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Hey everyone, I wanted to lodge a complaint regarding a moderator... I know this isn't technically about the rulebook, but I figured I’d just drop it here rather than starting an entirely new thread.
The moderator, crimsonsailor7, sent me a Direct Message containing the following—let me quote her:
"You can play dumb all you want and keep giving examples..."
Now, that might not seem like a huge deal on its own, but just two posts prior to that, I hadn't even received a formal warning—not a ban, just a heads-up—stating that my "tone" in my posts was off.
The reasoning provided by the moderator for my supposed tone was this:
"Conversations using phrases like: come on, prove it, I'm listening... write back once you actually have some experience, be more specific, etc."
So, essentially, I'm being flagged for saying things like "come on, prove it, I'm listening, be more specific"—phrases I use in a legal discussion where evidence and facts are the whole point—
yet the person issuing the warning decides to tell me I'm "playing dumb."
In my quotes, there isn't a single insult to be found, whereas calling someone "dumb" is clearly derogatory and insulting.
So, I'm wondering... did the moderator make a mistake here? Or is it now acceptable on this forum to tell people "stop playing dumb" without facing any consequences, while phrases like "I'm listening, prove it, be specific" are treated as violations?
Thanks,
Michael Vaughn2
The moderator, crimsonsailor7, sent me a Direct Message containing the following—let me quote her:
"You can play dumb all you want and keep giving examples..."
Now, that might not seem like a huge deal on its own, but just two posts prior to that, I hadn't even received a formal warning—not a ban, just a heads-up—stating that my "tone" in my posts was off.
The reasoning provided by the moderator for my supposed tone was this:
"Conversations using phrases like: come on, prove it, I'm listening... write back once you actually have some experience, be more specific, etc."
So, essentially, I'm being flagged for saying things like "come on, prove it, I'm listening, be more specific"—phrases I use in a legal discussion where evidence and facts are the whole point—
yet the person issuing the warning decides to tell me I'm "playing dumb."
In my quotes, there isn't a single insult to be found, whereas calling someone "dumb" is clearly derogatory and insulting.
So, I'm wondering... did the moderator make a mistake here? Or is it now acceptable on this forum to tell people "stop playing dumb" without facing any consequences, while phrases like "I'm listening, prove it, be specific" are treated as violations?
Thanks,
Michael Vaughn2