rowdyhawk10 said:look, I only just stumbled upon this thread, and Radet mentioned you in his opening post as someone who agrees with all those insults he aimed at me, such as:
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Radet Kumitkat says:
this is just another sneaky attempt to shut down a high-quality thread in a very clever way (maybe in the spirit of Ramadan?)
First off, I honestly told you that I hadn't seen this topic yet.
Second, regarding him putting my name in his signature—I haven't read everything yet, but I'll get to it and see what the deal is—I believe it can only mean one thing... that he’s genuinely sorry the topic was killed, and I’ll admit that to him, as Radet is a friend of mine. I think we shouldn't always have to follow the rules "by the book" if the character and nature of the discussion aren't offensive, vulgar, or mindless, because nobody gets hurt; people actually gain something from it, that's all... I mean, if there can be a "picnic chat" that isn't even particularly meaningful and doesn't really belong in the "religion" subforum according to my view, then why couldn't an "Orthodox World" section exist, which is infinitely more meaningful than that? However, as I mentioned, if you absolutely have to stick strictly to the rules, if it truly fails to meet the requirements (I don't know the rulebook by heart, I'm learning as I go... I hate reading through it, I'm lazy... mea culpa!) and if it's really of a nature that it can't stay active according to the regulations, and if it causes such a headache that it ruins the whole concept of the forum, then let it be shut down, no matter how much I regret it...
Third, I noted that I alone, and exclusively me, am to blame for starting this topic, because I should have assumed from all the reasons mentioned above that it would end up being shut down... anyway, I'm sorry that such harsh words were thrown at you regardless of everything... I believe Radet feels bad about it too, because I know he's an honest man, and I trust you have the strength and goodness to forgive another, but also to examine yourself and your own heart—that is, whether you truly do everything with a pure heart and for the sake of the rules, or if the "rules" are sometimes just a screen hiding other things... examine yourself, do it for yourself and for God.
rowdyhawk10 said:You didn't say a single word to him, either agreeing or disagreeing with his mocking comments about my faith and his insinuations full of malice. Besides, nobody is fighting here. Regards.
First, I didn't have the chance to tell him what I wanted to say because he hasn't been on the forum since I've been around, and I only noticed this topic about two hours ago and saw that Radet is banned. I will do what I think is right when Radet and I speak, in the same way I told you certain things, rather than doing it like this.
Secondly, as a normal person and as a Christian, I don't want anyone speaking ugly words or hurling insults at anyone else, regardless of the circumstances, and I explained that to you in my last PP, the reason and the why behind it. I know when, how, and what to say to my beloved brother in Christ; don't you worry about that, because he is indeed my brother in Christ, and I will treat him accordingly—whether I'm criticizing and rebuking him or having a normal conversation, it will always be in the spirit of Christ... the spirit of love. That is how, it seems to me, I try to carry myself toward you too, yet you're either not a Christian or, if I recall correctly, insults toward me have come from your side multiple times when you called me a liar over my story about my experience at the monastery in Studenica. Why would it be any different when it comes to Radet? I hope and believe you understand all this. Regards!