coppergardener
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joined Jun 2006
Oh boy, she really let that one grow out—honestly, I suspect the hair removal process might have triggered this whole mess. Perhaps try posting this in the cosmetics thread on this site or maybe under this topic instead? Who knows, maybe someone else who’s dealt with the exact same thing will chime in. Some women... well, they practically need a scalpel sometimes.
Please, be very careful with hygiene (for both partners)—she shouldn't be picking at it, and she definitely needs to minimize friction. Also, she should hold off on any hair removal for now, especially using an electric trimmer (though some women are sensitive to waxing too, or even just shaving). Once things settle down, switching to sugaring might be a good move; since it follows the natural direction of hair growth, it should help prevent these kinds of inflammations in such sensitive areas. If that doesn't work, laser hair removal is truly the gold standard for those prone to ingrowns, even if it is a bit pricey. And if she isn't comfortable doing it herself, she really ought to leave it to a professional.
It won't do much good to rely on her for advice, but do pick up some antiseptic cream. It would be wise to seek a professional opinion—if not from a private dermatologist, then at least a licensed esthetician. At the end of the day, look, just because you see a doctor doesn't mean you have to head straight to the ER. It could stay like this until Saturday; it might improve, or it might get worse. If it flares up, she'll be stuck racing to an urgent care clinic, which is a nightmare since so many doctors are on vacation right now, and it being the weekend doesn't help either. In the US, it can be quite difficult to snag an appointment with a private dermatologist before Monday or Tuesday—not to mention trying to get into a public clinic! If you're going to wait until it gets bad, please, be proactive and call a private specialist tomorrow to get on their schedule. I'm no expert, so I can't say for sure—especially without seeing it in person—but she might actually need a round of antibiotics.