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Does anyone actually know the exact date when Atlanta United FC is playing down in El Paso? Is that game even still happening at all?
Started by Joseph Harris5 · · 👁 10 views · 174 replies
placidheron16 said:Honestly, every time we have a meeting, it just results in the same old group of hooligans popping up on the forums or in person. Let me tell you how this actually works. I’ve had enough. This younger generation leading the stands now—they don't want to push the kids forward. Kids are a blessing, but you have to know who is paying the bills. You have to be firm with them. From a young age, they need to learn what it means to live the supporter lifestyle, rather than just letting them drift or letting some other guy boss them around lately. Legend, looking at those photos of you, our young guys aren't looking at anyone the wrong way; if anything, we are hungry for friendship and unity among us. But how can that happen when the "legendary leader" pledges support in front of 100 people at the last meeting, promising to stand with us in the stands, only to show up to the game and mock us? He sits there making jokes along with his "loyal followers," claiming it's too hard for him to come to the stands because the emotions will overwhelm him. He acts like he's saying goodbye to a lifelong friend. We expected so much from him because he's considered a "cult figure." Once his people give their support, then everyone else will follow and we will finally become "US." We won't have this "us vs. them" mentality that keeps repeating. Once individual egos are minimized and the ego trips die down, then we can actually start over... but those are just two small details in this whole circus.
Frank Kim26 said:here is the issue,about 70% of people in this city—who, by the way, aren't even part of the Black Knights—think they know what's best. They act like they belong when they don't. I say this: if you aren't 100% involved, then don't comment on changes. Don't say things shouldn't have happened. Just show up, get in the stands, wave a flag, or help with the choreography. That's basically it.🤷
driftinghound3 said:Forget your popcorn and enjoying the show.
Kimberly Robinson17 said:I don't see the issue... whether they support the Black Knights, show up at the stadium, or hang out in the North stands, why shouldn't they have their own take? You don't have to agree with me or anyone else... what's even the point of a forum if everyone thinks exactly the same thing?
It's obvious nothing smart is gonna get solved here, that's why there's the bleachers and the news sites... let people write whatever they want, I don't care, as long as they aren't being insulting or disrespectful...
I also don't get how someone can be "100% in" like you say without ever getting in a single fight... thinking a team t-shirt is the peak of fandom or throwing rocks is the height of being a supporter... most of "YOUR" crowd is just like that.
Those press releases after the Zenit game were weird too, makes you wonder if this is a KUD or some random street gang...
I still remember that away game where five guys were carrying four massive banners...
You couldn't even pull 40 people together in a small town like this who'd actually stand their ground in a fair fight...☕
This stuff shouldn't be forced on certain people, and honestly, good for them!!
That's just my take, agree or don't, I don't care... feel free to delete it right now!☕
wanderingviper14 said:Frank Kim26 - Hey, just imagine what the stands—or the whole group—would look like if we hypothetically kicked out all these "half-fans"... It would end up looking like what those other guys have now. I honestly don't see who this helps? These people are definitely needed and welcome. You're going so far with this disrespecting them that you won't even let anyone express an opinion
placidheron16 said:Honestly, every single argument boils down to this—whenever a meeting happens, it just breeds some old drama within the Black Knights or pops up right here on the forum. And look, I’ll tell you straight up how things actually ought to work because, frankly, I'm fed up with all of this!! This younger crowd running the stands right now... they don't want to take the kids under their wing. Look, kids are great, but you have to know who's footing the bill and who's pulling the strings. You've got to be firm with the kids—from day one, they need to learn what it means to live the supporter lifestyle, instead of doing what they've done lately—just acting like daddy's little helpers and letting some other guy boss them around!! Legend, what even is that happening in the photos? Our young guys aren't looking at anyone the wrong way; if anything, we're actually craving that brotherhood and friendship among us. But how? How can we, when that legendary leader promises support in front of 100 people at the last meeting—vowing he'll stand right there with us in the stands and cheer—only to show up at the game and spend the whole time mocking us? He sits there making jokes along with his "inner circle," claiming it's too hard for him to come into the stands because the emotions will just overwhelm him. He's acting like a washed-up veteran saying goodbye to his favorite local dive bar!!! That's why I've lost all respect for him—because he's treated like some "cult icon" by people. When he gives his blessing, his followers follow, and then the rest of us are just left behind. We won't be a "we" anymore; it'll just be "us vs. them," which is exactly what keeps being repeated. Once those individual egos shrink to a minimum and that massive ego trip finally crashes and burns, then maybe we can actually start over... but hey, those are just two tiny details in this whole circus!!
