Kate Ward16 said:You’re just fixated on one single thread, even though it was clearly stated that isn't actually what this is about... but hey, if you want to stay stuck there, go ahead...
The issue is that you dismiss anyone who holds a different opinion or perspective than yours. I guess you think that's an acceptable way to communicate, I don't know.
Besides, you just insist on your own way like always, acting like nobody else's input matters. So fine, let everyone above me look at how this is going down and decide if removing you is fair or not. I mean, I can't just belittle people or use veiled insults like you do; that's always been unacceptable on this forum. Long story short—I fully stand by what was done, because your style of communication just doesn't fly with the rules.
Anyone can say something and stay out of trouble. But saying something backed by actual arguments? That takes a certain level of competence.
I get that my way of debating might not be everyone's cup of tea, since I can be blunt sometimes, but maybe you just don't really grasp what constitutes an insult. Attacks or ad hominem fallacies are ungrounded, derogatory comments aimed at someone's immutable traits; things like calling someone stupid based on gender, or making jabs about age, race, or socioeconomic status, etc.
On the other hand, calling someone's opinion stupid might be a bit harsh, but it isn't an insult. And saying an opinion is senseless or illogical—which is all I've actually done here—if you consider that an insult, then we're looking at some brand new definition of an insult that would probably need to be added to a new Penal Code.
And thirdly, here's someone else whose posts have been infinitely more condescending toward other users than mine ever were. It's almost bold of them to even show up here.
We really have all types here.
Matthew Anderson said:1. If a moderator issues a warning across several different threads (like asking the group to calm down, or changing text color), that should be taken as a warning. Just because we leave a post up without banning or flagging absolutely everyone doesn't mean the warning wasn't serious.
2. Same question as before: are you sure it was just one thread that led to a partial ban?
3. Regarding the aunt's argument about the number of forum members being too high, you called it pathetic, yet now you're doing the same thing by claiming a specific number of female users support your views.
4. Statistics and facts are something that, at least on this site, get twisted and manipulated whenever it suits someone. From those famous "at least 90% of people..." claims to "I read it somewhere, it's the stats." (and then citing some "leftist" website).
5. I wasn't calling you someone who can be silenced, but rather someone who thinks they're always right, no matter how much people disagree. Maybe it's just a subjective impression.
I guess there’s a hierarchy here: user, mod, super-mod, admin. So if you disagree with a moderator's call, you don't just decide "it won't happen"; that's up to the higher-ups.
6. There's a report button for a reason. Just because you aren't bothered by insults doesn't mean others will take your (or my...) posts the same way, or that they'll just shrug it off.
1. I'll say it again—quote a specific insult of mine, and we can talk. If it really was an insult, I'll apologize. Anyone can overstep. I don't think I've attacked anyone personally; I've always just reacted to people's opinions. But maybe I'm missing something obvious, so if you think I did, enlighten me.
2. Look, I didn't have much free time back on the old boards, so I'm not sure what other topics you're talking about. Don't lie or twist things. That's just how those Stalinist-style smear campaigns work.
3. I called those arguments pathetic because using a mob mentality as a counter-argument is basically a logical fallacy. If a crowd wants a lynching, that's not enough for you to justify attacking someone. That's just a public shaming. And you clearly missed the point—that was a counter-argument intended to show how nonsensical her logic was. It shouldn't matter who holds which view or how many people agree with them. I'm being accused of insulting people, and I'll say it again: if anyone here actually thinks I did, just show me the quote and I'll apologize if I truly crossed a line.
4. My dear Sophia Thomas7, the statistics I used
are official government data from the United States. If you're questioning those, then I might have to pray for you, even though I'm not religious.
5. That's just your subjective impression, which you're certainly entitled to.
6. Someone getting offended doesn't make something untrue. Tell a thief he's a thief and he'll probably sue you for libel. He might even try to jump you. I suspect that's all this is—just a bit of virtual violence from certain users who can't handle the truth.
Daniel Ward87 said:mistymason1, you're still being one-sided.
Same goes for you. Make an actual argument. Unless you think moderators don't need any justification for their actions.
I'm not saying I have to be sweet, but if you think it's okay to kick someone just because they have a different opinion than the rest, others might not see eye to eye with you.