Douglas King62 said:Thanks for the advice. I'm actually from San Francisco, and there isn't a real maxillofacial surgeon around here. I went to get two different opinions and they were totally different. The last one, Dr. Hodžić, recommended prof. Uglešić. He said he'd try to get in touch with him, though he warned me right away that it might be pretty hard to make that happen. Anyway, at the first exam, they found a palatal cyst in my oral cavity near tooth 7 on the upper left. They told me it needs to be surgically removed and that it’s benign. But then the second doctor said he couldn't tell if it was benign or malignant and insisted I should get a biopsy and just head to Washington, D.C. Honestly, I'm terrified that if he can't reach prof. Uglešić, I'll be stuck on my own. I'm only 24, and I really don't want some inexperienced person messing with this. Please, any info helps.
Look, honey, in a situation like yours, nobody can give you sound medical advice except a specialist. So, grab a plane ticket, get to NYC, and keep badgering them until someone finally sees you. Sometimes the best move is just showing up at a hospital and demanding a doctor take your case. That’s how several situations in my own family were handled. I know you’re totally spiraling right now, but please, try not to let the anxiety consume you—you don't actually know what you're dealing with yet. (I'm telling you this from my own life experience.) If, God forbid, things turn out to be bad, there will be plenty of time to worry then. For now, just take it slow and stay calm, because if you panic, you'll lose your footing entirely. Everything will be brought under control and handled the best way possible.
All I can tell you bluntly is that it doesn't necessarily have to be anything sinister. Granulomas can turn into all sorts of cysts. No one can give you a 100% diagnosis without the necessary tests, but at the same time, I find it hard to believe that first doctor would be so quick to claim it isn't malignant unless he truly believes it based on his experience.
Come on, just stay brave and try to think about how you'll be looking back on this whole mess by this summer!