placidheron16 said:Honestly, every single argument boils down to the same thing: whenever the leadership holds a meeting, they just end up birthing some old version of the Black Knights, whether it’s here on the forum or out in the streets. To be perfectly blunt, I’ve had enough of all of you. This younger crowd running the stands right now—they don't want to involve the kids. Look, the kids are great, but there has to be an understanding of who is actually footing the bill and making things happen. You have to be firm with the younger generation; you need to teach them from day one what it actually means to live this lifestyle, rather than letting them act like children over the last few years, just sitting there while other groups try to boss them around. And hey, legend, looking at those photos of yours, our young guys aren't looking at anyone with any kind of malice; if anything, we're actually craving some friendship and solidarity among us. But how can that happen when that legendary leader promises full support in front of a hundred people at the last meeting, saying he’ll stand with us in the stands, only to show up to the game and spend the whole time mocking us alongside his little inner circle? He claims it’s too hard for him to come to the stands because the emotions will overwhelm him—he’s acting like a washed-up veteran retiring from the pros. My respect for him evaporated once I realized he’s treated like a cult icon. If we have to wait for his followers to give their blessing before the rest of us can actually become "us," then the concept of "us vs. them" will just keep repeating forever. We can only truly start fresh once individual egos are minimized and these ego trips finally crash and burn... but those are just two minor details in this entire circus.
placidheron16 said:this new generation leading the stands doesn't want to mentor the kids. The kids are fine, but they need to learn who pays the bills and who calls the shots. You have to be firm with the youth, teach them from day one how to live the supporter lifestyle, instead of just playing babysitter for the last few years and letting some other guy take credit for them!!
Look, this new crowd doesn't respect the hierarchy. They didn't bother asking the right people; they went behind everyone's back, and now they're begging for support. It's hypocritical. And what happens in two, five, ten years when a new batch of "smart" kids comes along and pulls the same stunts behind their backs? I hope you see my point.
when that legendary leader... there goes the dream because he's a "cult figure" to people. When he gives his support, his followers will follow. Then we'll just be "them" instead of "us." That division keeps happening. Once those individual egos shrink to nothing and the ego trips die down, then maybe we can actually start over.
Jonathan Lewis3 said:👋 👋 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏
That’s exactly it. That’s why I wrote about that whole ego trip. For some people, their own pride matters way more than the success of a group that’s been around for 62 years!
The moment a respected figure acts like this, they just become a clown.
Frank Kim26 said:Find me that one post where I said I’d have them kicked out.😕
And what’s with all this talk about "half-fans" lately? They are supporters just like anyone else, and at the end of the day, we all share that same love for the Los Angeles Dodgers.
wanderingviper14 said:you aren't exactly saying it, but I get the vibe you're hinting that they don't really have anything to complain about when it comes to supporting the club they love, at least in spirit...
I agree that we all love the Dodgers equally, that's what keeps us together. It just bugs me how people try to split us up into different cliques—us versus them, this group versus that group, cowboys versus Indians, hardcores versus casuals. If we're all here to show support, one person does it one way, another does it their own way, and that's fine by me. To me, that's what makes the Red Sox faithful so special and unique...
