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Melissa Morris68 said:Wait a second here... First off, I didn't come here to get into a back-and-forth with you, downplay the pain involved, or try to bravely sugarcoat the whole process because I was scared and in pain myself. But I’m telling you, people shouldn't be afraid! I don't understand why you're so terrified of people who are already stressed out just by being sick themselves. Two days of pain followed by a few weeks of recovery is nothing compared to the daily agony of inflamed hemorrhoids and fissures when you're staring at a toilet bowl full of blood every single day. And besides, it looks like you had surgery using the old method! I'm talking about the hal rar method, which is obviously much easier!
Reading through all the posts on this forum, I honestly just didn't know what to expect anymore. Everyone has their own story and their own experience. So, there it is...
There's no fighting going on here. I'm just saying you haven't read my previous posts. I explained everything—the how and the why. I had surgery using the DG HAL RAR method along with surgical anal reconstruction because I was dealing with Stage 4. I'm not trying to scare anyone, I've stated multiple times that you need to see a doctor immediately and get everything handled with the DG HAL RAR method. I mean, if it's caught in the early stages, there aren't any issues. My surgeon even told me about a guy who had the DG HAL RAR procedure during the initial stage; it's non-invasive. That guy was playing soccer after just four days. But if things get stuck like they did for me—because most people wait until they're in the worst possible stage—then you can't expect a lightning-fast recovery. Still, anything is better than suffering. I'll say it again: the discomfort after surgery is significantly, significantly less than the misery before surgery. At the end of the day, how someone gets through it is a matter of individual circumstances and taking responsibility for your own health. To summarize: any reconstruction of the anal area is extremely painful and difficult, but DG HAL RAR is the best way to go, especially in those early stages when the surgeon doesn't have to do as much heavy lifting with traditional methods. In my case, it was a combination...