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Here we go again... Nepotism is out of control.

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crimsonwolf21 crimsonwolf21 Member
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#61 ·
Anthony Garcia19 said:Look, people don't vote for politicians because they want corruption. They vote because they hope for the opposite—they expect leaders to actually drive the kind of progress that moves society forward.

That’s why I think blaming the public instead of the politicians is a mistake. Politicians are the ones with the actual power to set the direction and make things happen. Most folks just adapt to the reality they're given because, honestly, sometimes that's the only way to get by. Sure, you have those rare idealists who refuse to bend, but their voices are usually too quiet to really shift the needle for the majority...

Oh, give me a break. These two parties have been running the show for 25 years and there is zero—absolutely zero—difference between them. An "avanguard of positive change" in the Republican Party or the Democratic Party? You seriously have a sick sense of humor.
Most people don't even bother showing up to vote—they'd rather stay home than spoil a ballot—and then they have the nerve to whine about being unemployed or begging their parents for cash. It's the same story with people working jobs that don't even pay them. The only ones hitting the polls are the small group of government bureaucrats voting to protect their own cushy perks, while everyone else just stays passive. So what do you expect? It's all just a bunch of nonsense to avoid dealing with reality.
Anthony Garcia19 Anthony Garcia19 Active Member
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#62 ·
crimsonwolf21 said:Oh, give me a break. These two parties have been running the show for 25 years and there is zero—absolutely zero—difference between them. An "avanguard of positive change" in the Republican Party or the Democratic Party? You seriously have a sick sense of humor.
Most people don't even bother showing up to vote—they'd rather stay home than spoil a ballot—and then they have the nerve to whine about being unemployed or begging their parents for cash. It's the same story with people working jobs that don't even pay them. The only ones hitting the polls are the small group of government bureaucrats voting to protect their own cushy perks, while everyone else just stays passive. So what do you expect? It's all just a bunch of nonsense to avoid dealing with reality.

Alright, fair point. But what if everyone actually showed up? People would probably just vote for their own interests again—stuff that outsiders call "privileges." In a society that basically celebrates selfishness in every aspect of life, you can't really expect a different pattern of behavior. That's exactly why we need a political movement willing to rein in that irrational individualism and bring back ideas like unity and cooperation. You can't blame "the people" for the lack of such an option, because "the people" barely exist anymore; we've just become a bunch of isolated individuals who feel powerless to change anything.

The responsibility actually lies with the few informed individuals out there. They should organize somehow—even within the current democratic system—to gradually push for new or even old-school ideas that differ from what's dominating right now. Until that happens, the politicians will remain the main culprits, since they hold all the levers of power and it's entirely up to them whether they use it for the common good or just for themselves.
neonhound18 neonhound18 Active Member
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#63 ·
crimsonwolf21 said:Look, obviously a Swede isn't going to act the same way in Sweden as they would in the Congo. But do we seriously have to aim for Congo-level chaos? It could be better, sure, but there isn't a single real leader in sight who can actually steer this country toward a decent future. Every single option on the table is just more of the same old garbage—basically a fast track to disaster. Things won't get truly alarming until there's nobody left worth saving and the whole system just collapses under its own weight. Is that really what we need?

Of course it shouldn't, though I find myself wondering who, if anyone, would actually implement change. The Republican Party and the Democratic Party likely won't lift a finger until they're absolutely backed into a corner by a total lack of funds, and by then, it'll be far too late. I'd dearly love to be proven wrong, and I truly hope there's at least one individual within those parties possessing even a shred of common sense.
Anthony Garcia19 Anthony Garcia19 Active Member
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#64 ·
neonhound18 said:Of course it shouldn't, though I find myself wondering who, if anyone, would actually implement change. The Republican Party and the Democratic Party likely won't lift a finger until they're absolutely backed into a corner by a total lack of funds, and by then, it'll be far too late. I'd dearly love to be proven wrong, and I truly hope there's at least one individual within those parties possessing even a shred of common sense.

