit. Just my two cents. kaže:
You're kidding me, I assume... 😕

You basically sank the entire thread just to take a shot at a few of us regarding small and thin dicks. Real classy move. Let’s take this public (!!!) They post those photos of themselves, basically implying we're all ugly if we don't fall in line. It’s such a cheap tactic. Look, setting that aside for a second—I haven't even been part of this conversation for the last few pages or so. I was totally out of the loop.

You think this is how a decent person behaves when they're arguing on LIES? 🤷
I'm not even talking about that specific post. I mean the whole strategy of baiting people with a post just to trigger a reaction, and then showing up later to whine like a total PZK.
If you can't handle a little verbal ping-pong, go find some other sport where you can shine all by yourself while an audience claps for you.
Family and friends.
Someone.

First off, let's get one thing straight: this thread didn't sink. You can easily check the timestamps on my post versus the last one if you actually bother to look. So yeah, you're just making stuff up.

I suggested we all post photos—not because I wanted to prove everyone is ugly, but to show that we’re all just normal people. I wanted to cut through the constant mocking of anyone who isn't "blessed" in certain departments (if you can even call having a small and thin dick a blessing), but clearly, my attempt at demystifying things was a total bust.

Look, Pljesak—I am definitely not the one for you. Anyway, that bit at the end of your post? Total classic. That awkward moment when you overstepped way too far into someone's private business, right? 😉

Thanks for the suggestion, but there’s really no need for that Whereabout.