ironnomad13 said:Yeah, things have been looking up over the last couple of years... before that, it was just constant struggle...
There was that poll recently in the city... on that 8th Floor show. What exactly is a donor card? Most people seemed to have some idea, but...
Does anyone actually have their own DK? Not a single person I asked had one...
Unfortunately...
In my opinion, people here in America are still pretty out of the loop on this topic...
That’s just not true. You could say things were a complete mess about ten years ago, but since then, it's been getting better and better. The percentage of people willing to donate is high, and anesthesiologists in the ICU are getting way better at spotting potential donors. I make sure to specify "anesthesiologists" because in our system, almost all organ donations go through them.
The real bottleneck is more like the Neurology departments, where the doctors there aren't really paying much attention to whether someone could be a donor or not.
I'm not sure if that question about the donor card was directed at me, but it doesn't matter. That whole desperate crying about "having a donor card" really gets under my skin, so let me vent for a second.
Personally, I don't have one. And honestly, why would I? What does carrying a little card have to do with being "informed" or how people responded to that survey?
It basically has nothing to do with it.
Is a donor card some kind of ultimate certificate that officially declares you an "informed citizen"?... give me a break...
Over time, this myth has grown that having a donor card is the ultimate proof that you're "noble," "educated," or some other nonsense like that...
Let me say it again just to be clear: in a legal sense, a donor card means ABSOLUTELY NOTHING. It has about as much legal weight as a Pokémon card or a membership pass to a local gym!
The donor card is really just a clever marketing move by the HDM to promote donation, which can
help ease the burden on a family when they're faced with making a decision regarding a brain-dead loved one whose organs are being considered..
But look, the card isn't meant for showing off or acting superior. I see people waving them around like they're saints and looking down on anyone who doesn't have one—it's honestly pathetic! If someone acts like that, in my book, they're either a total moron with a massive ego problem or they're completely clueless and just talking nonsense.
You can make your stance on organ donation crystal clear to your family and friends without needing a piece of plastic. The most important thing is the connection between the individual and their family, because at the end of the day, it's the family that gives or withholds consent. If the family knows exactly how their loved one felt about it, they won't be torn by guilt wondering, "Would they have wanted this?" If everything is settled within that intimate family bond, do they even need a card?... I don't think so.