That’s exactly my point: people always hold onto that hope that someone capable will step up. No matter how unrealistic it feels, that hope stays alive because Americans don't actually support corruption, cronyism, or all that other nonsense.
crimsonwolf21 crimsonwolf21 Member
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#65 ·
Anthony Garcia19 said:That’s exactly my point: people always hold onto that hope that someone capable will step up. No matter how unrealistic it feels, that hope stays alive because Americans don't actually support corruption, cronyism, or all that other nonsense.

Waiting for people like that is just like waiting for the Messiah. Who actually has the time to waste their life here hoping for a miracle?
America is burning down right now—we need solutions yesterday, before it's too late—before we lose our entire foundation of knowledge for good.
crimsonwolf21 crimsonwolf21 Member
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#66 ·
neonhound18 said:Of course it shouldn't, though I find myself wondering who, if anyone, would actually implement change. The Republican Party and the Democratic Party likely won't lift a finger until they're absolutely backed into a corner by a total lack of funds, and by then, it'll be far too late. I'd dearly love to be proven wrong, and I truly hope there's at least one individual within those parties possessing even a shred of common sense.

There isn't a single one of them like that. They're all just drunk on power and couldn't care less about anything else. All they care about is how much they can squeeze out of the system while they've still got the mandate—everything else? To hell with it. Seriously, haven't we learned anything yet? It's pathetic.
crimsonwolf20 crimsonwolf20 Active Member
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#67 ·
crimsonwolf21 said:There isn't a single one of them like that. They're all just drunk on power and couldn't care less about anything else. All they care about is how much they can squeeze out of the system while they've still got the mandate—everything else? To hell with it. Seriously, haven't we learned anything yet? It's pathetic.

I think this might be the first time I actually agree with you—you hit the nail right on the head regarding the core issue. The real problem is that when you're running an entire machine fueled by other people's money, nepotism and corruption become almost inevitable—I mean, at the end of the day, it's still just humans running the show. There’s zero accountability because they’ve got a four-year cushion, so they just burn through capital and pile debt onto our kids just so they can live large and fund that massive, bloated, inefficient bureaucracy.

Politics is basically just a bunch of careerists masquerading as public servants while they chase their own selfish interests. But Americans? We still act like the government is some kind of overprotective mother who needs to coddle us, babysit us, and hold our hands forever—even though the state doesn't have a single cent that wasn't already snatched away from the people actually creating real value! God forbid we actually strip those parasites of their power or shut down the massive tap of taxpayer money flowing into their pockets. If you even suggest something like that, suddenly you're some "evil liberal" who wants the Wild West. We have such a deep-seated statist mentality here, and honestly, looking at the political landscape today, any rational person should probably just despise politics altogether.
crimsonwolf21 crimsonwolf21 Member
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#68 ·
Anthony Garcia19 said:Alright, fair point. But what if everyone actually showed up? People would probably just vote for their own interests again—stuff that outsiders call "privileges." In a society that basically celebrates selfishness in every aspect of life, you can't really expect a different pattern of behavior. That's exactly why we need a political movement willing to rein in that irrational individualism and bring back ideas like unity and cooperation. You can't blame "the people" for the lack of such an option, because "the people" barely exist anymore; we've just become a bunch of isolated individuals who feel powerless to change anything.

The responsibility actually lies with the few informed individuals out there. They should organize somehow—even within the current democratic system—to gradually push for new or even old-school ideas that differ from what's dominating right now. Until that happens, the politicians will remain the main culprits, since they hold all the levers of power and it's entirely up to them whether they use it for the common good or just for themselves.

What would happen if everyone stayed home? Maybe we'd see some social responsibility and the maturity to actually have a country you could manage according to a logical vision of success? Walking out and voiding ballots as a form of civil disobedience—if every single option is malicious—is a sign of maturity. Leaving things to chance is just immaturity or lethargy—basically a death wish, because leaving everything to fate is a straight shot to chaos.