George Sanchez76 said:Man, you guys have totally been brainwashed with all this "personality cult" talk! I mean, seriously, do you really think there weren't people in the stands way before he even showed up? Are we all just mindless sheep or something? Like, we just let him lead us because we don't have brains? You gotta realize it’s not about him—it’s about other things! If he gives his public support to someone, I’m not gonna give him mine just because he backed a certain person. I don't care about that stuff! I'll give my full support the very second you convince me that you actually know what you're doing and that your work is going to bring some real, high-quality dimension to the group, instead of just making changes for the sake of change or some individual's ego trip. And honestly, you said it pretty well—I might even say I'm begging you—but you guys just can't seem to pull it together for even ten days. Why? Is it because it hurts your feelings, or are you just incapable? Or maybe you put everything on one guy's shoulders, and now that he's gone, you're stuck? Why are you blaming us for the split when we offered an olive branch, provided some things got cleared up first? Or did you honestly think you were created by God's will to lead the group, and we'd all just nod along to these "visionaries" without ever knowing what their actual visions are?
And just one little piece of advice. In situations like this, just go ahead and ask the other side directly what you want to know. Don't just rely on one or two people to pass everything along to you. I could forget something, or maybe they won't understand everything, or if they're being spiteful, they might just leave things out. Either way, you end up missing information that could be absolutely vital.
I guess I wrote way more than I needed to, but whatever, everyone knows everything anyway, so let them know this too. I am just so fed up with all the nonsense about kids, supporters, fights, cheering... none of it has anything to do with the point! Everyone acts like such a hardcore ultra, but half of them don't have a clue what they're even talking about!
"In this world, evil mostly reigns supreme, and stupidity holds the final word!"
George Sanchez76 said:You’ve all been brainwashed by this "cult of personality" nonsense. You honestly think there weren't people in the stands before him? Are we all just mindless sheep following a leader blindly? Get it through your heads: he isn't the point. Other things matter more. If he offers public support, I won't take it just because he backed someone else. I couldn't care less about that. I’ll give my full support the moment you prove you actually know what you're doing—when you show that your actions will bring a new dimension to this group, rather than just making changes for the sake of change or individual ego trips. You practically begged for it, if I do say so myself, but you haven't been able to pull it together in ten days. Why? Is it because it hurts too much, or are you just incapable? Or have you placed everything on one man's shoulders, and now that he's gone, you're lost? Why blame us for the division when we offered an olive branch on the condition that certain things be clarified? Or did you think you were chosen by God to lead this group, expecting us all to just nod along to your "visions" without ever knowing what they actually are?
One last piece of advice. In situations like this, talk directly to the other side to get the facts. Don't rely on one or two people to relay everything to you. They might forget something, misunderstand it, or—if they're being malicious—leave out key details. Either way, you end up missing information that could be vital.
I've written more than I intended, but fine, since everyone thinks they know everything, let them read this too. I'm sick of all the nonsense regarding kids, casual fans, fights, and cheering—none of which is even relevant here. Everyone acts like a hardcore ultra, yet half of them don't have a clue what they're talking about!
"In this world, evil mostly reigns, and stupidity holds the final word!"
Frank Kim26 said:You’re missing the point entirely... people like that just wander around town spreading rumors without having any clue what’s actually happening, or they’ve heard it through six different layers of hearsay (not that I’m talking about this guy specifically, nor am I saying everyone is like that—don't want to offend anyone—but I am talking about his crowd, who just pollute the conversation). They can have an opinion, sure, but they should keep it to themselves. I know a few guys who aren't "core" members but show up at the North Stand regularly and travel to away games; it never even crosses their minds to jump into debates about what belongs in the Chicago Bulls fans or what shouldn't be, let alone posting on a thread dedicated to the Chicago Bulls fans. But clearly, we see things differently. I won't comment on anything else.
Nancy Fisher4;41728250 said:
That’s pretty much the gist of it. Honestly, these current divisions will vanish once the younger guys step up and take charge of the stands. People will realize it's time to move on. I really hope those kids can pull it off.
As for Lekic—people are talking a lot of trash about him right now, but whatever. When things go south, I'm always the first one to call him out. Ever since his move to Cincinnati, he's actually been the biggest supporter because everyone else was busy looking the other way. And look, if he were truly the jerk people claim he is, he wouldn't even bother showing up anymore after being moved. People just love to mock the new guys; it's just how we are. Sudden leadership changes always turn out messy like this. But if the new crew proves they can lead the crowd and handle business, nobody is going to care about Lekic ever again, let alone worry about these internal splits.