I’m sticking to my guns: the responsibility lies with the people. If a nation can't keep its representatives in check, then that nation doesn't have a future. Americans—no matter how uneducated they might seem when they actually get involved in something—will push it through to the end. Around here, whenever anything gets organized, even for serious stuff, it looks like The Muppet Show or some kindergarten for the developmentally delayed. This is going to come back to haunt us—so hard that one day, our kids will be spitting in our faces. I really wish I were wrong.
Anthony Garcia19 Anthony Garcia19 Active Member
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#69 ·
crimsonwolf21 said:What would happen if everyone stayed home? Maybe we'd see some social responsibility and the maturity to actually have a country you could manage according to a logical vision of success? Walking out and voiding ballots as a form of civil disobedience—if every single option is malicious—is a sign of maturity. Leaving things to chance is just immaturity or lethargy—basically a death wish, because leaving everything to fate is a straight shot to chaos.

I’m sticking to my guns: the responsibility lies with the people. If a nation can't keep its representatives in check, then that nation doesn't have a future. Americans—no matter how uneducated they might seem when they actually get involved in something—will push it through to the end. Around here, whenever anything gets organized, even for serious stuff, it looks like The Muppet Show or some kindergarten for the developmentally delayed. This is going to come back to haunt us—so hard that one day, our kids will be spitting in our faces. I really wish I were wrong.

Responsibility is something you learn through upbringing and education; you soak it up from your surroundings. It’s a cultural element that we clearly seem to be lacking...

It’s actually pretty worrying to see that other countries—even those famous for being highly responsible citizens—are also staying home on election day. There’s a global trend of skipping the polls. Honestly, after two centuries of playing this game, it feels like people have realized the whole modern democratic system is so rigged that most folks always end up losing anyway. They feel like nobody is coming to save them unless they do it themselves. So, everyone just minds their own business and tries to get by, while voting feels about as important as yesterday's weather.

Where does that lead? Who knows. Maybe things will spiral so far that global problems hit an impoverished and (sorry, I hate saying this) somewhat clueless majority so hard that the illusion of "every man for himself" finally breaks. We might eventually realize how interconnected we all truly are, which could trigger a massive shift in our values. Only then might we finally see the need to actually work together.
crimsonorca42 crimsonorca42 Active Member
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#70 ·
gentlemoose57 said:Look, it’s rare for politicians to be truly detached from the public. The issue isn't corruption for the sake of being corrupt—it's that the average person isn't part of the "inner circle" getting the perks.

I mean, think about it—how many people would actually turn down a "connection" at a hospital to skip the line, even if it meant taking a bigger health risk? It’s hard to blame someone for being suspicious of corruption when they're practically incentivized to participate in it just to get by.

Bingo. Especially that first point you made. I think I've felt that frustration firsthand myself.

As for the second part, what can I say? Everyone starts shouting the moment someone else cuts in front of them. And it’s not just at the doctor's office. People act outraged when others skip the line, yet they rarely notice themselves doing the exact same thing. To them, it feels perfectly fine. Don't even get me started on people ignoring traffic laws.

I suppose, as a society, maybe we just have expectations that are a bit too high. In everything, really. I think we could all benefit from a little dose of reality. It might be better if we lowered our expectations ourselves before we hit the ground hard.
boldnomad45 boldnomad45 Active Member
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#71 ·
crimsonorca42 said:Bingo. Especially that first point you made. I think I've felt that frustration firsthand myself.

As for the second part, what can I say? Everyone starts shouting the moment someone else cuts in front of them. And it’s not just at the doctor's office. People act outraged when others skip the line, yet they rarely notice themselves doing the exact same thing. To them, it feels perfectly fine. Don't even get me started on people ignoring traffic laws.

I suppose, as a society, maybe we just have expectations that are a bit too high. In everything, really. I think we could all benefit from a little dose of reality. It might be better if we lowered our expectations ourselves before we hit the ground hard.

Spot on. Everyone rants about politicians, yet every single one of my acquaintances uses connections to skip the wait at the doctor. They don't realize that by pulling strings, they're taking a spot from someone who actually needs it. It isn't just them; everyone working in the healthcare system has relatives or friends they push ahead. That mentality is baked into the whole country. It's a societal failure, not just a political one. The culture is selfish and rotten. And this state of affairs is the reward.

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